Nightowl

I’m bi and do both. They each have their appeal. Fortunately I’ve found a couple of guys who have been willing to do both with me.

Sure, meetups of forum members do happen. I recently had a great session with a provider who is also on the forum and lives in my area. I reached out to him on CoM via DM, then arranged details via text. I think a lot of forum members also meet during Palm Springs weekend.

A new target for South Park.

I think his tool is in front of his sack.

I use my regular phone. I have no illusions that it is secure so I try to avoid putting anything compromising in my texts. I vet possible providers very carefully and only hire for incall, which ensures that both of us are discreet. If I were hiring for meetups at a hotel, I would use some kind of anonymizer.

I hire because I no longer have any intimacy in my home and I still crave physical touch. It’s easier to hire to get it than it is to find it elsewhere.

Welcome! A lot of us started the same way. Glad you took the leap.

I like to wear a huge gold medallion on a heavy chain. When I wear it with my sea-green polyester leisure suit with the top 3 or 4 buttons undone, it looks particularly hot nestled in my dense chest hair.

We also need the “why” of who hates whom. That’s the juicy stuff.

I wonder if the zoo has a dispenser by the lion enclosure where little Johnny can buy a hamster to throw to the lions…

You’re right, we can only control our own behavior. Unfortunately , it’s sad to have to accept that this forum can be the same cesspool as the rest of the internet.

Several people have mentioned ignoring the offending posters but on a forum like this—small and geared toward people with common interests—is it unreasonable to ask for some level of tolerance and civility from all members? Yes, there are a lot of assholes on fora throughout the internet who revel in the anonymity and freedom to post whatever vitriol they want, but we don’t have to be like them. Scrolling and ignoring are good options but what’s wrong with expecting ourselves to meet a higher standard when posting and commenting?

While we’re discussing adding characteristics to Rentmen, perhaps the penis size should include elaboration on how it was measured.

Excellent points. I suspect there are community members who refrain from making original posts or even commenting because they know the mean girls are just going to make them regret it.

Glad you’re back. Thanks for your hard work in keeping this valuable forum alive!