Nightowl

I saw him a number of times before he left Damascus. He gives a good massage and I’d go back if he was closer. PM me if you want additional details.

Thank you very much for the support. I found this community and man-on-man massage later in life and it has given me the opportunity to learn from men who enjoy other men, as well as first-hand experience physical pleasure with other men. I wish I had discovered both earlier but I’m glad I eventually took the jump.

Enough to grab hold of and have the head sticking out above my fist.

And how does science say such manhood should be measured? I myself prefer the measure-from-where-the-hard-cock-meets-the-the-balls method but others say otherwise.

Unfortunately, most of the fantasies I have, I also *want* to happen but they can’t without causing significant irreparable damage to my life. As a married (to a woman) man, I could never pursue them. My biggest fantasy right now is going to Palm Springs weekend and being surrounded by men who just want to be together, experience pleasure, and be free. And some of them will be naked, including me. It’ll never happen.

I usually book several weeks in advance so I can plan my expenditures. Since I only book massage and only once per month, I can usually set aside the money. Other than good bourbon, it’s my only luxury expense so I make it a priority.

I’ve never watched any of the Marvel or other comic-book-based movies and wonder if I’m overlooking a critical piece of popular culture. The only ones I’ve seen are the first two Deadpool movies. Now that there are shitloads of these movies, I have absolutely no idea where to start watching them. Should I start with the oldest movies? A specific series? Focus on a specific superhero? I’m lost. Any suggestions?

Welcome! Though bigotry and snark do rear their ugly heads on this site, I’ve found it to be, on the whole, a very welcoming site where participants can be themselves. Glad to have you among us.

I’m an Irving fan too, and for most of the same reasons. Another reason for me is the setting. He sets a lot of his books in southern Vermont and I’ve been going there for years so I’m familiar with a lot of the things he describes. He used to live in the area and I saw him in restaurants several times. I’m not sure if I’m remembering correctly but I think his son is gay and I read that he moved to Canada because of the way a recent administration was treating the LGBTQ+ community. I’m currently reading “The Last Chairlift.” Not his best but the themes will be familiar to Irving fans.

I might have to take another look at that movie 😂

This just brings to mind stories of some guy’s penis getting bent the wrong way, necessitating a trip to the ER….

I got an Rx from my doctor and along with it came a coupon that cut the price for 13 25mg tablets down from $240 to $46. I’m hoping I can use the same coupon for refills….

Many years ago my 12-year-old cousin told me I looked like Tom Selleck from Magnum P.I. I’d settle for looking like that again and having any guy who looked like that. As I’ve commented in other postings, give me a guy with a hairy chest any day. I’ve maintained one of my own but it’s not as dark as it once was. Aging’s a bitch.

Absolutely! Who can forget such colors as “burnt sienna,” or as my sister and I called it, “dog-do brown”?

Cock rings, genital piercings, and completely shaved “down there”

I’ve probably done that a few times too.

I’ll second the recommendation of Bliss Bodywork. I’ve seen him 7-8 times and he’s worth it.

Diversity from a single masseur also helps. When you don’t know what he’s going to do during each visit, there’s anticipation without boredom.

The most useful thing to me in a review is when the client waxes poetic about how great the parking is 😂.

@Simon Suraci and @Jamie21 both highlighted the importance of trust and safety in their provider-client relationships. To be able to build those is a rare gift that—in my few years of experience—many providers either do not have or spend no time trying to encourage. It’s no wonder these two gentlemen love what they do and are so highly regarded by their clients.

Mostly silent with an occasional “aaah” when touched in certain spots.

The downside of a prominent Adams apple is that it makes it hard to shave.

Your views are always very insightful. I appreciate the way you view your profession.

Funny, but not particularly helpful. Thanks for playing! 😀

When I first started going for massages using RMass and MF, I didn’t know what to expect or how to behave. At my very first booking, I thought there would be some discussion of what I needed or was expecting but there wasn’t; all I got was an instruction to undress and lay on the table. No draping and the masseur watched as I stripped. I knew then that it was going to be different but I had no idea how I was supposed to behave. Was I supposed to lay there and let what happened, happen, or was I supposed to do whatever moved me? I ended up with the latter and apologized to the provider via text the next day for letting my hands roam too freely over his body. Fortunately, he had no problem with me or my actions and I met with him many times after that. My questions for providers, though, is this: what behaviors do you want and expect from the ideal client? I’m not talking about physical characteristics but about what the client does or doesn’t do that makes for the ideal situation for you. I know grabby clients are annoying so no need to focus on that. What could and does a client do that makes you more inclined to accept bookings from him again?