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There is no law against being a precious a-hole. There is a law against discrimination, but I doubt he has anything to worry about. This is like calling the cops and screaming "kidnap" when one of the HE spas retaliates against a client for refusing upsells.
Ad-nauseum or not, it's good for men on this board to see over and over again who is worth our attention and who is not. Just because Cam-Cam has been good to you, doesn't mean he's worth the risk.

The penis is a fake. They talk about it in interviews. I watched both versions and I could not tell any difference between the two.

The penis is a fake. They talk about it in interviews. I watched both versions and I could not tell any difference between the two.

I saw it last night. Absolutely dreadful. I wish I could get my $46 back. The best (and only) jokes are in the previews. I can't believe how lame this movie was, considering the astounding hype. The NYTimes should be ashamed. RuPaul and company attempted to make another Airplane, but failed miserably. Maybe some straight people will find this lame crap funny.
There is plenty of hungry talent here, which begs the question, what the fuck were the writers thinking? Except for the few jokes that appear in the trailer, the script was awful, and not funny. Most of the film is stupid, with the most childish antics. Almost every attempt at humor falls flat. In my audience, there were no hearty guffaws. No applause at the end. Even the bloopers during the credits failed. They weren't funny enough.
I think the film is a rip-off. It tries to copy a 70's cult classic, and fails to deliver anything remotely close. It's not even worth watching on streaming. A boring dud.

That's not a dick, that's a weapon of mass destruction.

I agree. More like purple balls and cock. I think this is the first time I've seen Jan Kosto be so sensual with another guy. He's a super talented massage therapist, but for me, he's a little too rough around the genital area. I know a lot of guys like it rough, but I would be in agony, worried that he might rip my old man rectal skin.
In the shower video, I'm surprised they couldn't find a slightly larger shower to film in. The bathroom hardware was a little too close to the wet, naked junk for my liking. This was a bad accident waiting to happen.
But damn, talk about a truly sensual session from beginning to end of shower. Just to have a hot man bathe you like that in a shower. Truly amazing. You don't see this very often, not as good as this, and the actual experience is very rare. I hope this changes in the future, and I hope massage guys learn from Kosto what the true definition of sensual really is.
And here's an incredible idea, you don't need to be gay to provide this service. Any straight massage therapist, who truly wants to elevate and cater to his gay clientele, can learn from this video. This massage/shower service is worth a fortune.

That's good. Being aggressive and greedy is a surefire way to kill the future. I find gentle, respectful conversation to be very helpful. Guys who are good at massage tend to be sensitive men. They will appreciate you being vulnerable, and they will most likely be honest in return. Asking about escorting is an easy way to get a sense of where he stands. Money can be a great motivator, but some guys won't cross certain boundaries even for that. Whatever you do, don't disrupt what you have. It's very rare, and good things don't last forever.

Sorry, but that analogy doesn't work for me. "Dress code" in a restaurant is an instruction, it's not a judgment. Restaurants don't care about who made your dinner jacket, or how you look in it, as long as you're wearing one. This is not the same thing as a sex worker attempting to discriminate based on looks.

I couldn't bring myself to watch the trailer because of the info you provided in the title. One of my favorite YouTube film critics reviewed the movie yesterday. Based on the info in your title, I could not watch the review. It's my own version of boycotting. I think you can call it a pet peeve. I'm the same way with reading the newspaper now. If certain words or names appear in an article title, I will skip the article and move on. Funny thing, if I don't know anything about the subject matter, I may open something and give it a chance. I wasn't always like this. LOL, this is what old age has done to me.

One would think that all customers would agree that they are part of this community, and that they could be counted on for support. Sadly, many men would run in the opposite direction when faced with confrontation.
I'm hearing more and more that gay marriage is on the chopping block to-do list. Why would anyone with a brain think gay sex workers and their clients would be safe under any circumstance?

Reading this thread makes me wonder, how many younger gay guys can afford health insurance? How does a sexually active guy pay for all these drugs and doctor visits? I guess a lot of cities have free or low-cost clinics for gays, but if you're sexually active, how often does one have to visit? Doesn't this routine tire quickly?
I have a dear, younger friend (late 30's) who is probably a sex addict. He's what many would consider a hot top, and Grindr is a big part of his life. He told me several years ago that condoms were dead among younger gay men. 
So many of us who survived AIDS in the 70's and 80's still live with that trauma. I'm so glad I'm not young and horny anymore.

He looks promising to me. Thanks for all the info.

