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I have one provider I have a similar situation with. I believe there is enjoyment on his side even if its a business relationship. Ill just say I think we both have big smiles on our faces at the end of a session, so yea we flirt randomly with each other. I see no issue with it as I know where the line in the sand is. Meaning Id never ask him for free or discounted services. I just like the nice vibe we have with each other.

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I met with Vegasmasseur. Was a very uncomfortable time... there was just something about him that was off personality and mannerism wise. I am in Vegas next week and am scheduled to see Jake Waters and Dillon Diaz. Both were great to talk with and set things up.

Same here

Totally agree. When I said above that I don't respond, I meant that for someone I met one time and would not rehire. Never would do that with regulars or someone I would like to see again at some point. I have also gotten some follow ups that feel like a mass mailing. Those I definitely have no interest in.

I don't respond if I am no longer interested. It just seems pointless and I kind of assume the provider is not interested in niceties versus repeat business.

I have been lucky enough to find regulars both locally and where I travel for work. I have pretty much stopped sampling because of reasons spoken about on this thread. I repeat with my regulars because they treat me great and every session I have with them gets better each time. Trust, respect and comfort between the parties means a lot.

When he was in Allentown, I reached out to him also and felt like I was getting jerked around. Every option I gave him to meet he had some reason why it wouldn't work. Its almost like he doesn't want any business.

Totally agree on all counts. There are a lot of hot guys out there that will treat you like gold if you do the same. I coming down off the high of a great encounter today!

I get it is frustrating, but it is a two way street. I have never flaked on a provider. There have been times I have needed to cancel or reschedule (not often though), but I go out of my way to be as considerate as possible by notifying early or providing options to reschedule. What I have seen is when those situations have come up, I have gotten either ignored or completely blocked even though I have presented alternate options. I have also been no-showed at least a half dozen times. Not in my local area, but when I have been in Vegas and LA. I also recently booked a meet with a rather famous provider in Vegas, he took my deposit (yes I know, don't make deposits) then completely canceled his Rentmen account which was the only means to communicate with him. With that said, the majority of my experiences have been positive and I have met some wonderful providers. I factor these situations in as a risk when you partake in a hobby like this and are dealing with many types of personalities.

I do this often but it usually a mix of massage and play.

Can you tell me why you would not? Feel free to PM as I am considering him. Thank you.

The times I have met him have been great. Very hot guy...pics don't lie, very nice and up for a good time. However, I just reached out to him because I will be in CA soon for work again and it has been silent. I see on his RM profile that he has not been online since Sept 8, so not sure what the deal is.

I find its mixed depending on the provider. When I travel for work I like to try and book several weeks before so I have something thats close to a sure thing. That also gives me a chance to see if I have a good vibe with the provider beforehand or should just move on. I just booked something in CA for early November and it took several tries to find someone I believe was really interested in my business.

Taking a second dive with Tony since the first time was so much fun. Cool guy.

I have met him a couple times in Philly which is his home. Always a great time..very sexy and very giving!

Not yet but we are setting up a meet for my upcoming trip to Vegas. He is very responsive so far.

When he lived in Philly I saw him several times, but then he started becoming more famous and his responsiveness fell off. I am heading to Vegas soon and I reached out to him weeks ago and he never responded. Its a shame because he knows what he is doing!

To top it off, he got offended about what I wrote and replied I could have just said no and be done. I don't agree.. in my view the provider should have a clue this is just not cool. It is disappointing as this is a fairly famous guy in the porn industry and my expectations were maybe higher than they should have been.

You are correct, that was exactly the scenario. I am pretty sure I finished off any meet because I expressed my displeasure with the request.

This may be a bit off this topic, but what about providers who message you looking for gifts (such as dinner, but not with me) after you have set a meeting date. Am I overreacting to this being a hard pass (this guy is rather famous, not that it should change etiquette in my view)? After the second time this was requested, I let him know what I thought (in as nice a way as I could), so I probably pissed him off and should just cancel the meet. The meet was setup for in October.

He has a new one for awhile, but that disappeared also. Nothing new lately.

This! I have had amazing times with guys totally out of my league and I abide by this motto. And don't let age scare you. I prefer younger (early to late 20s) and you might be surprised the excellent treatment you receive just showing them a little TLC!

This is so great, you basically have summarized all my struggles with communication in this hobby! I just never feel comfortable talking about this stuff with a provider. I guess I am lucky the strategy I posted earlier in this thread has been mainly successful for me even if it takes a session or two to ultimate get to where I would like to be. For me no matter what the conversation is, if the vibe isn't good it is a one time hire. One of my regulars knows me like a book at this point... other than pleasantries, no words need to be said from either of us. We can just get down to business and have a great time!

I struggle with it too as I don't want to come off as a sleaze bag. I have had the most success developing rapport and setting the appointment without getting into specifics. I then tend to "test the waters" in a first meet to see whats Ok and have been lucky enough to forge a few really nice long term client-provider relationships. Admittedly it took a couple sessions for barriers to go away. My experience has been once both parties are relaxed with one another, great things start happening! I love my sessions with my regulars. That initial patience has paid wonderful dividends.