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How do openly gay/bi men feel about men who are not out?  Is it like wearing a scarlet letter?  

I like lots of deep, "mouth action" prior to the main events! Oh so damn enhancing!

Absolutely!!! but holding it for a minute or two to swish it round in my mouth is like carefully savoring a fine white wine.
 
 
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When I have seen him while traveling he has had a table.   

Jeremiah is one my favorite providers.  Also, in my top 5.  

Or maybe your friend sits in a dark room at night watching TV secretly eating pints of Haagen Daz.
Haagen Daz Coffee.
I've uh... heard that people have done things like that.

deep kissing does it for me. One time I made out with a masseur for 60 minutes instead of getting a massage.  best afternoon ever.

deep kissing does it for me. One time I made out with a masseur for 60 minutes instead of getting a massage.  best afternoon ever.

deep kissing does it for me. One time I made out with a masseur for 60 minutes instead of getting a massage.  best afternoon ever.

Has anyone had a masseur who stood them up, or canceled last minute for a flimsy reason? I swear one guy saw me waiting by the door to his apartment building, didn't like what he saw, and ghosted me.  Actually this probably happened twice to me.  
 

With the recent path my life has taken, I have found it helpful to try to focus on upbeat things, especially humor (a relative term to be sure). Some of my close friends have taken to sending me jokes. I thought you might like to see a few.
If there is interest perhaps I will post some more along the way.
You might have a joke that would make me laugh out loud, so feel free to add it to the thread.
 
Here are few for today:
 
A college teacher reminds her class of tomorrow's final exam. "Now class, I won't tolerate any excuses for you not being here tomorrow. I might consider a nuclear attack or a serious personal injury or illness, or a death in your immediate family, but that's it, no other excuses whatsoever!"
 
A smart ass guy in the back of the room raised his hand and asked, "What would you say if tomorrow I said I was suffering from complete and utter sexual exhaustion?" The entire class is reduced to laughter and snickering. When silence is restored, the teacher smiles knowingly at the student, shakes her head and sweetly says "Well, I guess you'd have to write the exam with your other hand."
 
And then....

A passenger in a taxi leaned over to ask the driver a question and tapped him on the shoulder. The driver screamed, lost control of the cab, nearly hit a bus, drove up over the curb, and stopped just inches from a large plate glass window.
 
For a few moments everything was silent in the cab, and then the still shaking driver said, "I'm sorry but you scared the daylights out of me."
 
The frightened passenger apologized to the driver and said he didn't realize a mere tap on the shoulder could frighten him so much.
 
The driver replied, "No, no, I'm sorry, it's entirely my fault. Today is my first day driving a cab. I've been driving a hearse for the last 25 years."
 
Finally........
 
What's the difference between love, true love and showing off?
Spitting, swallowing and gargling.

Yeah, not much of a choice.  But Southern Maine is great for most anything else.  I'm from there.

I've never been stood up or canceled, but being honest, I do a lot of research and I don't hire based on looks alone. I care more about their dedication to massage. Communication matters to me, so I'm not a good fit with the iphone/text-only types. They get discarded immediately. I don't own a smartphone, and I don't know how to text on my flip-phone. I actually hate cell phones, and I only carry mine for emergencies. Too many guys on these gay massage sites are only looking for easy sex and money. A true massage professional is not likely to judge you based on your looks or your body type. It's not realistic to expect these HE guys to behave like true professionals. They are in a class by themselves.

I’ve been getting massages maybe for the past 5 years or so and only been stood up once happened once.
I arrived at the hotel at the agreed time.
I sent a text and he gave me the room number.  I made it to his room and knocked….I actually heard him to come to the door…..and NOTHING. I knocked once more. NOTHING. A bit surprised/shocked..I sent a text….NOTHING. 
I will admit in the moment I felt a way but reminded myself this is all apart of the game/experience. And 30 mins later I found another masseur in the SAME hotel on a different floor. 😫😬🙃

Has anyone had a masseur who stood them up, or canceled last minute for a flimsy reason? I swear one guy saw me waiting by the door to his apartment building, didn't like what he saw, and ghosted me.  Actually this probably happened twice to me.  
 

Has anyone had a masseur who stood them up, or canceled last minute for a flimsy reason? I swear one guy saw me waiting by the door to his apartment building, didn't like what he saw, and ghosted me.  Actually this probably happened twice to me.