One would think that all customers would agree that they are part of this community, and that they could be counted on for support. Sadly, many men would run in the opposite direction when faced with confrontation.
I'm hearing more and more that gay marriage is on the chopping block to-do list. Why would anyone with a brain think gay sex workers and their clients would be safe under any circumstance?

I sure do treasure those memories. I saw a lot of bouncing cock in my gym classes. Visuals that still turn me on to this day.

One would think that all customers would agree that they are part of this community, and that they could be counted on for support. Sadly, many men would run in the opposite direction when faced with confrontation.
I'm hearing more and more that gay marriage is on the chopping block to-do list. Why would anyone with a brain think gay sex workers and their clients would be safe under any circumstance?

OMG, if that's basic, then I've always been doomed.

I saw it last night. Absolutely dreadful. I wish I could get my $46 back. The best (and only) jokes are in the previews. I can't believe how lame this movie was, considering the astounding hype. The NYTimes should be ashamed. RuPaul and company attempted to make another Airplane, but failed miserably. Maybe some straight people will find this lame crap funny.
There is plenty of hungry talent here, which begs the question, what the fuck were the writers thinking? Except for the few jokes that appear in the trailer, the script was awful, and not funny. Most of the film is stupid, with the most childish antics. Almost every attempt at humor falls flat. In my audience, there were no hearty guffaws. No applause at the end. Even the bloopers during the credits failed. They weren't funny enough.
I think the film is a rip-off. It tries to copy a 70's cult classic, and fails to deliver anything remotely close. It's not even worth watching on streaming. A boring dud.

LOL. Today's NYTimes has Stop That Train as a Critic's Pick. I haven't read the review because I'm seeing the movie on Monday.
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/06/11/movies/stop-that-train-review.html
The headline reads: "Gleefully Going Off the Rails"

Two weeks only at the City Center, June 17-28. Probably the most gay show in town. The two stars seem to have amazing chemistry. I'm glad the talented Billy Porter found a gig he could sink his high-heels into. 2 weeks seems such a waste. I hope this a try-out for investors. I could see this thing being a smash on Broadway, giving Jellicle Ball a run for the money.
I wish I could afford to go. It seems most tickets are gone due to subscriptions. Anyone here going?

It really is a tough call for sexually active gay men, especially those who watch a lot of porn. Real life is not porn.
I had a partner since college, and my partner wanted monogamy (long before gay marriage). I truly loved him, so I gave him what he wanted. Never cheated. I never had to worry about STDs or anything else. Never had any. After my partner died, and I started getting HE massages, I really had to think about the risks I was willing to take. Since I was a much older man when I became single again, it was easier for me to be more disciplined. If you limit your partners, and limit your unsafe activity, the numbers are in your favor. However, with lots of anonymous sex, life becomes a greater gamble.

Reading this thread makes me wonder, how many younger gay guys can afford health insurance? How does a sexually active guy pay for all these drugs and doctor visits? I guess a lot of cities have free or low-cost clinics for gays, but if you're sexually active, how often does one have to visit? Doesn't this routine tire quickly?
I have a dear, younger friend (late 30's) who is probably a sex addict. He's what many would consider a hot top, and Grindr is a big part of his life. He told me several years ago that condoms were dead among younger gay men. 
So many of us who survived AIDS in the 70's and 80's still live with that trauma. I'm so glad I'm not young and horny anymore.

It really is a tough call for sexually active gay men, especially those who watch a lot of porn. Real life is not porn.
I had a partner since college, and my partner wanted monogamy (long before gay marriage). I truly loved him, so I gave him what he wanted. Never cheated. I never had to worry about STDs or anything else. Never had any. After my partner died, and I started getting HE massages, I really had to think about the risks I was willing to take. Since I was a much older man when I became single again, it was easier for me to be more disciplined. If you limit your partners, and limit your unsafe activity, the numbers are in your favor. However, with lots of anonymous sex, life becomes a greater gamble.

Amazing that he was forthcoming with the truth. We live in a time when truth no longer matters, especially to the desperate. People say whatever they want, if it gets them what they want. Shame is gone, along with accountability. I mean, to say you've been doing Thai massage for eight years, when you're lying, and probably charging a significant rate...what kind of person is that?

Really? I'm waiting for people to take to the streets, screaming their heads off. I wonder what the hundreds of homeless on 14th Street think about the "adjusting for inflation" argument? For the first time in my NYC life, I'm seeing young women with a baby in their lap on the street begging. And no they are not Black. You'd have to be blind, or willfully in denial not to see what is going on right now.

We drove past a gas station in Manhattan yesterday. The price was $6.90 a gallon. My electric bill this month has never been higher, and I seriously don't use much electricity because my apartment is too bright. IMO, the world has gone insane.