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Why do you feel the need to publicize this when the provider is already doing this?  Anyone that looks at his profile and can read English can see this guy for what he is.  Honestly.. this post will probably drive business to him.  You've just given him attention and publicity with your rant.
 
I see you keep bringing in racism to your replies along with ageism.  Please note... they are not the same and are in no way equal isms.
 
Take a breath.
 
Does ageism suck?  yes.
But this is an unregulated field of work.  How many clients don't want to to hire someone that is older than X years?  Why do you think so many providers "age-shave?" 
 
So you insult the guy's looks (so mature) when in fact you probably thought he was good-looking at 1st because you looked at his profile.  I doubt you were inspecting profiles to report for various "ISM" infractions. 
 
So.. what is your plan of action to fix this problem?
 

Why do you feel the need to publicize this when the provider is already doing this?  Anyone that looks at his profile and can read English can see this guy for what he is.  Honestly.. this post will probably drive business to him.  You've just given him attention and publicity with your rant.
 
I see you keep bringing in racism to your replies along with ageism.  Please note... they are not the same and are in no way equal isms.
 
Take a breath.
 
Does ageism suck?  yes.
But this is an unregulated field of work.  How many clients don't want to to hire someone that is older than X years?  Why do you think so many providers "age-shave?" 
 
So you insult the guy's looks (so mature) when in fact you probably thought he was good-looking at 1st because you looked at his profile.  I doubt you were inspecting profiles to report for various "ISM" infractions. 
 
So.. what is your plan of action to fix this problem?
 

so... you would rather book with this guy?  He's being honest and upfront about what he prefers... I think it saves us all a lot of time.  Why spend time and energy on this guy... you think you're going to change his opinion?
And then you go and insult his physical attributes?  I have more an issue with what and how you have said things than this provider if I am being honest.
If you can't have a civil discussion about this topic maybe you should wait to post until you have had a massage.

Why do you feel the need to publicize this when the provider is already doing this?  Anyone that looks at his profile and can read English can see this guy for what he is.  Honestly.. this post will probably drive business to him.  You've just given him attention and publicity with your rant.
 
I see you keep bringing in racism to your replies along with ageism.  Please note... they are not the same and are in no way equal isms.
 
Take a breath.
 
Does ageism suck?  yes.
But this is an unregulated field of work.  How many clients don't want to to hire someone that is older than X years?  Why do you think so many providers "age-shave?" 
 
So you insult the guy's looks (so mature) when in fact you probably thought he was good-looking at 1st because you looked at his profile.  I doubt you were inspecting profiles to report for various "ISM" infractions. 
 
So.. what is your plan of action to fix this problem?
 

Why do you feel the need to publicize this when the provider is already doing this?  Anyone that looks at his profile and can read English can see this guy for what he is.  Honestly.. this post will probably drive business to him.  You've just given him attention and publicity with your rant.
 
I see you keep bringing in racism to your replies along with ageism.  Please note... they are not the same and are in no way equal isms.
 
Take a breath.
 
Does ageism suck?  yes.
But this is an unregulated field of work.  How many clients don't want to to hire someone that is older than X years?  Why do you think so many providers "age-shave?" 
 
So you insult the guy's looks (so mature) when in fact you probably thought he was good-looking at 1st because you looked at his profile.  I doubt you were inspecting profiles to report for various "ISM" infractions. 
 
So.. what is your plan of action to fix this problem?
 

Why do you feel the need to publicize this when the provider is already doing this?  Anyone that looks at his profile and can read English can see this guy for what he is.  Honestly.. this post will probably drive business to him.  You've just given him attention and publicity with your rant.
 
I see you keep bringing in racism to your replies along with ageism.  Please note... they are not the same and are in no way equal isms.
 
Take a breath.
 
Does ageism suck?  yes.
But this is an unregulated field of work.  How many clients don't want to to hire someone that is older than X years?  Why do you think so many providers "age-shave?" 
 
So you insult the guy's looks (so mature) when in fact you probably thought he was good-looking at 1st because you looked at his profile.  I doubt you were inspecting profiles to report for various "ISM" infractions. 
 
So.. what is your plan of action to fix this problem?
 

so... you would rather book with this guy?  He's being honest and upfront about what he prefers... I think it saves us all a lot of time.  Why spend time and energy on this guy... you think you're going to change his opinion?
And then you go and insult his physical attributes?  I have more an issue with what and how you have said things than this provider if I am being honest.
If you can't have a civil discussion about this topic maybe you should wait to post until you have had a massage.

Why do you feel the need to publicize this when the provider is already doing this?  Anyone that looks at his profile and can read English can see this guy for what he is.  Honestly.. this post will probably drive business to him.  You've just given him attention and publicity with your rant.
 
I see you keep bringing in racism to your replies along with ageism.  Please note... they are not the same and are in no way equal isms.
 
Take a breath.
 
Does ageism suck?  yes.
But this is an unregulated field of work.  How many clients don't want to to hire someone that is older than X years?  Why do you think so many providers "age-shave?" 
 
So you insult the guy's looks (so mature) when in fact you probably thought he was good-looking at 1st because you looked at his profile.  I doubt you were inspecting profiles to report for various "ISM" infractions. 
 
So.. what is your plan of action to fix this problem?
 

so... you would rather book with this guy?  He's being honest and upfront about what he prefers... I think it saves us all a lot of time.  Why spend time and energy on this guy... you think you're going to change his opinion?
And then you go and insult his physical attributes?  I have more an issue with what and how you have said things than this provider if I am being honest.
If you can't have a civil discussion about this topic maybe you should wait to post until you have had a massage.

so... you would rather book with this guy?  He's being honest and upfront about what he prefers... I think it saves us all a lot of time.  Why spend time and energy on this guy... you think you're going to change his opinion?
And then you go and insult his physical attributes?  I have more an issue with what and how you have said things than this provider if I am being honest.
If you can't have a civil discussion about this topic maybe you should wait to post until you have had a massage.

so... you would rather book with this guy?  He's being honest and upfront about what he prefers... I think it saves us all a lot of time.  Why spend time and energy on this guy... you think you're going to change his opinion?
And then you go and insult his physical attributes?  I have more an issue with what and how you have said things than this provider if I am being honest.
If you can't have a civil discussion about this topic maybe you should wait to post until you have had a massage.

I think some people would have added to it. but it was mistitled and when brought to the posters attention of how he could do it better., he was a bit of an asshat.,
 

I do not know from personal experience but I follow this guy on twitter
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I think he is just using RMasseur to gain followers for this other more lucrative endeavors.  he has 260K on X (looks like he may have had to start over on IG).  Even if only 2% subscribe to his OF... thats 520 at $10 a month or $5200.  And this is an extremely low estimate.

While he has a great body. his pics make me believe he is auditioning for the travel company of the Rocky Horror Picture Show.  He doesn't even list therapeutic as an option. so I guess at least it would be 60 minutes of touch-a touch-a touch-a touch me.  Based on the travel path of that hair line, I think some of those pics are years apart, but the body looks great in all the pics.  Let us know if you take the plunge.

While he has a great body. his pics make me believe he is auditioning for the travel company of the Rocky Horror Picture Show.  He doesn't even list therapeutic as an option. so I guess at least it would be 60 minutes of touch-a touch-a touch-a touch me.  Based on the travel path of that hair line, I think some of those pics are years apart, but the body looks great in all the pics.  Let us know if you take the plunge.

What an Interesting Educational and calm discussion. I, for one, will be a better patient and Client Because I read through all of the passages above. Thank you To all who contributed.

Maybe there was just a little confusion on the type of facial they were hoping for?  LOL
In all honesty., I for one really appreciate you taking time out of your schedule to show "the other side" of this industry.  As in ANY part of the service industry, you simply cannot make every client happy. I for one really appreciate clear boundaries because it allows the client to enjoy the massage rather than being in their head about what may happen.
Its funny that with an escort, an hour of time is considered just that, an hour of time... but a 60 minute massage session has some clients expecting 60 minutes of table time without any time to greet, undress, clean up and get dressed to end the session.

