MakeMeCowboy

In my opinion, until the laws and stigma changes with regard to providers I wouldn't render an opinion. While there is an obvious cash advantage I suspect that the dark side is under-articulated here. Let the kid figure it out on his own so that the consequences are his own too.

#NotEvenEight

From a client point of view, the OP was definitely opening price negotiations. As for the provider... we don't really know why he cancelled and making assumptions are traps for those who need to feel like they've made sense of chaos. We all need to accept that bad behavior exists on both sides of the client/provider coin and learn to treat it like water off of a duck's back.

@Mocha - you sound like a nice thoughtful person. I hope it works out for you.

I don't understand where the bottom-shaming comes in... I just find @JEC's definition of terms to line up with my experiences. Talking down to anyone is wrong.

@Mocha... Nope, that was my hope for all. I limited it to print because that's the only ones I can verify. Again, for all, every time 'I assume' anything, 99% of the time I'm wrong. I digress, sorry.

THAT is spot-on @JEC

Well... truth be told (sorry ) I was suggesting that versatile is code for bottom. Now, viagra/cialis may have changed all that but that's been my experience. Always interested in being enlightened.

When I'm in the mood for a top type provider... I don't see any reason to cruise the versatile ads. Agreed?

I hear you... I'll go out on a limb and say that mental-illness is the foundation of most things debated on this forum with equal parts on both sides. Again, focus on the positive and genuinely leave the rest behind. And to those who are willing to put into print that they are thinking about leaving the business (for whatever reason...) PLEASE just do it and save us from hiring a less-than enthusiastic provider. We get tired too.

He's in Philadelphia. Save your money.

Not for me, I lik'em dumb and blond (metaphorically speaking, of course.)

Well, to the extent I'm waxing To my knowledge, no one has emerged to fill the void he left behind.

The cauldron of personalities, mental illnesses, testosterone, levels of education, degrees of ethics, social mores, financial stresses (on and on) are the baseline dynamics of this business and for all involved. When I hear the rants and raves of bad behavior I think ‘Yeah, so?!’ The chances of a smooth transaction are stacked against you. Take a breath… forgive and forget the perps. Focus on the positive transactions and bring that positive energy to your next gig. You’re only one or two bad reviews from being out of business.

I've been curious about MuscleVIP and DutchPR... I think the latter has had some mixed reviews. It will be good to know if they work well as a couple. Thanks!

Damn, what ever happened to Reece Rothmeier?? I was lucky to know him with some familiarity.... as Jimmy.

Well... this is a good start. Thank you.

Guys... can anyone recommend two NYC based tops that work well together with the hiring client? I'm not looking for any 'specialties' but rather letting organic chemistries lead the way. I've asked a couple of individual providers if they could recommend a 3rd but no responses. Any insight/recommendations? Thanks.

While I've wondered these questions, I haven't asked them... I pretty much know the truth. I'd like to know if I should be bothered when I make an appointment with a visiting escort... and I arrive on time just to receive a text from the escort asking that I wait in the lobby for 10 minutes or so while he 'sets up.' It's unfortunate that I read that situation to be that the escort overlapped bookings and sloppy-seconds is now guaranteed. Anyone else feel that way?

Pavel was in my town last week; I booked him and had an awesome time. Just say'in.

In DomNICK's RM profile he mentions working hard now so he can get out of this business... I suspect that he'll be more interested in the clock than you.

Italian Hunk is your basic hustler. He's never had a massage let alone give one. Of course, he tries to upcharge while he's 'massaging...' I paid him and sent him on his way. Omar Cures... he's skilled, sensual and better looking in person. Don't miss him.

Bump

Yep... took the plunge and wouldn't do it again. BS'r.

Bump... he's coming to town.