jmichaeliii

Interesting on one part of this. Unless the provider insists on booking, I always arrange and pay for the hotel, so I am putting a deposit down. I haven't been flaked on by anyone to this point, but I also veer toward providers that are local and have been around awhile and reviewed.

I actually changed jobs and made it so I could not travel to my guys, and to my surprise they were cool with traveling 90 minutes to meet me where I am now. I thought that was really cool of then. Of course I tip extra because I appreciate them doing that.

I show them respect and in return they treat me great and we always have a great time. And they know I will book again. They are my anchors.

This all just seems so complicated. I just text my guys, say hello and ask them how they are doing. Then I ask if we can meet on x day at x time. If it's good, great, if not we work together to figure something out. Never any drama.

The real frustration was he never came to my area before, he came because I asked him to, then I never saw him anyway. It's all good now.. he manned up admitted it was wrong and apologized. He's going to come back in early April and stay where I asked him to. I even got him a second booking. I give him credit for taking a situation where he could have lost business and got trashed in reviews and turned it into two bookings and happy clients.

Just this weekend I had the opposite mess happen. Weeks in advance I made an arrangement to meet with a provider only to find out the night before he went to a location 2.5 hours different than we agreed. I also gave him a deposit. I will say, however, he acted with integrity and returned the deposit and also apologized. I'm all about forgiving if someone makes it right, so we are scheduled to see each other in a couple weeks. And that happened with us confirming the location via text the day before.

So I met with IMJULIUS who I believe was Kobey until his name change. I had a good time, was a nice guy..but had me wondering a bit if I was with the same guy. This guy didn't look as buff, but when he flexed himself it was close so could be. They guy I met with had a full beard and short black hair. Any insights from your meeting you can share? He did tell me some things that kind of explain not having a face pic.

Because of work schedules I prefer booking ahead so I know I have time blocked for this. Some providers will do it, others not. My anchor guys will so I tend to stick with them most of the time.

Thought I would post an update. He has been profusely apologetic about what happened and I believe at this time he is being sincere. He seems like a really nice kid now that we have been chatting. We set up a new meeting April 3rd. I fully expect it will go well and be a fantastic time. Fingers crossed.

Will do. Tuesday we meet.

100% agreed with everything you said.

I met the first Billy that owned that profile. That one and this one look nothing alike.

Well after a bit of pressuring, I got both an apology and my deposit back. I'm impressed and pleased he showed integrity. He is also gonna offer a special session to be determined.

The guys a total scam artist. He wanted a deposit from me, then ran me around and wouldn't commit to anything. No thanks, plenty of choices out there. I've learned a couple lessons lately.

I agree. It wasn't a big deposit and he was traveling far and was supposed to book the hotel. I thought a small percent was fair and all was going well. I don't know what he was thinking doing what he did. The only reason he was even in Philly is I asked him here then he screwed me.

Yup that's him. I gave him a deposit to meet me in Allentown, even helped him find a place to stay. Was supposed to meet him today, and last night he texted me an address in Philly. And now the coward won't even respond to me.

Another guy not to trust. I set up a meet with him to meet me at a specific place and gave him a deposit (not a huge one), and the night before he switches cities. Of course, no response to any of my messages after I called him out.

I booked him for tonight under his new alias. Everything went great setting it up, so we will see.

Thanks for that insight. He was always nice with me, we could just not get on the same page schedule wise. I really want to book him, and now I may take a little different approach after reading this.

I think if you try to hire enough, it's just gonna happen. On rentmasseur I have had guys completely ignore a message (and you can see they read it), but then I'll text them and hear right back.

Much shorter timeframe here, but I have 2 anchors. It is fun to test, but if you have those anchor guys, I find that the more sessions you have, the better they get as you get comfortable and less inhibited with each other. I consider myself lucky to know 2 great guys in this business.

He reached out to me recently about getting together again. Outside of what I mentioned we had a good time which I think could be great with a slight correction! I agreed to another meet because you never know if someone just had an off day, but I was a bit more direct on what I'd like for this session, so we will see how it goes. Meeting on Tuesday next week.

I'm telling you everytime I see him he has a new move for me. He's so damn sexy and he makes you feel the same way. I'm just an average Joe and he makes me feel like a stud. I have never been to another guy that does a session even close to what he does.

Just had another session with Jorge..this is about my 10th. The guy deserves all the accolades in the world. Just an incredible experience every time.

Meeting with Gabriel on Friday.