Maybe there was just a little confusion on the type of facial they were hoping for?  LOL
In all honesty., I for one really appreciate you taking time out of your schedule to show "the other side" of this industry.  As in ANY part of the service industry, you simply cannot make every client happy. I for one really appreciate clear boundaries because it allows the client to enjoy the massage rather than being in their head about what may happen.
Its funny that with an escort, an hour of time is considered just that, an hour of time... but a 60 minute massage session has some clients expecting 60 minutes of table time without any time to greet, undress, clean up and get dressed to end the session.

NO ONE PERSONAL NAMES OR DETAILS ARE MENTIONED IN THIS POST. I AM LEWIS_LMT AND I AM REPLYING TO A THREAD ABOUT ME. THANK YOU.
Thank you to many members who reached out who enjoyed my post when it was originally posted. Happy to keep conversations going with different subject matter in other forums.
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I guess it’s time I enter the chat. For a while, I’ve had clients and peers notify me of this website, and I’ve never paid much attention to it. Many of the comments and postings that I’ve come to privy to (through a client usually) I’ve laughed about.
Example, I’ve read a guy ranting about me because I politely declined wanting my photos taken by an amateur. We had never met. Yet he created a post commenting on my character? Funnily enough, members on the forum called him out on his ridiculousness.
Another recent posting, a mentally unstable Meth user calls me “dense”. How do I know that posting was from the meth user who lit up in front of me at his place? (1) I journal all my encounters (2) No one has ever called me dense in person, then it appearing shortly on a forum to discredit my character. I said no to this encounter, leaving uncomfortable and hastily. Yet I'm discredited because I way extremely uncomfortable....
What I usually take from this website is that some of these client postings/experiences are not at all accurate and, in a small way, for them to mischaracterize a provider and try to discredit them? To me, that always speaks more about the client. But on the other hand, there is no way for other readers to understand the truth.
I'm lucky in the fact that I have a long list of clientele who know me for who I am. My clients outside of this particular world always come first. Hence why it can be difficult to reach me. I would much rather work on one of my oncology clients, my rehabilitation clients, my PT or Chiro client referrals, or my aesthetic clients at my private studio, than take an erotic session. Why? Because I get more satisfaction from my therapeutic work, and I don’t have to deal with a huge portion of flakes, drug users, time wasters, weirdos. Why do I continue to advertise on RM? Because extra income comes in handy when I’m actually available.
Always, I give what I receive. You will read my communication is short on this thread. Correct. Those who communicate with “sup”, “hey”, “what’s up” with no other communication, I just don’t respond. If you are contacting a provider and incapable of basic communication to set an appointment up for yourself, it's not worth my time.
I think what clients have to understand is, you are one person communicating with one person. As a provider, I am one person communicating with 50 on a daily basis. It’s more productive for both to get to the point.
Providers are not also there to sex talk and take up too much time communicating back and forth for it to get nowhere. Time is money. You’ve not paid…yet.
The many, many clients out there who I've enjoyed my time with usually contact like so: “Hi, my name is ….. I’m very interested in booking time with you. I’m looking for XYZ this coming Thursday at 8 pm, would you be available?” This type of communication gets my attention and usually ends up being a very successful encounter.
I just got back to Chicago. I snowbird in the winter. Today I decided (because I have the time and I was notified again of a posting on my name), that I would respond on this thread. And give a better understanding of some of the recent comments made.
In the last 5 days, Ive taken a few RM clients. A few were regular clients. @Umichdude93 would be a new client and the newest posting here.
@Umichdude93 has contacted me twice before. I never delete my messages. It’s also how I keep track of past events. They have scheduled twice before. No-showed twice before. Costing me time and money. When looking up their info, I see I am not the only provider this client does this to. This encounter I played with him, just like this client has played in the past. You receive what you give. When I realize he actually showed. Third time's a charm, I guess. I met them. They asked for an erotic massage. (Nude, mutual touch, release is what I offer) He didn't want what he booked. I told them, I explained my services and costs. They said okay. He got what he wanted, he paid, he left. It was short.
