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    d.anders got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in LEO_NYCBest   
    He's licensed and affordable. Thank you for the head's up.
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    d.anders got a reaction from + Italiano in LEO_NYCBest   
    He's licensed and affordable. Thank you for the head's up.
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    d.anders got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Should I hire the same guy for massage?   
    I usually don't enjoy when people make assumptions about me, or take advantage without asking my permission, but horny sexual activity usually wins the moment. In this day and age, only a fool would cross or ignore unspoken sexual boundaries, but horny fools can be a lot of fun. I have experience with two licensed massage guys who decided to "jump" on me without knowing anything in legit spa environments. One guy was crazy horny (I assumed), and I was not attracted to his face or cock. At one point, he insisted I suck his cock, and I refused. He gave a great, strong massage, with major, helpful stretches. I think I saw him one or two more times, but he couldn't control his aggressive, horny state, so I stopped going to him. The other guy waited to the very end. Without saying a word, he shifted gears and worked to get me aroused. Not only was he a great masseur, I was attracted to him. I later thanked him for the surprise. I was traveling, so I knew I would not see him again.
    No matter what, I've never gotten on a massage table with clothing on. For me, that's a red flag for strange. I have asked to be draped, because I don't enjoy getting cold. I don't have modesty issues, and I'm mostly up for a sexual surprise. So contradictions exist.
    Way too many talented fish in the sea to prevent moving on. But minds change. If you get erect just thinking about the experience, then I would probably return for more. Sometimes, certain details can grow on you, and then no attraction becomes some attraction. If there is no chance of replacing his talent, and sex is a no for you, then you need to be honest with him. But given that strong erection, and that super quick orgasm, it sounds to me like johnny had fun, and wouldn't mind more.
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    d.anders got a reaction from thomas in If I Had Legs I'd Kick You, now on HBO   
    I like Rose Byrne. I think she's very talented. I'm glad she's receiving accolades for her work. I'm surprised this movie got financed. I found it very depressing and a challenge to watch. Haven't seen Christian Slater in a very long time. Did not know he was in the film. I was also surprised to see Conan O'Brien in an acting role. He seemed perfectly cast.
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    d.anders got a reaction from Runningguyindc in 411 on Souza in NYC   
    Bed massage only. Tier priced, "deep" being the most expensive. LOL. Did not answer question about license. I'm assuming no serious massage here.
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    d.anders got a reaction from Aaron 90 in Should I hire the same guy for massage?   
    I usually don't enjoy when people make assumptions about me, or take advantage without asking my permission, but horny sexual activity usually wins the moment. In this day and age, only a fool would cross or ignore unspoken sexual boundaries, but horny fools can be a lot of fun. I have experience with two licensed massage guys who decided to "jump" on me without knowing anything in legit spa environments. One guy was crazy horny (I assumed), and I was not attracted to his face or cock. At one point, he insisted I suck his cock, and I refused. He gave a great, strong massage, with major, helpful stretches. I think I saw him one or two more times, but he couldn't control his aggressive, horny state, so I stopped going to him. The other guy waited to the very end. Without saying a word, he shifted gears and worked to get me aroused. Not only was he a great masseur, I was attracted to him. I later thanked him for the surprise. I was traveling, so I knew I would not see him again.
    No matter what, I've never gotten on a massage table with clothing on. For me, that's a red flag for strange. I have asked to be draped, because I don't enjoy getting cold. I don't have modesty issues, and I'm mostly up for a sexual surprise. So contradictions exist.
    Way too many talented fish in the sea to prevent moving on. But minds change. If you get erect just thinking about the experience, then I would probably return for more. Sometimes, certain details can grow on you, and then no attraction becomes some attraction. If there is no chance of replacing his talent, and sex is a no for you, then you need to be honest with him. But given that strong erection, and that super quick orgasm, it sounds to me like johnny had fun, and wouldn't mind more.
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    d.anders got a reaction from Nue2thegame in Should I hire the same guy for massage?   
    I usually don't enjoy when people make assumptions about me, or take advantage without asking my permission, but horny sexual activity usually wins the moment. In this day and age, only a fool would cross or ignore unspoken sexual boundaries, but horny fools can be a lot of fun. I have experience with two licensed massage guys who decided to "jump" on me without knowing anything in legit spa environments. One guy was crazy horny (I assumed), and I was not attracted to his face or cock. At one point, he insisted I suck his cock, and I refused. He gave a great, strong massage, with major, helpful stretches. I think I saw him one or two more times, but he couldn't control his aggressive, horny state, so I stopped going to him. The other guy waited to the very end. Without saying a word, he shifted gears and worked to get me aroused. Not only was he a great masseur, I was attracted to him. I later thanked him for the surprise. I was traveling, so I knew I would not see him again.
