I hired him once about 3-4 years ago. I had a good session with him, but like many have expressed, he seems to want what he wants. He DID respect my boundaries, but I felt like I had to work a little harder to get my point across about those boundaries. I am an older guy (60s), 5'9" and about 200, athletically built, white and very cleancut looking. I have light green/blueish which he REALLY seems to like and as such, he routinely reaches out to me whenever he is planning to come to my city (Boston). He's coming here in a couple of weeks so I have been hearing from him more than a few times. I'm reticent to see him again because of all the reasons people have stated. Yes, my first and only experience with him was good, but I always feel like there's something lurking beneath the surface -- I will, as I have in other instances subsequent to first meeting with him - stay away.