This is me personally. If you are booking a massage and I’ve given you my rate, that’s what the service will be.
If you want something else, it's going to cost differently. I communicate this every time. 
Expectations should always be met, I do not wish to feel uncomfortable. Therefore we’ve usually had good communication about our session and are aware of the expectations, plus a price has been agreed to.
Do not come into a service without full communication of what you are wanting/expecting. Don’t be sneaky in thinking you’re going to get something if we have not discussed it. You will leave disappointed.
I've had many clients I’ve stopped and said “hey if you want to changed what we have spoken about, these are my rates” given them my rate, and they have declined, and we have continued respectfully.
Have there been times where I’m personally into the guy (I do like grey-haired older men) and will hookup for fun outside of my massage service? Yes, but that is my choice.
A few others I wish to reply back to on this thread to clear a few things up.
@questbear I remember our time together, also date and time (I journal). Appreciate the compliment. I did not short you on time. You had a left rotator cuff issue. I spent time therapeutically working that shoulder for you. You were a very nice person. You did, without asking, put your mouth around below. Because you were very sweet, I did let it slide. I didn’t charge you extras or stop you. Again, that was my choice to let it happen. At the end of a service, I leave 10 min for you to release. You released very quickly. You went to the bathroom to clean up. I too went to the bathroom to wash my hands. When coming back out of the bathroom. You were half dressed. Yes, there was 5 min left on the clock… but I wouldn’t say I shorted you on time. That is a mis representation of the session.
@DC Otter You are one of those clients with beautiful communication and a very, very nice human in person. I thoroughly enjoyed our experience. Price correct and all expectations met/fulfilled.
@Chads I’m 5’7  Had a great session with you also. Thank you
@MassageDrew - Thanks for booking a therapeutic massage. You did indeed miss the details in booking online on my professional account.
At that time, booking a 60 min massage the title was called - **$125 - 60 mins Heal, Repair & Rehabilitation**
The description being - “This is NOT a full body massage. This massage is for injuries, healing and rehabilitation. If you are currently seeing a PT or Chiropractor, this is your massage. We will thoroughly work on the areas that need your most attention.”
Secondly, during the covid19 mask mandate, I offered all my clients to go maskless. Your head being in a headrest with a mask on is uncomfortable. I took my mask off while my clients were face down. When face up and working on face, neck and shoulders, my mask would go on. I think that’s considerate and thoughtful considering the climate at that time and me seeing multiple clients a day.
Thirdly, Thai massage is a lot more physically demanding and way more than “stretching”. It takes a further toll on the therapist's body and it is an advanced skilled technique that required further paid training hours after school and state board exams. Therefore, these massages are always charged at a higher rate. If you check out spas nationally, you will find that massages based on skill levels are at different rates. A Swedish will never be the same rate as a deep tissue or Thai.
@Jayson03The same as @MassageDrew, you also booked online via a professional website. You booked a COMBO Massage/Facial.
Firstly, the facial is always after the massage. I would never do a full facial and then flip you over face down in a headrest. That's bizarre! 
Secondly, It stated in the description of the COMBO service - “Massage 60 mins, NOT a full body massage. We will focus on a couple of problematic areas. (Which we did) Facial 60 mins. Depending on your extractions facial can extend more than 60 mins, time will be taken from massage time”
Thirdly, tantric massage was advertised because I was getting a lot of requests. Therefore, I advertised it. Not due to a low customer return rate. Thank you.
@dctraveler His massage was not cut short. He got exactly what he booked and paid for. Yes, doing a combo service or any service is very physically demanding. Thank you for understanding that. Jayson03 did not read what he booked.
Hopefully this post gives more clarity to this thread. Appreciate you reading.

While I understand and appreciate a selfie (especially unfiltered) these pics make the provider look shorter than his listed height of 6ft.  He definitely looks fit

i think you're thinking about someone else.  Not only are the pics accurate, he actually sent a current pic via text so you knew who you were meeting with.  

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