Boaxxx

What did you guys spend on professional services in 2024. I added mine up and was surprised that it was just shy of $3,000. Am I a desperate perv or just a normal guy with needs.

Sounds like you were happy in the end with his selection. 😉

I'm a fan of a smooth ass and balls but that just me. You can never satisfy everyone so just focus on what you prefer personally.

He mentions roleplay on his ad. Anyone go that route? Just wondering what type of roleplay could be incorporated into a massage session unless he offers extras upon request.

Happy to hear and sorry that I did not pick up on the sarcasm.

Hopefully someone has some deets on this dude. 🤪

I'm a bit confused: you lent him money to go to treatment, which he "of course" stiffed you, now he wants to get back with you and you consider yourself lucky? You should accept the loss of money and walk away from him if you want to be lucky. Otherwise you are going to find yourself always cleaning up his messes at your expense.

Shut the door and get the hell out of there. Stop focusing on the good sex and start focusing on the future potential danger that you may be in.

19 years old, hangs out in front of a 7-11, gets into pretty much anything (experienced at such a young age), can travel anywhere in the world and nine inches.

Sounds like a cockfight to me!

I like the sex charged atmosphere of a bath house/sex club and the thrill of a random anonymous hook-up. My roleplay fantasy is to have a provider meet me at a BH/SC. Quite often guys leave the door to the room slightly open as an invitation or sign to other guys that they are looking. I would get there before him, get the room, provide him with the room number, situated myself and wait for him to stick his head in and show an interest in me and go from there. I think some of the excitement would simply be from the anticipation of his arrival. I haven't approached a provider about this scenario and wonder if this is something most would be into. I guess it all depends on the other guys comfort level.

Providers always say to keep it simple and not over complicate it. I think you did a bang-up job.

I sure do miss the good old days when one hit would give me the biggest head rush and carnal desires.

I've had a couple session with a provider and this last time when we were done he said he had to take a piss and wanted to know if I wanted it in me. "In me or on me" I asked and he said in me. I declined but did take it on me. Now I keep wondering what it would be like in me. Is this even a thing? Have others tried it? Clearly it is new to me.

For your first time I think the couple massage is a great way to go that would also have a natural progression. If you want that bath house/sex club environment you can create that in your own home by keeping the lights low and putting some red lights in your lamps. You could also add techno music to play in the background and even have some porn playing on the TV and computer monitors. Make it clear to the providers that this is what you are looking for/trying to create and I'm sure they would be up for it. You could also decide up front what would be acceptable interaction with the providers. This is now giving me some possible roleplay ideas for my next "massage" session. 😈

Personally I don't think marijuana falls under the PNP category. While I rarely use marijuana I would not have an issue if a provider did on a regular basis as long as it didn't have a negative impact our session. Not sure how a provider feels about a client using it. I also interpret PNP as harder drugs, those that have not been legalized in any state. I will say that one of my best encounters was after sharing a couple hits to ease into the mood.

I've have had sessions with both Jaystressrelief and Daymmgood. You can't go wrong with either. Daymmgood I've seen twice and plan on a third while Jaystressrelief I've only seen once but I will definitely be going back.

I'd be interested in trying to fulfill that scenario with you. 😉

The tattoo was not the first thing I noticed.

Seems a bit steep considering most of the reviews here are not that good. He is a hottie though. Has anyone one seen him in SF?

I don't understand why they took that away. 🤷

This is exactly how an erotic massage should be. For me half of the excitement is the anticipation and the "surprise" when I find out he is naked.

I agree with @m_writer that it sound a bit fishy. Definitely contact RM before providing any information.

I have a couple that have worked for me and both work well one-on-one and in a three-way situation. The first is simply a horned up top or two who higher a guy to use (I'm the sub escort). The top(s) are happy to see what they ordered, check out the merchandise and then put me through some obedience drills to start (take off his shoes, rub his feet, massage his shoulders, remover his pants, etc) and progresses from there usually including some blindfolding and light bondage. The other is more specific and centered around poppers and popperbate videos. The provider in this scenario is a "friend/content creator" who wants me to stop by to watch his new popperbate video and give feedback. I start to watch and clearly start getting turned on. He makes a comment about me not being able to give a good critique if I am not following along with taking popper hits or edging my cock as instructed in the video. He then hands me a bottle and says "start taking hits and lube up that cock". Things progress from there with him taking control of the situation. This RP scene worked well in a three-way with the original provider (who was into it as well). He had suggested a third who was a black guy. Same scenario except that he was working with another content creator and wanted feedback. I show up, meet the other guy, have some small talk and start the video. The new guy, Marcus, says he is really looking forward to my feedback and hands me a fresh bottle of poppers and lube. The video starts and its theme is white guys who are into and submissive for black guys. It didn't take long to get a positive reaction out of me.

I agree on that many times the fantasy is better than the actual act. It is hard to communicate exactly what you are looking for as the mind can do wonders 😜