Tarheelboy214

Here's my latest NYC masseur collection post. It's been a while since my last POST. I received my vaccination in Dec. Note that these are my massage experiences and may likely be different for you. My photo in my avatar is me since I get asked that question a lot in my DMs. I also don't ask anything prior to any session, no expectations except for a massage, then the magic happens... Feel free to DM me if you need any more info.
 
JESSY
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38800/
This masseur looks so young and barely legal <GASP>. He was very accommodating with his session because I ran late. He was using a Manhattan place for his massage, same as another masseur I’ve been to. He is nice and started the massage in his underwear. He has really smooth skin - totally shaven - and I mean totally <GRIN>. It’s like touching a dolphin LOL. He used a table and in his massage he used long slow but deliberate strokes. I assumed he’s self-taught since although deliberate, there was a randomness throughout the session I don’t speak Spanish so our conversation basically boiled down to hi/hello; you OK/I’m good; thanks/bye. The session also was sensual throughout. It was good overall but I’ll probably not return. However if you like “barely legal-lookin” types then he’s for you. MT and HE.
 
MATTHEW
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40935/
Matthew’s ad really didn’t appeal to me but he was quite close so I said what the heck. He is house sitting in quite a large apartment in Manhattan. As you can see from his photos, he is quite slim (very twinky) and cute. The feel when you get to his place is that this was more of an escort session than a massage one. He also asked permission if he could remove his mask after informing you of his last COVID test. Not sure There was a table in the middle of the living room. The massage was good with Swedish long strokes and a bit of kneading and stretching. He started the massage with his shirt and shorts. It was not really memorable except for the fact that this guy has a big D. Talk about your tall lanky guy stereotypes. He was also on he pricey side. It was good overall but I’ll probably not return. Again if you like twinky types with big D then he’s the guy for you. MT and HE.
 
GREG
https://rentmasseur.com/gregbig
To me, Greg is hot! There’s something about his photos - smoldering face shots, sexy hairy chest and defined body. Just the quiet manly type. He’s all the way in Brooklyn. He greeted me at the door with his shirt off so I got to see his hairy chest right away. His place is cozy and nice with a table set-up in his living room. Again my sense is that he self-taught and his techniques were more deep tissue work than long Swedish strokes. There was also a lot of soft blowing in the ears, nibbling and light kisses which again not sure it was his standard practice but I did enjoy those parts . So overall I left happy and definitely would come back. MT and HE.
 
JESU
https://rentmasseur.com/Jesu_Tantra
Jesu is quite a nice and pleasant guy. He has a table in a barely decorated space. However it was freakin’ cold despite the heater. I just couldn’t relax since my hands and feet were freezing. He was apologetic but unfortunately there was not much he could do since it was a cold afternoon, his place was big and he only had a small area heater. The session was therapeutic throughout and his touch in your nether region were deliberate for therapeutic purposes He’s a bit far up in Manhattan so I may not repeat. He seems to have added tantra now to his name so I’ll wait what other forum members would say with this change.
 
ALEX
https://rentmasseur.com/Alex_bull
Alex was very nice. He shares the same apartment with the other AlexV https://rentmasseur.com/AlexV whom I’ve been to before (see my session experience with him in my other NYC post). He even uses the same room as the other Alex so not sure who owns what. He has a table set-up and starts his massage in his underwear and shirt. You’ll notice that he loves Moschino and Gucci if you scan the room. I would say that the massage was just OK - relaxing with sensual elements. Nothing to tell Mom about but he was very nice and always checks on you. He also asks for feedback on how to make things better. I actually expected someone more masculine and gruff based on his photo poses though. I’ll probably won’t return but may for the other Alex MT and HE.
 
ANTONIO
https://rentmasseur.com/Antoniomassage
Antonio is my main man if I need to be stretched like a dough and twisted like a pretzel. He is just so good and you feel great afterwards. I saw him at his place in Brooklyn since he need those cross bars in the ceiling to do his footwork on your back. Be aware that i’s a shared railroad ground floor unit. He does long Swedish massage strokes, stretching and of course those bone cracking footwork. His hair is a bit manageable and his beard a bit trimmer than what is in his photos. His techniques, although therapeutic, can also veer towards the sensual just because its Thai! If you need a good Thai technique on a table, he’s your man! I’ve been to him several times. The experience is always different. MT and HE.
 
