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    corndog got a reaction from jrstable in 411 on Dannielr in San Diego *new*   
    I tried him out today. His advertised rate is for a therapeutic massage, but his upcharge for sensual or erotic is very small.
    I give him a B+ for the massage, and a B+ for the sensual elements. I will probably repeat, but I'm in no hurry to do so.
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    corndog got a reaction from DallasMuscle in 411 on Dannielr in San Diego *new*   
    I tried him out today. His advertised rate is for a therapeutic massage, but his upcharge for sensual or erotic is very small.
    I give him a B+ for the massage, and a B+ for the sensual elements. I will probably repeat, but I'm in no hurry to do so.
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    corndog got a reaction from mike carey in US-Canada border to reopen!   
    I think that a simultaneous, reciprocal opening would have sent the signal that this was a political/diplomatic decision, and the Biden administration is stressing that these decisions are being made based on science, and based on the advice of the CDC. Assuming that Canada is also following the science and their health agencies, it makes sense that they would operate at different speeds, and the openings would not be simultaneous.
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    corndog got a reaction from thedanNYC in Would you have unprotected sex with someone who has multiple partners and claims to be on undetectable status,?   
    First, I think that you need to completely disregard their claims for your risk assessment. Whether they claim to be HIV Negative, Pos/Undetectable, or a virgin, you should assume, for the purposes of your decision making process, that they're HIV+ with a high viral load. Horny people lie. Or, they are unaware that they're infected.
    So, your actions should be based on the assumption that everyone you have sex with is HIV+ and act accordingly. PrEP has proven to be very effective, but the risk is not zero. Condoms further reduce that risk, but they're imperfect, too. If your risk tolerance is truly zero, you shouldn't have sex with anyone.
     
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    corndog got a reaction from lonely_john in Would you have unprotected sex with someone who has multiple partners and claims to be on undetectable status,?   
    First, I think that you need to completely disregard their claims for your risk assessment. Whether they claim to be HIV Negative, Pos/Undetectable, or a virgin, you should assume, for the purposes of your decision making process, that they're HIV+ with a high viral load. Horny people lie. Or, they are unaware that they're infected.
    So, your actions should be based on the assumption that everyone you have sex with is HIV+ and act accordingly. PrEP has proven to be very effective, but the risk is not zero. Condoms further reduce that risk, but they're imperfect, too. If your risk tolerance is truly zero, you shouldn't have sex with anyone.
     
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    corndog got a reaction from lonely_john in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    It appears that the Hotel Place Dupuis is turning into a Hyatt Place. Their website says they are accepting reservations beginning October 27.
    https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/hotel/canada/hyatt-place-montreal-downtown/yulzm
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    corndog got a reaction from RoyThree in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    It appears that the Hotel Place Dupuis is turning into a Hyatt Place. Their website says they are accepting reservations beginning October 27.
    https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/hotel/canada/hyatt-place-montreal-downtown/yulzm
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    corndog got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    It appears that the Hotel Place Dupuis is turning into a Hyatt Place. Their website says they are accepting reservations beginning October 27.
    https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/hotel/canada/hyatt-place-montreal-downtown/yulzm
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    corndog got a reaction from + 7829V in 411 on Dannielr in San Diego *new*   
    I tried him out today. His advertised rate is for a therapeutic massage, but his upcharge for sensual or erotic is very small.
    I give him a B+ for the massage, and a B+ for the sensual elements. I will probably repeat, but I'm in no hurry to do so.
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    corndog reacted to Rod Hagen in Question to clients: Do you care if the provider is vaccinated?   
    If vaccinations are important to you, then tell the escort you didn't hire him because he wasn't vaccinated.  Tell the client you won't see him because he isn't vaccinated.  Don't let the reason behind your decision go unstated.  That way more individuals will know that being unvaccinated is limiting their options.
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    corndog got a reaction from Jason901 in Living Fresh Recommendations   
    I love NYC; really I do. However, I'm kind of irked that the original poster, @ilovejockstaps, and also @fm0322 both seem to assume (like many New Yorkers) that it is the only place in the universe. The original poster seems to assume that when he mentions "Living Fresh" that readers will know that he's talking about a spa in New York City, and then @fm0322 attempts to clarify by mentioning the intersection of two streets while never mentioning what city we're talking about. This is just about as helpful as saying "it's that place over by the Duane Reade."
     
    I hope no one will take this teasing criticism too seriously, I'm not trying to pick a fight, but is it unreasonable to ask that we all should spend just a moment considering whether our posts are going to make sense to readers before clicking the "post" button?
     
