Nightowl

I get tired of hearing “fuck yeah” in the heat of the moment and “fuck that pussy” completely threw me when one guy used it. I’d rather hear moaning without discernible words.

I tried to schedule with a guy who advertised erotic massage and when I asked for it, he accused me of being an undercover cop and blocked me. I figure if you put erotic in your profile and post nude pictures, you shouldn’t be surprised when someone asks for erotic….

If I end up sucking his dick it’s because I want to. I don’t recall ever going limp or losing interest when I’ve got a dick in my mouth. I’m paying for an erotic experience. Giving someone else pleasure is part of it. If I can make him cum, I go away happy because I know he was into it too. When the masseur is as aroused as I am and I can satisfy him, it’s worth whatever I paid. If all I get is an HE and he remains limp and disinterested, I probably won’t go back. Making the masseur cum is one of my goals.😀

He’s not being penalized. You’ve just opted not to hire him because he lacks one of your hiring criteria, an available mouth. The mask would be a non-starter for me too. (dcguy20 : If you’re actually in the DC area, could you DM me with who this guy is? I might have the same situation since I’m in that area too)

So am I

I’d had a number of really good massages from other guys I found on RMass and decided to hire a guy I’d never gone to before for a 90-minute erotic. After about 10 minutes it was obvious he didn’t know anything about massage but I figured, fuck it, let’s see where this goes. I was a little optimistic because he was naked and had maneuvered his dick into my hand, and didn’t seem to mind where else my hand wandered. After about 20 minutes he flipped me over and started working on my dick. Since it was so early in the massage I didn’t want to let go yet but I couldn’t get him to slow it down. He didn’t seem to understand why I would want to do that. After a few failed attempts to calm things down my body took over and I couldn’t hold back. There was still a lot of time left so he worked my legs for about 10 minutes, then started on my dick again. Though I was hard there was no way anything was going to happen again so quickly. I finally had to stop him and end the session. Nice enough guy but he didn’t know what he was doing. I noticed a few months later that he no longer advertises on RMass.

I always tip generously because I want to send the message that I value the masseur’s time and appreciate what he does for me. In my case—an older but not decrepit man—I want to keep the door open to return, especially when the masseur is in young and in demand and could easily turn down future appointments from a guy who is no longer as hot as his younger clients. I don’t consider his taxpaying practices at all. If a big tip makes me stand out as a desirable client, I’ll keep doing it.

Since I asked the question… -used to go to a guy who would start at my ankles with two-handed up-and-down strokes, moving upward slowly. The anticipation of waiting for those hands to reach my inner thighs and by-then raised hips was unbelievable. -very gentle touching around my hole. I’m not usually a bottom but gentle probing is great -gentle stroking and cupping of my balls. A lot of guys seem to ignore that area, unfortunately.

I usually schedule mid-morning in the hope that the masseur isn’t already spent. Can’t depend on that though. Some masseurs are also active on JFF and they save their load for filming.

Just curious but am wondering what gets fellow hobbyists going during a massage other than direct stimulation? What just doesn’t do it for you?

I never understood the difference anyway. Collapsing it all under “sensual” just says there may be a little more to the massage than muscle relief (wink wink). What happens once you’re on the table is between you and the masseur.

Happened to me recently too. Nice surprise but not common in my experience.

We all suffer from that same dilemma with a new masseur. The first sign that something more could happen might be if you discover his hard cock right next to your hand on the table or if he maneuvers it into your hand. Better yet if you discover his cock near your mouth. If he was clothed when the massage started but is eventually naked, another sign. Signs that you are up for more will probably be dictated by your body. If he touches the right places you’ll get a hard-on, which he will notice. If you’re lying on your stomach and he’s massaging your inner thighs, raising your hips to give him access to your cock also signals openness to extras. Even with all of this, there’s no guarantee he will be as open to extras as you are since he may have four massages scheduled that day. I once tried the direct approach once I was naked on the table: I asked him what the rules were. He said “there are no rules.” Music to my ears.

Wow. Brilliant theory Your last paragraph says it all

His ad says therapeutic only, which is why I’ve never considered him.

The mess turned me off when I saw him a few years ago too. Good basic massage though.

Gym class in high school or participation in team sports used to get you used to being naked around other guys. As schools drop gym class requirements, a lot of guys never have that experience and are shy about their bodies. Add cell phones and the fear of dick pics being surreptitiously posted, and nudity in the locker room becomes a risk.At the gym I go to hardly anyone strips down completely in the locker room and those that do tend to be over 40. I wonder if part of the shyness is our current culture where every body is expected to be firm and every male is expected to sport a cock that is only seen in porn. After the age of 40, a lot of guys don’t give a fuck who sees them or what their body looks like. The ability to throw away any concern about what others think is liberating. I’m over 50 and I get naked at any opportunity.

I’d had several massages with erotic elements but my first true erotic massage rolled everything into one. From the first moments of watching the masseur undress as he watched me, to the final release, everything was memorable. As he massaged the insides of my thighs, I found myself lifting my torso, encouraging him to explore the area further. As I lay on my stomach, he worked on my back and climbed on the table and straddled me. When he turned me over, I was rock hard and he both sucked and stroked me. Throughout it all, he let my hands and mouth roam anywhere on his body, which turned both of us on. It was a thorough massage in the therapeutic sense and erotic in a way that I haven’t experienced since. I’ve been back to see him several times and it is always special.

Try Ron in Martinsburg WV (profile on masseurfinder) if there’s nothing in Hagerstown.

I always try to find someone who is within 10 years of my age in either direction. I haven’t felt underserved or overcharged by anyone because of age—yet—but I’m sure that will happen. I have been a frequent client of a hot guy who is half my age but it may be a unique situation. He’s as into it as I am.

I texted and made the appointment in generic terms, then followed up with an email in rentmasseur saying that I also wanted erotic. No details or specifics. He did say another client spooked him about a lot of undercover cops on the site. I couldn’t convince him I wasn’t one. Kinda bummed me out because I did want to see the guy.

I tried to book an erotic massage with a guy who advertised that as one of his offerings and he freaked when I asked for it, afraid that I was undercover. He canceled the appointment I had and blocked me on the site. There was nothing in the way I asked to scare him and there was nothing I asked for that he did not advertise. His private pictures clearly suggested he was up for that kind of service. Is there a special way to ask for an erotic massage that I don’t understand? Is it better to wait until the appointment to make the request? Special codewords or handshakes, perhaps? Anyone else have similar experiences?

No experience with him but am interested if anyone sees him. Appears to be massage only, no extras.

Saw Charlie a couple of times. He’s a good masseur. His pics and reviews are accurate. Happy to provide more details via PM

Anyone seen Luxtantra in DC? Website is tantalizing.