VictorMcHugh

I have good memories of Wet Dreams.
It was the only time in my life I opted to fuck a dancer in a back cubicle.

That's on the dancer, unfortunately. I've had dancers hold off on privates because they'll tell me they're about to perform. They'll do their rounds with the tips and then go freshen up, change and even put on a little cologne. Those are the guys that I give fat tips to

I also think they have an order for who may be dancing/performing and sometimes private dances get interrupted because they are supposed to be on stage. I have had that happen a few times with dancers.

I have had some pretty lengthy sessions in the basement rooms at 69. It seems it is up to the guy how long they want to go. I have actually had to end it because it went on so long at times.

This is what you do @gloriouszero - you negotiate ahead of time what’s going to happen in the private and for how much. I suggest starting at 1500 for both nude, kissing, this or that, etc. The negotiations happen over buying the guy a drink or two, hanging out and having fun while you support the dancers. The negotiation is for above and beyond the 500 you pay the bar for the private. Hanging out gives you insight into what’s on the table or not, as well as your connection/vibe, and if you’ll need to go down for a private more than once! If you’re gonna buy them out of working, I’d suggest you offer that for the next night or a weekday night during your stay- that worked well for me. 

No money, no honey!

Alright guys.  I did my service and took the proverbial bullet for 200. 🫡 
This was a pretty bland experience. I’m not sure if this was a language barrier or just general disinterest on his part.  Massage was on a soft mattress in an Air B&B he was renting. Club music played from an iPhone on the nightstand. The massage was focused on my back and shoulders (in fairness, I told Tony I had worked back earlier in the day). But within ten minutes, he was trying to advance things to full service and getting me off. I let him know that I wasn’t interested in the upgrade and that there was no need to rush. I think this threw him off as he didn’t know how to fulfill an hour without either fucking or getting his cock sucked. So out came the Theragun. He used that for a while and then went back to manual massage.  There was also some nuru where he climbed up on my back and then a little more Theragun. At some point, I decided to cut him (both of us?) a break and offered to introduce him to cuddle therapy. He obliged and that’s how we spent the last 20 minutes or so.
Tony has a decent body. It’s not as muscled and toned as his photos suggest but it’s ok. The dick is beautiful. It’s a thick grower and a specimen in vascularity. He’s probably hot in the sack for full service but a definite pass for massage. For me, I just wasn’t up for dropping three bills on him, had he been more muscled…maybe? 🤔 

yes, the guys at Vida La Vida are fucking hot. Quality of massage and extras available vary based on thee guy. Armando is super hot. I always stop and say hi to Rhandy because he's super cute but have not gone with him yet.

yes, the guys at Vida La Vida are fucking hot. Quality of massage and extras available vary based on thee guy. Armando is super hot. I always stop and say hi to Rhandy because he's super cute but have not gone with him yet.

I had a very nice experience at the Hamam. The whole experience was very sensual, lots of teasing throughout the wet sauna and bath and massage. At the end he started to jerk me and then went down on me. It was far more than I expected. I ran into him on the street a couple nights later and we had a nice night.

I am back in PV right now. The guys here still are pretty much into surrounding you and getting you to buy them drinks. I was the only one in there a couple nights earlier this week. I wanted to talk to one guy but his friends kept putting the legs and arms on me, making it hard to connect. I spent way more on drinks than I wanted just to placate them. I did do a private with this very cute Colombian guy with a beard. It was pretty much how a private with a straight muscled man goes, he whipped it out, let me suck it. It was nice but not worth it and left me wanting much more. The manager escorted me to the basement where they recently installed a new room with a jacuzzi, shower and large round bed. You can use the room and have a few dancers and bottle service. I can only imaging how expensive that would get. If they had more dancers that understood the assignment, I would consider it.

