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I find it really helpful to put the city in the title.  I like to browse the forum and when I see a thread with my city's name in it, I will click on it.  
Even if the provider is not in my city currently, the information is still helpful because then I know that he will occasionally travel to my city and I can be on the lookout for him.
 

The percentage of times when the city does match vs when the city no longer does because of provider's travel is far greater, so it really is much better to put city in the title.

Beyond cities, you may want to keep track of when and where major bodybuilding competitions (NPC, IFBB, Mr. Olympia) are occurring. Unlike gay circuit parties, this is when bodybuilder providers are looking for financial support to attend and compete in these events, which can be signified by an uptick in RM ads to those cities.

I would also recommend searching the forum for best practices provided by experienced members how to approach and communicate discreetly with bodybuilders on social media or other channels. Good luck!

 

Can we please respect providers' privacy? Posting their birthdate and city of birth seems way too invasive to me. It sucks that those websites exist that seek to identify porn performers by their real name and other personal details like those that were posted above. I guarantee you that these individuals don't want those details out there. A lot of that info is extracted by using facial recognition software and people-search websites. It's not cool and I hope CoM can at least come to an agreement on respecting these details that should be private.

I'd be curious how much alimony he'll get for that year. That alone might be enough to set him up for life.
Even without a prenup he probably won't get much else.
Oh, and David... call me, handsome 😘. I have a thing for bespectacled men with their name on concert halls 🤩

Can we please respect providers' privacy? Posting their birthdate and city of birth seems way too invasive to me. It sucks that those websites exist that seek to identify porn performers by their real name and other personal details like those that were posted above. I guarantee you that these individuals don't want those details out there. A lot of that info is extracted by using facial recognition software and people-search websites. It's not cool and I hope CoM can at least come to an agreement on respecting these details that should be private.

While there are valid arguments for/against, I think putting the city in the subject line is a good idea. The OP can always change the title of the thread if it becomes irrelevant or out-of-date. Moderators can do the same if made aware of it.
One thing that does NOT work in the subject title is to enter a URL link to the provider’s ad/site. Looks messy, and the link won’t work.

There is no harm in stating your limits in your ad. You have a full time job, you’re only available evenings and weekends, you’re not always able to even answer requests during business hours, and because of it you need to plan ahead and can only take a few clients a week. As a client, I am not put off by this at all. What I am bothered by is having to pull that information out of somebody piece by piece. There have been times where I was only available on weeknights or mornings or a specific day. Having all the information up front saves everyone time and effort. 

I have seen him - he is very much the Nixon we know from Sean Cody. He was just in town (Seattle) for the day so we wound up meeting at my place. His time is expensive, which I expected given who he is, but I was also paying his highest rate. He was extremely pleasant, conversationally and otherwise. I really enjoyed my time with him, even if I found myself a little more starstruck than I was expecting. I recommend him, if you're comfortable paying an escort rate for a massage and more than that for more. Happy to talk further in PMs although I am not on here regularly.

It appears he's back under a new name
https://rent.men/Latinmusclemexi

The book even covers dildos! (If I remember correctly, it suggests keeping only your favorite one.)

The book even covers dildos! (If I remember correctly, it suggests keeping only your favorite one.)

The book even covers dildos! (If I remember correctly, it suggests keeping only your favorite one.)

The book even covers dildos! (If I remember correctly, it suggests keeping only your favorite one.)

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.
Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.
I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.
Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.
I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.
Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.
I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.
Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.
I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

that is why I also don't read the interview portion!......silly questions little better than the interview portion of a beauty pageant....
however, many here will remember Russ from Brooklyn's cynical replies to these tired questions....his witty and savvy answers turned that questionnaire upside-down! 
https://rentmen.eu/Russ_NYC/interview/
 

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.
Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.
I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.
Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.
I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.
Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.
I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.
Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.
I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection.
Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here.
I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

@savantsavI never asked for a deposit from you and I never ask clients for deposits!?!? What happened to me wasn’t my fault, but it was my responsibility to rectify how it impacted you. The record shows my good faith efforts. The record shows your assumptions and choice to see ill intent where it doesn’t exist.