Oakman

I exchanged messages requesting some clear photos of body - he demurred and sent either weird angled shots or duplicates of photos in his profile. That is the sort of thing a guy does when he doesn’t want to be seen and judged based on his physique. If you’re selling body, you need to be honest with yourself and customers about what’s available. I ended the chat

I’d go broke if I lived in NYC, the temptation to see him all the time would be too great. I wish there was a S.F. version 😝

That seems like the sort of thing you could ask him. 😉

I do it because I want the provider to get a clear picture of what he’s working with. If I was a provider, it’s definitely what I’d want to know.

Example solicitation: “Hi Mr. Provider, this is Mr. Client, I saw your profile on RM 🤩 (attach photo of myself). It looks like you are in town this weekend and I am interested in setting up some time to hang out with ya on Saturday or Sunday afternoon. I’m 46, 5’11”, 200 lbs, bald, fit, muscular. I like to be submissive with big men. I’m a pleaser, so am pretty open to you being in control and doing whatever gets you off. I’m also affectionate. I think your photos are amazing. If this sounds like a good match, please let me know if you’re up for an outcall to my place at (provide Goggle map link to my location). I’ll cover the ride and your travel time. What’s your rate for an hour?” 😘 I’m open to feedback. This tends to work.

I hired Shane Jamison about a year or so ago - incall at his place. His photos are very out of date. He’s in his 60s. I went through with it because I drove a long way (and was horny). It didn’t get better. He zoned out - possibly fell asleep. It was bad. I regret my lapses in good judgement.

He would probably have a much easier time communicating efficiently if whatever it is he’s selling wasn’t such a goddamn mystery. His profile is basically “I’m hot, I want you to pay a premium and a deposit, and I’m not going to tell you what you’ll get for that because I’m ‘discrete.’” I’d fork over $500 if I thought he was dynamite in the sack, but it sounds like the fee is just to look at him in person. Hard pass.

https://rentmasseur.com/MuscleBeefcake Has anyone had the pleasure of therapeutic touch from this strapping lad?

The police everywhere have no interest in what you do when you’re horny, you cannot possibly be arrested for having a conversation with a sex worker about sex, and there is no evidence or indication of a law being broken. Just ignore the scammer. Or tell him you’ll rip his face off. But do stop being scared. You’re going to be fine 🤗

I’ll let you know if he actually makes it. I have a theory that some performers create escort profiles and fake travel itineraries so that their profiles become visible over a wide area which generates interest in subscriptions, follows, likes and tags (I mean no shade in that observation - get the coin however you can 😉)

https://rent.men/TedColungaReal I see that Ted Colunga is planning a trip out of Hungary, around the US, and will be stopping in my city (SF). Ted was my favorite porn star back in the early 2000s - beautiful alpha male energy. Has anyone here had the pleasure of a meeting?

No, honey. Psychotherapy. Not Massage Therapy. Read the thread. 😉

He is in SF soon. What kind of limits?

StudHasssan does not respect boundaries. I left a session with him after only a few minutes (sometime pre-Covid). I certainly enjoy alpha male energy from a provider. From him I got more of angry beta confusing violence for rough play. He was behaving like he was coked up. I shut it down and he started to get angry and pushy. He slapped my ear hard enough that I could not hear for a few days. I’m very capable of taking care of myself, but nevertheless do not like feeling fear when I am with a provider. Avoid this man. There are other providers who can give you a “muscle top with an edge” experience who are genuinely good guys. StudHasssan is psycho.

Is there a filmed clip we know of that goes with this photo? Dayum! 🥵

He would frequently solicit me in RM’s messenger if he saw that I browsed his ad. I ignored his messages, which were a bit aggressive. Then he sent a nastygram for not responding and blocked me. He could mellow out a bit.

I’ve recently learned that you have to start the search while in “the deli” and that you have to select “in this forum” in the pull down in the search bar. I have also asked a redundant search question because my initial search was from the home page and the pull-down was set to “everywhere,” which apparently means “nowhere.”

Just friends with matching chest tattoos.

Thank you! Today I learned about the pull-down thing in the search window for searching in “this forum” for better results. I missed all of these! Thanks for the help 😋😘

https://rent.men/DinoLuca Surely someone has had an encounter with this fine man? Usually in NYC, but travels. He’s working with some impressive equipment.

He leaves behind a trail of gaping holes.

https://rent.men/Carlos_Miami Carlos_Miami was a good recent hole stretcher. The experience was shocking. It felt like taking the business end of a baseball bat. So thick and hard. (though I do enjoy screaming into a pillow). The photos don’t do it justice. Sounds like Malik would be a fun ride. Lots of great suggestions here 😛

https://rent.men/Tatted_Muscle Does anyone have experience with this sexy man?

It’s absolutely Roger Macho. (I love the misspelling of “magnum”). Why have a second, inferior profile? Who knows. Some providers do odd things with profiles that the rest of us find perplexing. I’m still glowing from meeting Roger on Saturday - one of the best and most memorable hires ever. The man is a beast! I’m sure RealMangnum is equally fun and less blurry in person 😜

Some people need to be pushed to try things they wouldn’t on their own, even though they really want to. Allowing your partner to push your limits during sex can be a bit like allowing a trainer to push you extra hard during a workout, or allowing a therapist to prod some uncomfortable topic that really needs discussing. If you are sensible and strong enough to advocate for your own safety, and a good judge of your partner’s emotional maturity, this can be a fun area to play. If you can trust a Dom to keep you from physical harm, it can be a lot of fun to experience powerlessness and being used by someone else who is in control. I find this is a great relief as a means of relinquishing daily responsibilities and leadership.