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All blocked. Doesn't sound like this is a common occurrence...maybe it's just me! 😀

Yes to your first question, yes to your second question and yes to your third. This time it was to cover getting some food because he was tapped out moving to a new place. The one before was because he couldn't afford his hotel bill. This one irked me in particular because up to this point everything was very professional. I thought it took a lot of nerve. Specifically he asked for $35. I lent money to my best regular once because he had a car accident and was in a pinch to get a car. I trusted him since I knew him for a year and a half and it worked out fine. This guy has never even met me in person.

How often do you have providers hitting you up for money? Today was the third time I had a provider I have not yet met hit me up for money for general expenses. To me it is awfully ballsy to do this and earns them an instant block going forward. The part that gets me this time is this is an established local provider that has good reviews. I was having good dialogue with this guy and had a day to meet setup then I get a text today to confirm that meeting and ask for money. Am I overreacting about this?

It's getting near a year and his profile only shows 205 visits. That seems way off base too.

Wow, he is smoking. I'd love some time with him but he's more than I think I can handle! 😀

Anyone with recent experience? He is in my area and am thinking of contacting him.

When meeting a new provider, I think it is so great to not know the possibilities ahead of time. You can kind of figure some things out from pictures and how a profile is written. I never ask ahead of time, but if I think there is a possibility, maybe its a gentle touch when they are in front of you or how you react to something they did to you. For me, I really like the surprise and where things go. My favorite is when the masseur asks me if anything is off limits before they start. Then you know a good time is gonna happen!

I should have been clearer with that, sorry.

Minimal. He's ok with you touching him mainly on the latter part of the massage when you are on your back. He has this in his profile---I am a healer first. If ur just looking for ur routine ****** please do not contact me--- And he is serious about that. He is smoking hot and I'd love to do more with him and he is very nice. He does give a HE. Honestly he is very much worth it if you are looking for a massage...it is very good. I certainly don't want to give the impression that he is not worth hiring because that is not the case. I would definitely hire him again.

I met him once. Nice guy and fantastic massage skills. Very sexy. He allows mutual touch but there were no xtras in my session. He seems very serious about his craft as he indicates in his profile.

Interesting one. I as a client was sick...not terribly...but a decent cold and cough. Felt good though and was Covid negative. I texted my provider and shared this and left it up to him what he wanted to do. He opted for us to meet. If you were at the end of an illness and mostly feeling better I would probably opt to move forward.

Yep, it happens. I'm just an average looking guy in his 50s that could use to lose about 20 pounds and even with that I have had many massage sessions turn into amazing times... and with younger providers that would be way out of my league. I have had a couple others that took a session or two for the heat to turn up, but when it did, what a great time. Whatever the reason this may be, I always operate under the principles of don't waste the providers time or flake on them and just be pleasant. I think when you already feel good about a person before you meet face to face goes a long way. Oh.... and one more thing... show up to the session cleaned up!

So much truth spoken here. It's all great when you fantasize about it in your head, but carry it out and wreck something great, then what are you left with?

I am newer at this, but I still see the guy I hired the first time almost 3 years ago. I feel lucky that I selected a good guy considering I came at this with no saavy when it came to selection. We see each other at least once, if not twice a month. I honestly never tire of him. Sweet guy, very sexy and kind of wild and gentle at the same time in bed. There is a friendly bond between us where we talk about family, life events, etc. When it is all said and done, I feel very comfortable when we are together.

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I messaged him too and nothing. I just don't bother if that happens. If you can't even get an initial response, any transaction is going to be an adventure. There are plenty of great guys out there that aren't high maintenance to work with.

True. I see 2 providers now that left the RM platforms for the reasons you stated above. The one just left and sent me a text yesterday saying he still wants to meet with me as long as I still want him. He said I don't want to be there anymore (the RM sites) and don't want to meet new people. You (me) are a very nice person and I love having you as a client. This provider is one of the nicest people you will meet, so for him to be turned off by clients that he left the platforms says something. And he is really good and very sexy, but maybe too sweet for his own good.

I think what you are getting at is showing respect. When I meet someone new I try to read signals and even then I move carefully until I know what is Ok. I always adhere to be nice and respectful and you will almost always have a great experience. Act like an ass and you get what you deserve.

I'm in my late 50s and I see two that are in their mid twenties and very 🔥. If they aren't enjoying to some level, then they are great actors. I'm good either way!

I reached out to him and he replied back. I travel to CA for work on occasion and he said he would outcall to where I stay. May try it out.

Same here. Sometimes you just gotta take a chance.

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Yea it happens. I am OCD about being clean before a meet and I still got burned twice. Both providers were total pros and actually did what they could to get my mind back into the session.

I met with them today and it was one of the best experiences I ever had hiring. I hired them for full service this time versus just massage. They are both incredibly sexy and really focused on providing an amazing experience. They also work great in sync with each other. DM me if you'd like more info, but they are a not to miss when they are in town.

I took the plunge with Chase today. First, really easy to work with and responsive. Second, very nice guy..one of the nicest guys I have met. Wow is he beautiful and talented. Had a great time!