Oakman

You get the most out of therapy if you can be completely vulnerable and transparent. It may take a while to establish that kind of trust with a therapist, but there is so much value in talking about the things that you are most afraid to talk about (hiring, for instance). A good therapist has no judgement about your sex life, and lots of curiosity about it. If that kind of discussion feels too hard to broach with your therapist right now, you might start with “there are aspects of my sex life that I feel reluctant to bring up with you. Can we discuss that?”

He gives off mature Alpha Male energy Charlie. His body is powerful, his face looks like it was drawn by a comic book artist (chiseled!), he has a sexy voice, and his muscles are huge. Make you want about his bizarre photo choices (I agree, he’s got old photos displayed), he’s a legit provider who gives subs what they need. Strong recommendation 🤩

I had a great time with Joe in SF recently. I did some digging on this site and came across some clues to find face pics, and there are plenty if you can find em. Finding those pics is what made me want to book him - he’s a hunk. He was very enthusiastic about meeting and delivered in every way. Great attitude, great energy, great equipment, excellent performance.

How much initial texting conversation between a client and provider is appropriate to seal the deal? It can be quick and easy to communicate time and rate, but really understanding the service the client desires or the service the provider is interested in providing may involve an actual conversation (so many minutes!). As a client, I always reach out with a stack of photos, self-description, and the scenario I’m interested in, as well as my preferred time-frame. The provider’s initial response had better be engaging and show an understanding of and genuine interest in the scenario. I’ve had great, brief, sexy conversations with some first rate providers. If the provider can’t show (or won’t fake) a little sexy interest in the meet-up, I know it’s not for me. In my line of work, the cost of “business development” is recovered by having a consistent, satisfied, repeated customer base.

I met with him on a rare visit to SF (he’s almost always in NYC). The man is a hulk, bigger, broader and thicker than I imagined. His “280 lbs” feels totally legit to me. The “macho” aspect feels very natural and not forced. He’s very powerful, he’s not talkative, and he’s very assertive. He’s working with some massive equipment too. Highly recommend for those who like having a big man in charge.

Saw him this summer in SF. He was relentless and selfish, and I loved every second. He’s not as tall as his add states, but his dick is bigger than it looks in his pics - I was thrashed. We struggled understanding each other in person. His Cuban accent is thick. I’d love to see him again.

I was lucky enough to get that, yes. No idea how much he provides under all circumstances. I’d definitely nudge him again if he ever came back to SF. I would guess he’s 45 now, btw.