DANIEL
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40954/
Daniel is situated around West Harlem in a very nice apartment unit. Very clean and set up for massage. He is easy to connect via text and looks younger than his photos. He is tall, trim and fit. He does relaxing Swedish strokes on your back with some stretching. He appears to be trained. I really enjoyed his techniques. He started without his shirt, wore shorts and worked on a massage table. It was relaxing with sensual elements. I’ve seen Daniel three times. MT and HE.
 
DANNY
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/4644/
Danny is fantastic. He is a member of this forum. It was so easy to book with him via text. He was still in his place in midtown west but I think he has or int he process of moving. He’s very easy to chat with and we had common interests so we were chatting almost throughout the massage session. We were both naked at the start. He uses long Swedish strokes with some stretching. Thoroughly relaxing and I would definitely repeat. MT and HE.
 
PAUL
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41286/
I’ve went to Paul’s place in Astoria. He has a unique approach to the sessions with Tarot card reading to start to “center the session.” Since I always like anything new or unexpected, it was enjoyable. I believe he identifies as queer and is very comfortable with his sexuality as he said so himself (assumed pronouns: he/him/his). He is nice, caring and since the session was done on the bed, there were a lot of opportunities for holding and cuddling and you’re both naked. A unique session that was part massage, part guided meditation. It’s probably going to be a one and done for me though. HE and MT
 
CARLOS
https://rentmasseur.com/Puertoricanstudd
I saw him at his massage studio in Union Sq East. He has a nice set-up with a table, candles, mood lighting and ambience music. When I walked in, he was only wearing an orange thong-like underwear which came off before the session started. He still is defined and have not lost much muscle despite what another forum member said. I was never skimped on time. He gave me a hug and also checked my temperature (skin not rectal ) The massage though was just OK. Not trained and felt more like “strategically placed body parts on top of your body” most of the time. I do agree that what can happen depends more on connection and chemistry. I can guarantee though that MT and HE will happen.
 
STEBAN
https://rentmasseur.com/Steban
I’ve been to Steban several times. He’s the other Thai practitioner I frequent. He is very nice, a dancer but since COVID, has filled up really nicely and more definition. He works in the USQ massage place and on a floor mattress. He does traditional Thai but with his bikini underwear (then naked) and I do love it. Really trained and works your body like a pretzel. Therapeutic but definitely sensual. I’m sure things do escalate since you’re practically on top of each other most of the time ;D I’ve been to him three times now. MT and HE.
 
MOSES
https://rentmasseur.com/MosesM
I went to his place in Chelsea. Nice small apartment with massage table in the living room area. He is quite sexy with a well defined body. He’s nice and soft spoken. He is trained and massaged and stretched me well It’s relaxing and sensual and he’s naked by the end. I would probably not repeat but ry him though since he’s quite nice. MT and HE.
 
DREW
https://rentmasseur.com/drewsparkles
Gentlemen, I’d like to present to you my boyfriend! I’m quite smitten so I would rather keep him to myself but then again… He’s a nice Brazilian bi guy with his own massage technique and flow. He clearly knows what his clients want and he builds up the session from relaxing to sensual. There’s a lot of ear blowing and kissing that happened in my session. Not that I’m complaining. He works in a nice UES apartment but it’s a multi room and he has roommates. His place is the section from the edge of the living room and balcony so he has a great view of the east River. It’s small but he manages. However if you are afraid that you are living a double identity, it may be best to have him as an outcall although not sure whether he brings his table. You may also have seen him in one of the NYC spas since he works there 3 times a week. He is absolutely adorable with a kind heart. MT and HE.

I reached out to https://rent.men/RyanMitchell once a few years ago. My experience was exactly like that if the OP. Within his second or third message to me, he asked for money for car repairs. When I said that I didn’t give money to someone that I have not even met, he became incredibly rude and belligerent.

Now that is so hot! I have often imagined being uber rich and hosting parties with escorts/porn stars who appeal to me as servants and willing personal assistants for myself and my guests. Guests in black tie, servants nude. CMNM is a huge turnon for me. Anyone interested - on either side?

Probably depends on where you're going and the cost of private dances, if that's what you're looking for. In a club like Swinging Richards, a lap dance out front is $10, in back (non private) $20, and getting into the back room will cost you a one time fee (prob $20-$30 or so, I forget). A 15 minute private dance will run you about $140...$40 to the house and $100 to the dancer. And don't forget cash to tip the guys on stage (a few bucks to show interest...a few more if you're really interested). Plus cash for the cover/door charge and drinks. In short, cash is king. Bring what you're comfortable spending (and stay away from the ATM!!!). If you're thinking about a few 15 minute private dances, you can easily spend $400 to $500 no problem...I"m sure much more. Some may think that's a lot. Some may think it's not enough.
 
