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  1. The timing didn't make sense, either. That post is old. Bottom line - sorry, I hate those words, but it rings true in this subject - look at the bright side of being ghosted. You still have your donation to try someone else who will see you.
  2. I've seen him both give and receive massage from NikoLeto, so perhaps that's who it could be? They're both Atlanta based. No experience, but both bucket list men from me.
  3. I promise I'll stop gushing about this stud after this shameless second bump, but he's the "masseur of the day" on rent masseur. Anyone seen him yet?
  4. I'll concur that Zan is awesome. I hit a gold mine with my timing, as he had a scene with Horsepapo the following day, so the interactive aspect had to be tamed, and he discounted the session as a result. He reached out to see him 2 weeks later on a layover, but I couldn't. This was so long ago; he must be in his 30s now. He hasn't been near me in ages, indicating there's someone he's avoiding in my town - at this point, I think it's me. ☹️
  5. A side point you make in your post, and it's a real good one, is holidays getting in the way of an appointment. I had an appointment on Mother's Day several years ago with an escort, not thinking it would be a problem. It was - with the escort's mother! He ended up being very late, assuming I wasn't going to be on time because of my lengthy commute. He went out to brunch with her. I had to drastically shorten the session from 90 minutes to 30, which then made it rushed because I had somewhere else to be at a certain time (a nudist resort with closing hours).
  6. Has anyone hired a guy from rent masseur or masseur finder (or any of the lesser-known gay men's massage websites) to have their body trimmed or waxed, or given a body scrub, but NOT gotten a massage also? It could be that the men who offer these services perhaps only do so with the expectation of getting massaged as well. A guy who was new to me looked like somebody I'd enjoy either "cleaning me silly" or trimming down my carpeting: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44768/
  7. The volume of hires must be night and day with people available when on the road but expect you to also have a hotel they can see you at compared to those who let you see them where they're staying. It drives me up the wall when I get excited seeing somebody I have my eyes on, and then they ask where I'm located because they can't host. I've never thought of trying to meet a hire at some dingy bathhouse, but perhaps if I'm that willing, it may be something to consider in the future? I can't imagine that scenario could go well. Other times, providers are simply too busy seeing the sights of the location they are briefly visiting, which makes one wonder why even bother to tell people where you're going if seeing clients aren't in the plans?
  8. His ad is still viewable, even though it isn't active. I hadn't seen him, but he sent very sexy short video clips of him in erotic massage action to my cell phone many years ago. He said to check out his twitter. I asked him what it was, and that's my ghosting story involving RyanAtlanta - he never provided it. Hopefully he'll turn up looking hot as ever when he decides to come out of retirement and can put his flaky past behind him.
  9. This is a furry couple that are available separately as well as together. They are going to be near me soon. What's interesting is that "Stronghandsdad" is entirely booked, while "Stronghandsonu" has availability. Has anyone seen either one of them to guess as to why one is more in demand than the other? StrongHandsDad - Male Massage & Bodywork in Palm Springs, CA | RentMasseur WWW.RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur StrongHandsDad in Palm Springs, CA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue. StrongHandsOnU - Male Massage & Bodywork in Cathedral City, CA | RentMasseur WWW.RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur StrongHandsOnU in Cathedral City, CA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.
  10. I'd hate to think that "background visual aids" means he needs to watch straight porn to get excited. That to me is a boner kill (although if he's just a top, I guess it wouldn't matter to him whether I had a boner or not). Exterior being rough as in the surroundings of his place, or his stubble-ridden body?
  11. This is not at all the same guy as "CocoaMuscle", who I was hoping this was. I don't know of Cocoamuscle's contact, so this was unfortunate. Looks like this Coco Muscle is a must avoid.
  12. It's easy to guess that an erotic massage means he goes deep with something that isn't just his hands. I'd love to know what Olympic sport he competed in. Multi-talented men are great.
  13. There seems to be incredibly loose interpretation of what constitutes being "straight" nowadays. For whatever reason, "bro-ing" a session implies to fuck an ass, rim a hole, make out, sixty-nine, slap butts, and you're not gay at all! Being bisexual shouldn't be something to be shamed by. It's unfortunate that those who desire all sexes feel the need to hide that when they advertise.
  14. Why would someone be willing to suck your cock but not kiss your face? Everyone has different tastes, and his penis looks overly veiny for my personal taste. Tremendous body on him. Anyone given San Diego's version (to me) of Houston's Aden Taylor for a try?
  15. I wasn't even the one who started the thread on this guy, but has anyone seen him? He's rather joyful with communication by text, and is someone I'm considering when I'm in Phoenix this Fall.