I have met many of them where they work. I have met some at bars, stripclubs, spas. It is easy to get their Whatsapp and start chatting. Many are open to meeting for dinner and have invited me to come visit them or do other things in the city with them. Sometimes they will offer a "massage". Sometimes they offer to come over for sex. I maintain contact with several guys I have met down here. Some are very chill and laid back and seem to enjoy hanging out and talking. Some are clearly motivated by the money and forget to pretend to be interested in me. I do try to develop a rapport with people that seem genuine and it can lead to a nice, mutually beneficial arrangement. I come back routinely and meet up with them and it is nice to maintain that connection.

I am back in PV right now. The guys here still are pretty much into surrounding you and getting you to buy them drinks. I was the only one in there a couple nights earlier this week. I wanted to talk to one guy but his friends kept putting the legs and arms on me, making it hard to connect. I spent way more on drinks than I wanted just to placate them. I did do a private with this very cute Colombian guy with a beard. It was pretty much how a private with a straight muscled man goes, he whipped it out, let me suck it. It was nice but not worth it and left me wanting much more. The manager escorted me to the basement where they recently installed a new room with a jacuzzi, shower and large round bed. You can use the room and have a few dancers and bottle service. I can only imaging how expensive that would get. If they had more dancers that understood the assignment, I would consider it.

In January I spent a little too much time in there after getting pretty drunk at Wet and 69 and wanting to shake things up. The guys hang out and smoke weed on the balcony, some pretty rough muscly guys surrounded me. I bought them lots of drinks, they one of them spend a lot of time letting me play with his hard dick, we did a private where I blew him and he forcefully fucked my throat. It was dirty sexy but maybe not my favorite experience. I exchanged numbers with two of them and they kept contacting me, offering to come over for some private time. They take credit cards there which is a little risky. I spent a little too much on drinks for the dancers for sure. If you want a lot of attention and like guys that are kind of beefy and rough around the edges, this might be the right place for you.

I am back in PV right now. The guys here still are pretty much into surrounding you and getting you to buy them drinks. I was the only one in there a couple nights earlier this week. I wanted to talk to one guy but his friends kept putting the legs and arms on me, making it hard to connect. I spent way more on drinks than I wanted just to placate them. I did do a private with this very cute Colombian guy with a beard. It was pretty much how a private with a straight muscled man goes, he whipped it out, let me suck it. It was nice but not worth it and left me wanting much more. The manager escorted me to the basement where they recently installed a new room with a jacuzzi, shower and large round bed. You can use the room and have a few dancers and bottle service. I can only imaging how expensive that would get. If they had more dancers that understood the assignment, I would consider it.

I had a very nice experience at the Hamam. The whole experience was very sensual, lots of teasing throughout the wet sauna and bath and massage. At the end he started to jerk me and then went down on me. It was far more than I expected. I ran into him on the street a couple nights later and we had a nice night.

In January I spent a little too much time in there after getting pretty drunk at Wet and 69 and wanting to shake things up. The guys hang out and smoke weed on the balcony, some pretty rough muscly guys surrounded me. I bought them lots of drinks, they one of them spend a lot of time letting me play with his hard dick, we did a private where I blew him and he forcefully fucked my throat. It was dirty sexy but maybe not my favorite experience. I exchanged numbers with two of them and they kept contacting me, offering to come over for some private time. They take credit cards there which is a little risky. I spent a little too much on drinks for the dancers for sure. If you want a lot of attention and like guys that are kind of beefy and rough around the edges, this might be the right place for you.

In January I spent a little too much time in there after getting pretty drunk at Wet and 69 and wanting to shake things up. The guys hang out and smoke weed on the balcony, some pretty rough muscly guys surrounded me. I bought them lots of drinks, they one of them spend a lot of time letting me play with his hard dick, we did a private where I blew him and he forcefully fucked my throat. It was dirty sexy but maybe not my favorite experience. I exchanged numbers with two of them and they kept contacting me, offering to come over for some private time. They take credit cards there which is a little risky. I spent a little too much on drinks for the dancers for sure. If you want a lot of attention and like guys that are kind of beefy and rough around the edges, this might be the right place for you.

Oh you have those too? I have a slew of boys from PV contacting me all the time, eventually asking for money for some personal emergency.