My approach with dancers is generally to tip one I like on stage, wait for him to come by and maybe chat a while You'll get a feel for the guy that way. You might get a sense if he's straight or gay (which might matter later), and how aggressive he is. Remember, these guys are here to make money, and a big part of the game is flattery.
 
In a club like SR, on a busy (or not busy) night, guys will be working the floor, trying to drum up private dances. Most of them will ask you if you want to go in the back room for a private. I usually give them a "maybe later, I'm going to hang up front for a bit" Even If I like the guy, I might hang out for a while to get a feel of who's there, and who I might want to splash out cash for a private for. Some of them will be persistent...just be polite and stick to your guns.
 
Being respectful to the guys will go a long way, in my experience. Tip first, and the let the rest go from there. Don't get too handsy (especially if you haven't tipped) up front.
 
It's hard to give advice if you're going to go for a private dance. In my experience, if a guy is straight, or comes off as aloof or "macho" upfront, they're usually not much fun in the privates. The friendlier guys tend to be just that, but don't expect anything more than the dance going in, and don't go for an uncharge after the fact unless you're truly interested.
 
As always, buyer beware. Some guys will play games, especially if you're paying "by the song". If you agree to a lap dance, tell him you'd like 3 songs, or whatever, so he doesn't just keep going and tell you you owe him $100 when you thought you were in for $20.
 
In short...use your head, be nice, don't spend more than your comfortable with, and have fun!

A nude masseur asking not to be touched won’t work with me. I’d be face down at least half the time and even after I turn over, it would be awkward to stare the whole time. It’s the touching and the fondling that counts.

Actually, no. I am a regular client of his, have stayed with him occasionally during lock-down and enjoy his work and prices, which is why I mention him when people say they are looking for Asian masseurs. I had a massage the day I posted. There are quite a few others I could mention, and indeed probably will soon, once I get back into the swing of things!
 
TBH, I am a bit of a novice poster on here, which is probably why it looks that way. You are right to be suspicious though, I am the same lol

My afternoon with Yura was delightful. I’ve never done a body scrub before, so I treated myself to a 90 minute package with Yura that included body scrub and body work. And, it was all a phenomenal treat!
 
From the moment I first met Yura in the lobby, he was warm, welcoming, and friendly. When he asked if I wanted the body scrub first or last, I confessed that I had not ever done a body scrub before, so I didn’t know. He suggested we do it first, and I think that was a brilliant suggestion.
 
Every step along the way, he attended to my comfort, and the body scrub was a really nice way to fully relax and get ready for a massage. It also allowed me to get to experience Yura’s large and warm hands with a variety of really fascinating textures too!
 
After the scrub, Yura helped me dry off and even wrapped the towel around my waist. I thought this was a really charming and unexpectedly sweet gesture.
 
Once on the table, he asked how I liked my massage and gave the option for firm. I told him I played rugby and currently do CrossFit, so my body is torn up and would benefit from a hard massage. He obliged with pizzazz, and Yura did an exceptional job digging into the knots in my shoulders and working over my hamstrings and hips to really loosen and open them up.
 
Beyond providing excellent service, Yura was so sweet with compliments and even asked me questions about my life. Whether he was sincere or not, it felt sincere, and he made me feel really great about myself. And, he made me feel really attractive. He even complimented my eyes after I paid, which was a wonderful parting touch.
 
Physically and emotionally, Yura provided the best massage I have ever had. And, he’s damn good looking himself. I left feeling like a million bucks and would definitely see Yura again!

Please. Move to. America. ??? So much common sense. No pretense. No condescension. Considerate. Sober. Straightforward and naughty. Also BRAINS! Damn, if I don't have a soft spot for brainy, naughty guys coupled with healthy humility and the right "equipment" ??. More superlatives are probably in order, but this is already a bit much, I know. I've already crossed the line?. I think I might be in love, Jamie! ? Keep up the good work!
 
To do list:
 
Trip to London.

Weren't you a lot thinner the last time i saw you? (This was before my covid decrease of almost 60 pounds)

Weren't you a lot thinner the last time i saw you? (This was before my covid decrease of almost 60 pounds)

He looks inviting...

I actually just ask my provider what they would prefer and then go that route. If it is a provider that I know and trust, my personal preference is to send payment via an electronic platform before I arrive. If I wish to tip afterwards, I’ll do that in cash.