  16. He tickles my fancy, but the moniker he chooses is confusing. It took scrolling back for a good while before I found him involved with content, and in it, he's being railed by Aaron Trainer, not the other way around. Verse guys are my favorite, but it doesn't make sense to use the "dom" or "sub" words in your profile name if you're willing to switch it up, or worse, not willing to be the dom or sub you describe.
  17. Every time I see his ad, I keep thinking back to Finn DANIELS, who moved from Las Vegas to Los Angeles, and doesn't advertise any longer.
  18. To your credit, "Sex Theft Fraud Scam Extortion & Tiny Penises" looks like a title for a great mini-series I could star in.
  19. Something I pay close attention to when I'm deciding who I would like to see is that the reviews are not concentrated heavily in a specific short time frame. This for me raises red flags. I was asked if I would provide a review from the masseur I saw, so I did. Not even three days later, there's two reviews already after mine. Possible? Sure. Credibility level every one of these hold due to the three consecutive dates of the reviews? For my eyes, out the window. I learned recently that masseurs can have any reviews that do not sit well with them removed and rent masseur will reject a negative review and not even post it to avoid risking the paying subscriber from stopping advertising with them. Most of us can spot a phony review a mile away. I just don't like feeling that submitting mine looks like it was a waste of time.
  20. When I set up a time to see someone and indicate that I can ONLY see him at such-and-such a time, either he can schedule me, or tell me no, or not respond at all and I'd move on to trying someone else. I scheduled an appointment two weeks in advance on a day I have very limited free time to see this guy I've been interested in for a long time, and I was pleased he was staying at a place I'm well familiar with. Today, a week later, he reaches out and asks if I could please move my time to an earlier time of the day. I wouldn't expect him to remember that I had limited availability, but now I feel I'm in a rock and a hard place. I can cancel him for not being able to keep my time I needed, or - this is what I did - be firm that my schedule is not flexible, and I am unable to change away from our original time. He quickly got back to me and indicated that he will honor the original time we scheduled. I texted Okay. I now feel this sucks for each of us at this point. He has something he's not now able to do that he clearly wanted to do more than massage me at my original time, and there even could be a risk I'm taking that he will simply cancel me on the day of anyway, which I was given the warning sign when he wanted to change it. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? Tell him that you're happy to free up his day and wish him well while he's on vacation and cancel or presume he's willing to honor his initial commitment of seeing me but probably having his mind elsewhere during?
  21. What can be misleading when seeing one's hole in photos is just how "worn" it is. The accusation that just from looking at one that it "must be too used" isn't true. There are men who've had hundreds upon hundreds of cocks up their ass, both real and fake, that still can be a tight grip to drive tops wild. Then, there can be ones that look like a cock has never entered the backdoor ever that are loosy goosy. I have no objection to men showing what's between the cheeks. I DO have a massive problem with men who do that, but don't allow any kind of interaction with it on any level. If it's closed for business, don't "open".
  22. This is the place to be for people keeping it real, especially if it didn't go like you would have preferred. Frankly, when someone already has dozens of reviews (real or not), I don't understand why one more would matter to them.
  23. This is meant as helpful information, so be all means do NOT turn this into a debate. There are men who have penile preferences when hiring, and rentmen.eu when NOT logged in does not show whether or not a man is circumcised or not. However, rent.men does! While on one hand this is great to see, metric conversion must be done for the height and weight information given, so it's a give and take. Learning of this on my own will be of benefit so I don't have to walk on eggshells asking the provider direct, as often times when I ask people who have been with these men privately, it wasn't something that mattered at all and they didn't recall. Just that it got hard and fit well. 🙂
  24. I could see a couple of different reasons that this former regular of yours became distant. One could be that it is YOU that has changed in that time frame and not him, and this causes him do have a decrease in interest with you, be it either social issue opinion changes with one of you to make the small talk less appealing. Or, he's simply an ageist, and even though you continue to take great care of yourself and look fantastic, he's got a mental hang-up about how "old" you are, and for that shallow reason does not have a desire to be with you any longer. The great thing about being with men for company is that there are PLENTY out there who could care less about age difference, political views, or cock size. If you're sanitary and friendly, a wonderful time can be had.
  25. Second one in the pool, but the first to post about the fantastic pool party. So great to get reacquainted - (had to use spell-check for that word, ha ha) with people from years' past and also meet new people. This was my first time utilizing the "fun room" - next time I won't mind if the door stays open. I like my talent to be witnessed (wink). I enjoyed changing outfits as often as the wind came and went. I did a thong, wrestling singlet, swim bikini, and back to the thong rotation. Can't wait until 2026!
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