    (And, thank you @Tarte Gogo for the helpful clarification.)
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    corndog got a reaction from Cruiser7 in Masseurs soliciting on Grindr   
    If they include a link to a website in their profile, or in a private message, they can be reported and banned. By directing you to their instagram account, it is more difficult to get banned. In my experience, all these guys will be trying to scam you for a "small deposit" to get your credit card information.
     
    Although I'm not in favor of reporting legitimate escorts and masseurs to get them banned, I aggressively report these scammers. If you tell them that you don't have an instagram account, they'll usually provide a direct link to the scam website. Then, you can report them and get them banned. I do this hoping to prevent them from victimizing a more naive user, and in hopes that if they get banned enough, this scam won't be worth their effort and they'll stop.
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    corndog reacted to + sniper in Why should I care about Covid? I'm vaccinated.   
    I just got my first shot and I will continue to wear masks not because I feel so much that I need to for personal protection, but because there's no way for people to tell who's lying about having had the shot and it's going to be months before enough of the population has had the shot to be able to lift the mandates. I view it as consideration for others rather than safety, and I don't want to give the idiots any more feeling of their being justified in not wearing masks.
    But I will be hopping on a plane in March without any worries about it. And I'll wear the mask on the plane anyway just because I don't want to catch a random cold.
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    corndog reacted to dbar123 in We have a problem, men.   
    Happiness is a vector process....I wasn’t unhappy when I was heavier but being lighter definitely improved my mental state of being.
     
    To say that weight loss has a hereditary component is true but it should not be considered as a cop out to weight loss. It just means you need to be more persistent and methodical to overcome it if you want to achieve that goal, and you need to be willing to change your behaviors to make it work
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    corndog got a reaction from + sincerequeer in Brothels   
    I know of brothels in...
    Sydney: http://www.knightcall.com.au/escorts (seems to be temporarily closed, except for outcalls)
    Amsterdam: https://www.boysclub21.nl/home-eng.html
    London: http://villagiani.uk, discussed in this thread
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    corndog got a reaction from thomas in Client best practices   
    When I arrive early (often 10-15 minutes), I usually text the provider something like "Parking was easier than I expected, and I'm nearby. Text me when you're ready... no rush."
     
    Is this appropriate, or am I still guilty of a social faux pas?
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    corndog got a reaction from CheckCar in Client best practices   
    When I arrive early (often 10-15 minutes), I usually text the provider something like "Parking was easier than I expected, and I'm nearby. Text me when you're ready... no rush."
     
    Is this appropriate, or am I still guilty of a social faux pas?
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    corndog got a reaction from John Doe II in Client best practices   
    When I arrive early (often 10-15 minutes), I usually text the provider something like "Parking was easier than I expected, and I'm nearby. Text me when you're ready... no rush."
     
    Is this appropriate, or am I still guilty of a social faux pas?
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    corndog got a reaction from + robear in Client best practices   
    When I arrive early (often 10-15 minutes), I usually text the provider something like "Parking was easier than I expected, and I'm nearby. Text me when you're ready... no rush."
     
    Is this appropriate, or am I still guilty of a social faux pas?
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    corndog got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Brothels   
    I know of brothels in...
    Sydney: http://www.knightcall.com.au/escorts (seems to be temporarily closed, except for outcalls)
    Amsterdam: https://www.boysclub21.nl/home-eng.html
    London: http://villagiani.uk, discussed in this thread
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    corndog got a reaction from + db66 in Client best practices   
    When I arrive early (often 10-15 minutes), I usually text the provider something like "Parking was easier than I expected, and I'm nearby. Text me when you're ready... no rush."
     
    Is this appropriate, or am I still guilty of a social faux pas?
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    corndog got a reaction from Daverwr in Client best practices   
    When I arrive early (often 10-15 minutes), I usually text the provider something like "Parking was easier than I expected, and I'm nearby. Text me when you're ready... no rush."
     
    Is this appropriate, or am I still guilty of a social faux pas?
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    corndog got a reaction from + RJD in Magic Touch   
    I doubt very much that there is anything more to see. There are probably no masseurs to browse, and once you've handed over your credit card information, I doubt there is anything there.
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    corndog got a reaction from marylander1940 in Grindr (etc.) Code   
    I'm never sure whether that is a diamond indicating an escort, or a crystal indicating drugs.
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    corndog got a reaction from MassageLoverSD in Bed or Table ?   
    I look at this question a little differently...
     
    I think that it's always difficult to discern from ads on the massage sites whether a masseur is really serious about massage or just an "Escort Lite." In my experience, if the masseur is serious, they will offer a table and if they're all about the extras, they'll do it on a bed.
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