(Originally inadvertently posted in the forum RE: 27 spa)
Hello all, I’ll be in NYC for a week or so in about 10 days. I’ve been reading this forum for years and wish to thank you all for both the information as well as the entertainment (speaking as someone living in a less masseur-asset rich part of the country who is otherwise lo ving vicariously through you lucky NYC folks). However, it can be dizzying keeping up with the different spas and the migration of masseurs from ions place to another. On my last visit to the city, I’d hoped to try Simon at Utopia (based upon ethics forum). However, he was not working the day I went. Thus, I was assigned a cute-ish younger guy who gave a nice and friendly table shower and massage. I cannot recall his name... Asian and sort of doughy but cute and friendly. However, I would not repeat. I also have had a lovely experience with Kenzo when he was at Manta. It would repeat that based upon how involved the experience was even though himself Kenzo was a bit rougher in appearance than I typically like.
 
Liike many others on the forum, I rather like the spa experience and the thrill of not knowing entirely what will happen or how it will unfold. I am largely attracted to guys who are slim but defined, at least somewhat reasonably skilled at massage and who would be described as nice (so that the experience is pleasant regardless of how it plays out). To that end, I am curious if Simon (now at ShangriLa if I’m keeping up correctly) is still on the recommended list. I am open to any and all suggestions of you have them. I’m happy to accept DM responses or ones within this forum.
 
Thank you all, again. You have provided hours of enjoyment and research material for this Long time fan.

One thing I like to see in these videos is when the client rolls over. There's something about the anticipation of "is he hard yet?" Much better than the scene cuts. There's a couple videos from the old Buzzwest site where the client's not hard when he rolls over, but gets hard while his front is massaged, even before the masseur goes for the goods.

I’ve seen him here in Raleigh. I agree with the previous post that he still appears to be in his 30’s. I had a great time with him and left him a positive review as well.

He’s cute but sound like a pass to me.

thanks for sharing, might reconsider hiring him post pandemic

I saw him in Raleigh just before the holidays. He was nude at my request. He said that he does not do that often,but he felt comfortable in our pre-meeting conversation so he was ok with it. Not sure if he says that to everyone or not, but he was fully undressed throughout the massage. However, he asked not to be touched. He was super sweet and gave a good massage (solidly good... not outstanding ), but I’d give it a 50% chance of me repeating.

I'd rather top the client, but . . . de gustibus . . . .

I saw the private pics. Nice d*ck!

Responding to the question about 'do it all' escorts, my best experiences have been with the below the radar screen, hot guy next door type of escorts. They tend to be overlooked by many clients because they don't have the big muscle, shaved body physiques that are so much favored in NYC. But they work hard at what they do and give you a genuine connection. Here are three examples in NY:
 
The cuddly Italian. He will make you a great Lasagna to go, his grandma's recipe:
 
https://rent.men/italianboyph
 
The studly ginger real estate broker with the perfect ass and a thick shroom cock:
 
https://rent.men/Ginger_MuscleNYC
 
The Colombian immigrant fitness trainer:
 
https://rent.men/Horus_Uncut

Wow! Thank you for the prompt and thorough response! I tremendously appreciate it.
 
So, a small studio anywhere below Central Park should be acceptable?
 
Housing is the only thing that really worries me. I know how cutthroat it is too find a good place, and I don't have pay stubs or years of tax returns like many demand.

Hi Rudynate!
 
I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
 
Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
 
Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
 
Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
 
Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
 
I hope this helps!

Thanks for that mister
 
A smart escort works in a place where they might be considered a rare commodity.
 
Example: I'd never work in Ireland or Scotland and expect to make bank.
 
Too many escorts equate travel to vacation and not like the business that it should be. They spend more than they make and then wonder how it all went wrong. It's not rocket science, but it does take some foresight, knowing your market, discipline and figuring out costs BEFORE you commit.

I must say I go to this thread to discover videos I have yet to jerk off to, so thank you to @fratphysicals for starting this thread and for everybody else that have been contributing. Not sure if I would consider them the hottest, but I marked these videos as favorites for one reason or another:

Educational Massage Videos: Sensual Handjob for a Massaged Guy and Super Massages Tantra 2 - never learned so many techniques! Wish I could low-key send these videos to my masseurs and see if we could try some of these out on me. And if someone can show me the continuation of that second video (such a tease), you would be my hero!
Masseurs who top: Massage, So dirty gay massage, Bear Massage, Massage & Rimming
Masseurs who bottom: Hot oral gay sex with massage, LucaVisconti - Make Me Happy, NoirMale

Some of these videos have some cheesy storylines, but I love a little bit of cheese. Lol.