jmichaeliii

My regular guy has told me he escalates prices on clients he no longer wants to see specifically if they have acted like a-holes in sessions.

It's my experience that not all the time is the best answer. Specifically when it comes to hiring over and over. I pay rates lower than someone that hires once and moves on with several providers.

I've been trying to connect for awhile. They were traveling last time I was in Vegas, now I'm not sure if they still reside there or not as they always seem to be on the road. They are in NYC now...if they stop in Philly...fingers crossed!

He's a nice sweet guy. It's just sometimes he can really f up your plans when you hire him. He does not plan or prepare well and sometimes it wrecks everything.

I'm sorry that happened. I've learned a few things since being in this hobby and number one is stick with guys that treat their businesses like professionals.

There are sessions where I can't orgasm either. It's so not a big deal, it's more in our head. There are some sessions where a hot Makeout session and great massage make my day, and my guy knows it. He jokingly calls me a spoiled boy!

Your first paragraph says it all. I had the same fears initially and I was fortunate the first guy I hired I clicked with and he is my go to. I like to try new things and learn more about myself and what I like. I can talk with him about absolutely anything that I am curious about. Really the only person in this world I can talk to about this stuff. We have tried things I like and things I don't. He has always made our meets amazing, never judgemental and no ego. I have met other guys and I find the majority are like this, but it is really nice to find someone you have a special bond with and are completely at ease and happy to spend time with.

I'd say research providers you are interested in and read their reviews. You can generally get a good feel from that then reach out and see how they communicate. If you get a good vibe from the communication set up a meet and chat some more. Always remember you are the paying customer, and the quality providers will work with you and what you are comfortable with. The good ones really want to go out of their way to show a good time. I have a few I see and I've had some off days myself where I didn't perform like I had hoped and none of them made me feel bad about it. Best of luck. Do your homework and try to vet guys through this site. There is a lot of good insight here.

I couldn't agree more. And it is just not here it's everywhere you work with software interfaces. I don't know what these developers are thinking. The V1 interface was near flawless in my opinion and this new one just sucks.

I hate the new site and I am sure it is only a matter of time before they obsolete the V1 version.

I'm somewhat new to this, but when I ask someone to travel to me and it's an hour + drive, I always pay the hotel to host and I always book at least 2 hours. I guess maybe that's why I can get several to make the trip to me. And that's fine. Driving around where I live can be a hassle and I'd rather be at the hotel released and ready to go.

It can be done as I did it. Unfortunately I can't remember where to do it,but the option was return to v1.

Have messaged him twice. He read the messages but does not respond.

I DMd you

I had a situation a couple weeks ago where the provider tried to negotiate his rate lower to get me to agree to a session. His rate was nearly double the average of the guys I see and just politely said that I appreciated his time but this is outside my budget. He then cut $100/hr off his rate to sweeten the pot, but I politely declined. I simply said I don't ask providers to negotiate their rate because if you are charging that, you obviously can get it. I finished it by saying I think it wrecks the vibe of the whole experience if you are unhappy giving up your fee. Again I thanked him but I don't think he was happy with me.

I see 3 guys in Philly in that range. And they are all excellent.

The very first sentence says it all. I have met one that specializes in this and he is great. If he is on rentmen, I'd recommend picking some of his latest reviewers and message them for details. I have had a lot of success getting information this way ahead of time.

I'll book somebody one time if I find them hot. I'll book them over and over if they are nice and I enjoy their company.

Before I hire anywhere, I make it a point to know what the market in that area will bear. In Philly you can find some great guys in the $150-$250 range and most top out at $300. The ones that are way over and are outliers, I just don't hire. But I never ask anyone to negotiate their rate. If I really want to hire them, I pay what they are asking.

I have been seeing Jorge regularly (2x a month) for the last year +. He is so sexy and talented and a joy to be around. Never in my dreams did I think I could experience something this good. So no matter what has been said about his enhancement efforts, he is still as hot as they come!

My Philly regular does that for me. It's different but I like it.

I saw Steven tonight as he was passing through my local area. What a sweet person and he is absolutely gorgeous in person. His technique was something I hadn't experienced before and wow did I enjoy it! Highly recommend him if you have the chance to meet him.

My top guy has let a few fly every once in awhile, but I am not overly sensitive and we have a good laugh about it. I like an environment where we can joke with each other without hurt feelings.

I've also found that some of the hottest guys I have hired have also turned out to be the nicest and very giving! So you just never know.