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Thanks for this thread @12is12 
 
Tho I’ve been to a couple of strip clubs, I’ve never had a lapdance. I found the provider’s advice, posted above, intriguing. I never knew the interaction was as limited as described, and the sexual element seems non-existent. I can’t imagine wasting my money on a lapdance or several. 
 
Admittedly it was years ago, but I had much more interaction with a gogo muscleboy (a ‘barback’ who also danced) in a Key West bar. I tipped him $20 after his dance, then spent time chatting and bought him drinks. Outside the bar, he asked if he could sleep over at my place - I said Yes if you’re a good cocksucker. We were on a dark street and he promptly demonstrated his excellent skill. 

Totally agree with the caution re: "Ask Me," but it is a not necessarily a limitation (eg. JimmyTroy has excellent range as a provider). If a provider is discussed here and/or have a deep RM review history, you can get a sense of how they work. Speaking of reviews, be sure to find a way to read the text in RM reviews via a VPN, more on that in this thread:
 

Now he got two jobs, lol.

If you haven’t already, let the providers know what your fantasy entails. Get specific.  Does your fantasy include sex and what kind?  Romantic or rough?  If it is a good match, they should let you know. 

Second this. Better for client to tell provider in detail what they are looking for and ask provider to confirm that they are able to provide.
From my personal exp, asking provider's 'do and donts' rarely go far, they likely wont provide much details simply bcs they more often than not do a lot of variety of services. So easier to tell then what you want instead.

Of your group Reese is a Superstar!!!!! Amazing body and fun guy. 
 

If you have your heart set on one of those listed above, you should first establish availability for your schedule. Of the four, only one (Jake Tyler) is currently in Vegas and I doubt there's a guarantee that that will hold true until after Thanksgiving. The other three are in Dallas, LA, and NYC at the moment. This makes it even more important that you contact your intended, not only about your particular want list, but also to nail down scheduling and availability. Otherwise, it will be catch as catch can when you get to Vegas - or elsewhere. Happy hunting and have a great time!

The period between Thanksgiving and Christmas is a frequent time for escorts to travel, so availability may be an issue.
Bodybuilders sometimes are limited in what they will do and at least one of your guys (JakeTylerVegas) has "ask me" for orientation and position. So I would further second your being clear about expectations.
My starting place with any provider is the question of whether they have a coherent identity---do the pics match what they say about themselves and what they seem likely to do. Newbies  often don't have a lot of pics but still---for example, tops should have a dick pic; bottoms should have an ass pic; if they do fetishes not all of them should be shown--there should be a state. Also, do they describe who they are and at least some of what they do--if it's all about "high class", etc. that doesn't help and guys who trade on some sort of social status often are just trying to justify a higher price.
 

It’s like trying to deactivate a ticking bomb and you got few seconds left. Too much stress, sweat and work for the money YOU about to pay him. Not the other way around. Hiring a guy should be thrilling, exciting, pleasant etc. not terrifying. IMHO rudeness is never hot unless you are really into it.