I had a very nice experience at the Hamam. The whole experience was very sensual, lots of teasing throughout the wet sauna and bath and massage. At the end he started to jerk me and then went down on me. It was far more than I expected. I ran into him on the street a couple nights later and we had a nice night.

I always let them know I don't appreciate crowds of women. Sometimes they let women into 69 but they usually they appear to be friends of the staff and hang out upstairs and tend to behave.

The dancers do get commissions for the drinks you buy them. At 69, they hand them chips for each drink you buy and they cash them in at the end of the night. At Wet Dreams, I think they get a percentage but not sure how it works.
I have been to Antropolgie, Wet Dreams and 69 routinely over the last several years. I think Antropologie just had a remodel done. It was open in May but closed when I was back in October. I have had some fun experiences in Antropolgie, have had sex with dancers upstairs during privates but in general am less impressed with the variety of dancers. Last time I was there a very young looking guy attached himself to me and despite telling him I wasn't interested I could not get rid of him.
Wet Dreams has a lot of dancers and on slow nights they will either corner you and all work you or completely ignore you. I have established arrangements with a few of them. Some I have maintained contact with in between visits to Mexico. They, of course, continue asking for money. I will send a little every now and then but nothing excessive. Some of the guys at Wet are so incredible, tall, muscular and beautiful. It can be overwhelming and some get a little put off if you are direct and let them know you won't be doing a private with them. I have had sex with several in the back over the years. One of my regulars decided to stop talking to me because was upset I was talking to another dancer and then blocked me on all his social media. It was rather confusing. I am never bored there will keep going back. The lady at the bar near the shower gives change but she will only give change for about $40 use at a time, which sucks. The ATM outside the club only gives out US currency.
 
69 has a great variety of dancers. They can be pushy about drinks. Some will come and attach themselves to you when you sit down. I don't mind buying a few drinks but sometimes they invite friends to join, or I am kissing and playing with some dancer and another one will come sit on the other side and start asking for drinks when it is clear I am occupied. I do like the servers, they are friendly. The emcee loudly reminds people to tip or get out, which seems to offend people that are not used to the place. Usually a dance is 500 pesos for the room and the dancer expects AT LEAST another 500 pesos and usually will want more if you have had any sexual contact (same deal at Wet). I have a regular there that I really enjoy and usually spend most of the night at his side. A few of the dancers have a bit of an attitude there and get bothered if you don't want to do a private. I have gone on a couple slow nights when my favorites were not working and agreed to do privates with guys that did not seem to into it. It was disappointing and clear they did not want me touching their dicks, they didn't want to get fully nude and I was like, what is the point?
 
Went to B-Mine when it first opened. It was a slow night and I was talking to a very friendly dancer. He was super nice and I bought him a couple drinks but I wasn't sure what the protocol was and was having such a good talk with the guy that I felt a little shy about suggesting we do a private and ruining the vibe we had. I will be back next month and want to explore B-Mine more.

I spent my last night in Puerto Vallarta at Wet Dreams.  Even though those guys are pushy for tips, I just love their shower 🚿 show.  Even though I didn't buy a private dance on that last night, I spent a fair amount on drinks and tips... Just enjoying watching dozens of gorgeous naked men shower 🚿 less than 10 feet away from me at the bar (one at a time).

Good advice.  I had a fantastic time with a dancer at Wet Dreams in Puerto Vallarta this week.  I asked if he'd be willing to come to my hotel for 4000 pesos (about $200 US.). He countered with 6000 pesos (about $300 US) and I gave him a hard pass. I didn't travel down to Mexico to pay New York City rates.  I re-read posts on this forum and decided that I should look for men at less than or equal to Europe rates.  Lo and behold I found a man on Hunqz for 3000 pesos (about $150 US) and hired a man today from Grindr who asked for 2500 pesos (about $125 US).
 

Sounds like a typical week for me in PV, although I avoid the beach massages. Are there any studios or workers you recommend in particular?