Ageist gay masseur ad in L.A.

[JeffsterLA]

I just saw this ad, where the “masseur” states that 60 and over should look elsewhere. This, despite the fact that he’ll see 18 year olds when he’s 36. 
 

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I’m younger than 60, but I think this form of public ageism is so offensive. I’m sure this same “masseur” would find offensive people judging gays. If the provider doesn’t want to service a certain protected group (which I think is illegal btw), he should keep his big mouth shut and not advertise it. We don’t need more gay men hurting others based on race and age just to get their dicks off. 
 

If you agree please email this “masseur” and voice your displeasure with his ad, like I did. 

[rojjodc]

The ad did say "clients above 60 will have a better experience elsewhere, thank you."  While I certainly agree with you (and I am over 60), I would think it is best to move on to another masseur.  He's probably more interested in sex as he does not even advertise his rate.  He's also new so we will see how long he lasts as some new providers are "flighty."  I saw a RM ad saying that they only wanted naturally born men, and while I am a naturally born man, I would not use that provider either.

[JeffsterLA]

The ugly big nose pussy already blocked me instead of replying to my complaint about his ageist ad. 

[JeffsterLA]

Just now, rojjodc said:

The ad did say "clients above 60 will have a better experience elsewhere, thank you."  While I certainly agree with you (and I am over 60), I would think it is best to move on to another masseur.  He's probably more interested in sex as he does not even advertise his rate.  He's also new so we will see how long he lasts as some new providers are "flighty."  I saw a RM ad saying that they only wanted naturally born men, and while I am a naturally born man, I would not use that provider either.

I’m not saying what is best for you. I’m saying publicly stating in an ad your ageist or racist preferences is unacceptable. 

[Zimby]

so... you would rather book with this guy?  He's being honest and upfront about what he prefers... I think it saves us all a lot of time.  Why spend time and energy on this guy... you think you're going to change his opinion?

And then you go and insult his physical attributes?  I have more an issue with what and how you have said things than this provider if I am being honest.

If you can't have a civil discussion about this topic maybe you should wait to post until you have had a massage.

[+ azdr0710]

22 minutes ago, JeffsterLA said:

The ugly big nose pussy already blocked me instead of replying to my complaint about his ageist ad. 

That's his reply. 

[JeffsterLA]

13 minutes ago, Zimby said:

so... you would rather book with this guy?  He's being honest and upfront about what he prefers... I think it saves us all a lot of time.  Why spend time and energy on this guy... you think you're going to change his opinion?

And then you go and insult his physical attributes?  I have more an issue with what and how you have said things than this provider if I am being honest.

If you can't have a civil discussion about this topic maybe you should wait to post until you have had a massage.

Wow! Ok. So I’m sure when a restaurant owner says they don’t approve of gay marriage or when a Christian says that homosexuality is a sin, you are ok with that?

[JeffsterLA]

15 minutes ago, Zimby said:

so... you would rather book with this guy?  He's being honest and upfront about what he prefers... I think it saves us all a lot of time.  Why spend time and energy on this guy... you think you're going to change his opinion?

And then you go and insult his physical attributes?  I have more an issue with what and how you have said things than this provider if I am being honest.

If you can't have a civil discussion about this topic maybe you should wait to post until you have had a massage.

Why don’t you READ? I said I find it harmful and hurtful for him to publicly discriminate against a protected class. Who said I wasn’t being honest about his physical attributes too? You’re ok with his “honesty” about being ageist, but not mine about his physical looks? What is your problem girl?

[marylander1940]

42 minutes ago, JeffsterLA said:

I just saw this ad, where the “masseur” states that 60 and over should look elsewhere. This, despite the fact that he’ll see 18 year olds when he’s 36. 
 

BigVikingHands on RentMasseur

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I’m younger than 60, but I think this form of public ageism is so offensive. I’m sure this same “masseur” would find offensive people judging gays. If the provider doesn’t want to service a certain protected group (which I think is illegal btw), he should keep his big mouth shut and not advertise it. We don’t need more gay men hurting others based on race and age just to get their dicks off. 
 

If you agree please email this “masseur” and voice your displeasure with his ad, like I did. 

Attitude it's a turn off.... at the same time at least he's upfront about him not taking all potential clients. 

I know many escorts who prefer someone over 60 in shape instead of someone younger out of shape! 

Considering he's a masseur and not an escort who will kiss, make love, fuck/get fucked, etc. why does he care about the age of guys he'll simply massage?

What was the name of the guy who had "no blacks" in his ad in Annapolis? 

 

[marylander1940]

5 minutes ago, JeffsterLA said:

Wow! Ok. So I’m sure when a restaurant owner says they don’t approve of gay marriage or when a Christian says that homosexuality is a sin, you are ok with that?

Or a baker!

I think in all cases is a bad business practice specially considering how competitive everything is now a days. 

[marylander1940]

40 minutes ago, JeffsterLA said:

The ugly big nose pussy already blocked me instead of replying to my complaint about his ageist ad. 

I think he has some attitude but it's his business, you're not the only turned off by him. 

16 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

That's his reply. 

As they say, no reply is a say reply, and so is blocking!

 

[bryanlaw]

it is up to him how he wants to promote, I personally would like to know my boys preferences so i can pick the ones that are going to have a good time with me. if he was just after the money he would take all clients but it looks like he wants there to be a mutual connection. and I can search for the right guy or make a profile with my age and let boys find me. sometimes these woke buzzwords _ism _phobia just create problems that aren't real problems.

[+ azdr0710]

@JeffsterLA   I see you joined the forum a week ago last Thursday......you'll find plenty to "trigger" you here in the forum if this guy's ad has already upset you.....though his preference is somewhat selfish, he's running a private operation and can run it the way he wants......he has politely stated his position and those upset by it can do the mature thing and just move on......

[JeffsterLA]

5 minutes ago, bryanlaw said:

it is up to him how he wants to promote, I personally would like to know my boys preferences so i can pick the ones that are going to have a good time with me. if he was just after the money he would take all clients but it looks like he wants there to be a mutual connection. and I can search for the right guy or make a profile with my age and let boys find me. sometimes these woke buzzwords _ism _phobia just create problems that aren't real problems.

I didn’t ask for your opinion; I’m telling people who are offended by public displays of discrimination against a protected group to complain. If you approve of all the isms and phobias (which I doubt you do when those are used as a weapon against you) then don’t complain to him about his ad. Again, I didn’t ask for your opinion regarding you believing his ad is a time saver to getting your dick off.

[Cooper]

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[+ azdr0710]

41 minutes ago, JeffsterLA said:

You wouldn’t be saying that if it was a restaurant or baker against gay marriage. That would not be your position. Don’t be a hypocrite. 

actually, I would!......I'd simply not patronize that business (unless their food is really good!) and would go to one that does and possibly publicize the fact the other business is intolerant.....hypocrisy has nothing to do with it!

Edited March 24 by azdr0710

[bryanlaw]

2 minutes ago, JeffsterLA said:

Again, I didn’t ask for your opinion regarding you believing his ad is a time saver to getting your dick off.

You wrote your words in a forum full of other men who hire boys, with a response form underneath. we have experience and taking this position here is very much asking for opinions. didn't you call a man an "ugly big nose pussy"? his original post isn't even ageism. it's thoughtful to help older clients find a masseur who is into older

[Cooper]

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[JeffsterLA]

24 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

actually, I would!......I'd simply not patronize that business and would go to one that does and possibly publicize the fact the other business is intolerant.....hypocrisy has nothing to do with it!

You say you would “possibly publicize the fact that the other business is intolerant.”  That’s all I am doing here: publicizing the fact that a masseur has expressly stated in his ad that he doesn’t want clients older than 60. 

[MikeThomas]

I am over 60 and don't regard myself as being part of a protected class.  I like the fact he is honest.  It saves me from a mediocre experience.  I just wish the hot 30 something Latinos I lust after would stop calling me papi!

[Zimby]

7 minutes ago, JeffsterLA said:

You say you would “possibly publicize the fact that the other business is intolerant.”  That’s all I am doing here: publicizing the fact that a masseur has expressly stated in his ad that he doesn’t want clients older than 60. 

Why do you feel the need to publicize this when the provider is already doing this?  Anyone that looks at his profile and can read English can see this guy for what he is.  Honestly.. this post will probably drive business to him.  You've just given him attention and publicity with your rant.

 

1 hour ago, JeffsterLA said:

I’m not saying what is best for you. I’m saying publicly stating in an ad your ageist or racist preferences is unacceptable. 

I see you keep bringing in racism to your replies along with ageism.  Please note... they are not the same and are in no way equal isms.

 

Take a breath.

 

Does ageism suck?  yes.

But this is an unregulated field of work.  How many clients don't want to to hire someone that is older than X years?  Why do you think so many providers "age-shave?" 

 

So you insult the guy's looks (so mature) when in fact you probably thought he was good-looking at 1st because you looked at his profile.  I doubt you were inspecting profiles to report for various "ISM" infractions. 

 

So.. what is your plan of action to fix this problem?

 

[JeffsterLA]

3 minutes ago, Zimby said:

Why do you feel the need to publicize this when the provider is already doing this?  Anyone that looks at his profile and can read English can see this guy for what he is.  Honestly.. this post will probably drive business to him.  You've just given him attention and publicity with your rant.

 

I see you keep bringing in racism to your replies along with ageism.  Please note... they are not the same and are in no way equal isms.

 

Take a breath.

 

Does ageism suck?  yes.

But this is an unregulated field of work.  How many clients don't want to to hire someone that is older than X years?  Why do you think so many providers "age-shave?" 

 

So you insult the guy's looks (so mature) when in fact you probably thought he was good-looking at 1st because you looked at his profile.  I doubt you were inspecting profiles to report for various "ISM" infractions. 

 

So.. what is your plan of action to fix this problem?

 

Now we are engaging in the oppression Olympics where racism allegedly rules supreme, as if women and the elderly have not been discriminated against just as much as people of color. How mature. 
 

I’ve posted his ad and I encourage people to exercise their first amendment right to complain to him about it. If you have a problem with that, or you think racism deserves priority, I’m sorry, but that’s just too bad.