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Other than outright asking prior to the session, I think the basic tip for wondering hands is to allow the masseur to take the lead. The masseur will usually signal this by how he brushes up against you. If he is at the head of the table massaging your back, sliding his hands far down you back and brushing his body against you head, that is a sign for me as that movement was intensional on his part. I've had masseurs take my hand and place it on the back of their leg. That's a clear sign. When he places his cock in the upright palm of your hand, that is a big indicator. I try to allow things to progress naturally and slowly, paying attention to how he reacts. To me it is very clear when he is saying "keep going" or "that's enough" based on his body movement. Clearly removing your hand is a signal that you've gone far enough. For me I am always focused on the massage itself and try to drift off to never land. I love being on the verge of falling asleep when I feel his hand or other body part graze a sensual, erotic area of the body or linger a long period in a special place. @DunwoodyGuy is spot on in terms of how I like and want a massage to progress. Short answer is to ask upfront. Otherwise relax and enjoy the massage. If you were satisfied at the end, and I don't necessarily mean a HE, them book another session and see if and how things progress. Many times the second or third repeat massage is better than the first.

Currently in SF. His reviews are good on RM but I'm surprised that there is no mention of him here. Anyone have experience with him?

B.I.N.G.O!!! This profile totally represents what I was referring to. It's like "Enough dude. I get it. I can see that you admire yourself. No more convincing required that you are nice looking. Now put the phone down and focus on something else." 😬

Hmmmm, an interesting tattoo twist regarding the cover -up. 🤔. For me the appeal of tattoos depends on the guy, the type of tattoo and the placement. I'm not much of a fan of the year the guy was born tattooed across his abs, Disney characters, a large tattoo of a woman amongst others. Covering up the tattoo may not erase the mental image that I already have so I don't think the cover-up would work for me.

It's absolutely a non-problem which is why I stated upfront that it's a silly question. It's not a topic I lose sleep over but definitely curious as to what other think. Just like candy, I like it, but at some point enough is enough . . . at least for me.

Completely agree regarding Cade. He's a nice looking guy but I can't quite understand the huge fan base. I find quite a few others to be much more desirable. As you say 'To each their own'.

This is kind of a silly question but do you find that some providers have just too many pics in their ads? For me the answer is, yes. I enjoy looking at photos of a good looking guy but every now and then I find myself wondering when do they end and it starts to become a bit of a turn-off. I start thinking "Okay, get over yourself" and then start to think that they guy might be a bit too cocky or arrogant upon meeting. I know I shouldn't pre-judge but it is something that goes through my mind. So I ask, can a provide share too many pics in his ad or am I just being ridiculous?

Great question. I look forward to hearing what providers have to say.

Sounds like he is an evolving young man. He is currently in sacramento. Anyone seen him lately?

Deli oriented? He is now in the SF Bay area.

Anyone seen him in the past year? He is currently in the Bay Area.

I'm sure he mentioned the shirtless part in jest like probably 99% of us would. That's called joking around/flirting. 🙄

Sorry it happened to you but happy to know the truth. I can't figure out how these guys with fake pics think they can get away with it. I too would simply say 'no' and turn around. Maybe a lot of others stick around for the full disappointment. 🤷

I don't think it gets much better than this!!

Any experience with them? 👆

I have to agree with everyone else that it is best to ask your regular provider, if you have one, for recommendations. I've done this a couple times and each time I let my regular choose/provide the other guy. I want to make sure that the two guys are comfortable and in sync with one another. If they work well together then they should have no problem adding me to the mix. I also make it clear to my primary that I want someone that he is comfortable with. I have been asked what type of guy I am looking and/or open to and simply ask for recommendations in which I've been presented with two or three different guys to choose from. Fortunately for me race is not an issue as I'm open to all. The nice things about being presented options is that you can save the 'seconds' and 'thirds' to try out for another time.

What is cnc?

I always consider a dropping market as a sale and a buying opportunity. I continue my regular bi-weekly investments as well as contributions to my 401-k knowing that the market will continue to go up in the long term. I think the markets may continue to fall or plateau over the next six months before rebounding.

I've never been asked but I'm sure some providers do on occasion. I'm not sure I would send if I was asked. That said I generally do send a pic after an appointment has been made. My take on it is that I usually know plenty about them (based on the pictures in their profile) so I send a picture or two of me in kind. Many may say this is unnecessary, which is fine, but for me personally I feel better sending a pic prior. I see no need to be a surprise when they open the door.

Wonder what that would cost 😯

He's 55? While his profile doesn't show a full face pick he doesn't look that old and he definitely looks like quite the stud. Also love a guy in in a good ole fashion jockstrap.

That's playing with fire. 😕

I would never expect to pay less than $200 in Vegas and would be surprised and hesitant to hire anyone charging $100.

I Uber (1 to 2 hours most weekday mornings) and use that as my "fun" money in addition to other discretionary, unforseen and known monthly/quarterly expenses (reoccurring charitable contributions, new tires, oil changes, plumbing/electrical problems, etc). I keep this money in a separate account and live off of my regular salary (mortgage, utilities, insurance, food, investments, etc). Based on how much I make each month I plan my hiring practices accordingly which varies from every four to eight weeks. This works great for me and keeps me grounded. There are times, like all of us, when I get urges/desires that I need to control by taking matters into my own hands. Fortunately after some personal massage time those urges are released and I find that I just saved myself anywhere from $200 - $800. I also have depression and from time to time I simply lose desire which strangely but honestly saves me money and helps to build up my Uber account. 😉 My sessions average around $250 an hour and I primarily hire for massages. I personally would never pay $500 an hour for one guy and I'm not even sure I would do $400. If and when I do pay more it is due to a longer session, a specific request or an additional person.