    No matter what, I've never gotten on a massage table with clothing on. For me, that's a red flag for strange. I have asked to be draped, because I don't enjoy getting cold. I don't have modesty issues, and I'm mostly up for a sexual surprise. So contradictions exist.
    Way too many talented fish in the sea to prevent moving on. But minds change. If you get erect just thinking about the experience, then I would probably return for more. Sometimes, certain details can grow on you, and then no attraction becomes some attraction. If there is no chance of replacing his talent, and sex is a no for you, then you need to be honest with him. But given that strong erection, and that super quick orgasm, it sounds to me like johnny had fun, and wouldn't mind more.
  8. Agree
    d.anders got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Should I hire the same guy for massage?   
    I usually don't enjoy when people make assumptions about me, or take advantage without asking my permission, but horny sexual activity usually wins the moment. In this day and age, only a fool would cross or ignore unspoken sexual boundaries, but horny fools can be a lot of fun. I have experience with two licensed massage guys who decided to "jump" on me without knowing anything in legit spa environments. One guy was crazy horny (I assumed), and I was not attracted to his face or cock. At one point, he insisted I suck his cock, and I refused. He gave a great, strong massage, with major, helpful stretches. I think I saw him one or two more times, but he couldn't control his aggressive, horny state, so I stopped going to him. The other guy waited to the very end. Without saying a word, he shifted gears and worked to get me aroused. Not only was he a great masseur, I was attracted to him. I later thanked him for the surprise. I was traveling, so I knew I would not see him again.
    No matter what, I've never gotten on a massage table with clothing on. For me, that's a red flag for strange. I have asked to be draped, because I don't enjoy getting cold. I don't have modesty issues, and I'm mostly up for a sexual surprise. So contradictions exist.
    Way too many talented fish in the sea to prevent moving on. But minds change. If you get erect just thinking about the experience, then I would probably return for more. Sometimes, certain details can grow on you, and then no attraction becomes some attraction. If there is no chance of replacing his talent, and sex is a no for you, then you need to be honest with him. But given that strong erection, and that super quick orgasm, it sounds to me like johnny had fun, and wouldn't mind more.
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    d.anders got a reaction from + Yellowrod in Deodorant for a first date?   
    Pheremones have long been known to stimulate psychological and physiological arousal factors. Apparently, the apocrine glands in the pits and the groin, and the vomeronasal organ in the nose communicate with each other. Sometimes, they sing songs that cause erections, while other times someone vomits. It's a scented game of chance.
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    d.anders got a reaction from pubic_assistance in KaiJohansson in NYC - name change from KaiJohnson   
    I think he's hot as hell. Does anyone know what those armpits smell like after a workout? I could use a nice warm pit smothering in this frigid cold we are currently enduring.
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    d.anders got a reaction from Luv2play in Father/son OF?   
    They are both hot, IMO. Very controversial, for sure. Controversy loves attention. There is no question that "daddy" fantasies in porn make a lot of money. Are there legal issues? This is the sort of controversy that will drive some people absolutely nuts.
    With the internet economy being what it is, was this not inevitable?
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    d.anders got a reaction from soloyo215 in *"Straight" providers   
    I have always assumed it meant they can get a strong erection at the smell of a vagina, and the taste, too. Women's armpit scent is not the same as a man's. That's the thing with pheromones, you can't force them to be gay or straight. Sexual excitement is very organic, and very individual. It can depend on many factors. Almost never a black and white situation.
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    d.anders got a reaction from soloyo215 in *"Straight" providers   
    My former partner was a successful hairdresser. He would always say the customers who tipped the most received the best service. However, that didn't mean the biggest tippers stood among his favorite clients. It's a funny thing how that worked.
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    d.anders got a reaction from soloyo215 in *"Straight" providers   
    The fantasy almost never matches the porn scene, unless the guy is bi, and he's into you. The truth is, there are a lot of sexually curious men among us. There are also many guys who dislike labels, and have no interest in being labeled. I have been sexual with men who identify as straight. I don't recall any of them who had the desire to kiss, but they enjoyed sucking, or at least licking my shaved cock. I've never experienced a "straight" guy who wanted to lick ass, but there are many bi guys who do.
    I can do without the gaping hole photo, but I sometimes wore a thong in the 70's, especially at a summer pool. I used to enjoy my fully tanned body, until I realized I enjoyed a tan line more. Also, if you don't have a drag persona, or at least a drag name gifted to you by a gay friend, it's highly likely we won't be close friends. I absolutely love masculine men who embrace their feminine self.
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    d.anders got a reaction from Luv2play in *"Straight" providers   
    The fantasy almost never matches the porn scene, unless the guy is bi, and he's into you. The truth is, there are a lot of sexually curious men among us. There are also many guys who dislike labels, and have no interest in being labeled. I have been sexual with men who identify as straight. I don't recall any of them who had the desire to kiss, but they enjoyed sucking, or at least licking my shaved cock. I've never experienced a "straight" guy who wanted to lick ass, but there are many bi guys who do.
    I can do without the gaping hole photo, but I sometimes wore a thong in the 70's, especially at a summer pool. I used to enjoy my fully tanned body, until I realized I enjoyed a tan line more. Also, if you don't have a drag persona, or at least a drag name gifted to you by a gay friend, it's highly likely we won't be close friends. I absolutely love masculine men who embrace their feminine self.
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    d.anders got a reaction from Nue2thegame in Deodorant for a first date?   
    Pheremones have long been known to stimulate psychological and physiological arousal factors. Apparently, the apocrine glands in the pits and the groin, and the vomeronasal organ in the nose communicate with each other. Sometimes, they sing songs that cause erections, while other times someone vomits. It's a scented game of chance.
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    d.anders got a reaction from + jeezopete in Hot New (Gay) Hockey Series on CRAVE   
    Regarding Connor on upcoming SNL, another interesting take from PR professional Waylon Tate.
     
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    d.anders got a reaction from BSR in Hot New (Gay) Hockey Series on CRAVE   
    Regarding Connor on upcoming SNL, another interesting take from PR professional Waylon Tate.
     
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    d.anders got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Hot New (Gay) Hockey Series on CRAVE   
    It appears to be true. Hosting Feb 28. Amazing.
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    d.anders got a reaction from CADreamer in *"Straight" providers   
    My former partner was a successful hairdresser. He would always say the customers who tipped the most received the best service. However, that didn't mean the biggest tippers stood among his favorite clients. It's a funny thing how that worked.
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    d.anders got a reaction from + Italiano in Deodorant for a first date?   
    Pheremones have long been known to stimulate psychological and physiological arousal factors. Apparently, the apocrine glands in the pits and the groin, and the vomeronasal organ in the nose communicate with each other. Sometimes, they sing songs that cause erections, while other times someone vomits. It's a scented game of chance.
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    d.anders got a reaction from + claym in Deodorant for a first date?   
    Pheremones have long been known to stimulate psychological and physiological arousal factors. Apparently, the apocrine glands in the pits and the groin, and the vomeronasal organ in the nose communicate with each other. Sometimes, they sing songs that cause erections, while other times someone vomits. It's a scented game of chance.
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    d.anders got a reaction from + Just Chuck in Good Samaritan? Do you stop or go?   
    I'm the Good Samaritan. I can't chase a dog, but if I've seen that you've fallen and can't get up, I will try to offer help. Throughout my decades in NYC, I have helped many people in distress. No regrets. I have called 911 several times to report a possible death on the sidewalk. Sometimes you can't tell when a drug addict is breathing. I tend to believe in treating others as I wish to be treated. I fear one day being that person on the ground, and I hope and pray someone will come to my rescue when it happens.
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    d.anders got a reaction from ThirdEye in KaiJohansson in NYC - name change from KaiJohnson   
    I think he's hot as hell. Does anyone know what those armpits smell like after a workout? I could use a nice warm pit smothering in this frigid cold we are currently enduring.
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    d.anders got a reaction from + Charlie in Good Samaritan? Do you stop or go?   
    I'm the Good Samaritan. I can't chase a dog, but if I've seen that you've fallen and can't get up, I will try to offer help. Throughout my decades in NYC, I have helped many people in distress. No regrets. I have called 911 several times to report a possible death on the sidewalk. Sometimes you can't tell when a drug addict is breathing. I tend to believe in treating others as I wish to be treated. I fear one day being that person on the ground, and I hope and pray someone will come to my rescue when it happens.
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