Hiring for the first time.

[xverso]

Hi there, Hugo here!

I'm a newbie and I hope I'm doing this in the correct forum, I apologize in case it's wrong.

I have a quick trip to Las Vegas after Thanksgiving, and I wanted to hire a male masseur or escort to fulfill a fantasy that I call "private stripper/chippendale kind of" just for myself, but I wonder what does imply when hiring a man? Is always sex involved? If it's not is it just the mutual touching? Some of the guys that I've had texted barely let you know the "do's and don'ts" or If sex is included, also they're not seem very interested on selling themselves, don't get me wrong, some of the guys that texted me back are very kind, at this moment I've thinking to hire some of these guys that I found on Rent.men:

• JasperVanDean
• James_brando
• JakeTylerVegas
• REESETHEGOD

What do you think? Any experiences you would like to share or any advise for a new escort client? And one more thing, was the meaning of "muscle worship"? It sounds fun, lol.

Thank you for reading this.

[sfhairyman415]

If you haven’t already, let the providers know what your fantasy entails. Get specific.  Does your fantasy include sex and what kind?  Romantic or rough?  If it is a good match, they should let you know. 

[blck37]

3 hours ago, sfhairyman415 said:

If you haven’t already, let the providers know what your fantasy entails. Get specific.  Does your fantasy include sex and what kind?  Romantic or rough?  If it is a good match, they should let you know. 

Second this. Better for client to tell provider in detail what they are looking for and ask provider to confirm that they are able to provide.

From my personal exp, asking provider's 'do and donts' rarely go far, they likely wont provide much details simply bcs they more often than not do a lot of variety of services. So easier to tell then what you want instead.

[builder boy]

Of your group Reese is a Superstar!!!!! Amazing body and fun guy. 
 

[wsc]

9 hours ago, xverso said:

Hi there, Hugo here!

I'm a newbie and I hope I'm doing this in the correct forum, I apologize in case it's wrong.

I have a quick trip to Las Vegas after Thanksgiving, and I wanted to hire a male masseur or escort to fulfill a fantasy that I call "private stripper/chippendale kind of" just for myself, but I wonder what does imply when hiring a man? Is always sex involved? If it's not is it just the mutual touching? Some of the guys that I've had texted barely let you know the "do's and don'ts" or If sex is included, also they're not seem very interested on selling themselves, don't get me wrong, some of the guys that texted me back are very kind, at this moment I've thinking to hire some of these guys that I found on Rent.men:

• JasperVanDean
• James_brando
• JakeTylerVegas
• REESETHEGOD

What do you think? Any experiences you would like to share or any advise for a new escort client? And one more thing, was the meaning of "muscle worship"? It sounds fun, lol.

Thank you for reading this.

If you have your heart set on one of those listed above, you should first establish availability for your schedule. Of the four, only one (Jake Tyler) is currently in Vegas and I doubt there's a guarantee that that will hold true until after Thanksgiving. The other three are in Dallas, LA, and NYC at the moment. This makes it even more important that you contact your intended, not only about your particular want list, but also to nail down scheduling and availability. Otherwise, it will be catch as catch can when you get to Vegas - or elsewhere. Happy hunting and have a great time!

[buckguy]

The period between Thanksgiving and Christmas is a frequent time for escorts to travel, so availability may be an issue.

Bodybuilders sometimes are limited in what they will do and at least one of your guys (JakeTylerVegas) has "ask me" for orientation and position. So I would further second your being clear about expectations.

My starting place with any provider is the question of whether they have a coherent identity---do the pics match what they say about themselves and what they seem likely to do. Newbies  often don't have a lot of pics but still---for example, tops should have a dick pic; bottoms should have an ass pic; if they do fetishes not all of them should be shown--there should be a state. Also, do they describe who they are and at least some of what they do--if it's all about "high class", etc. that doesn't help and guys who trade on some sort of social status often are just trying to justify a higher price.

 

[Your Man in Arlington]

3 hours ago, buckguy said:

Bodybuilders sometimes are limited in what they will do and at least one of your guys (JakeTylerVegas) has "ask me" for orientation and position. So I would further second your being clear about expectations.

Totally agree with the caution re: "Ask Me," but it is a not necessarily a limitation (eg. JimmyTroy has excellent range as a provider). If a provider is discussed here and/or have a deep RM review history, you can get a sense of how they work. Speaking of reviews, be sure to find a way to read the text in RM reviews via a VPN, more on that in this thread: