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I would recommend maintaining or even gaining muscle weight, as you look really great in your profile photos. P.S. your moniker on there is a cute one!

I wish your thread was still active. That was quite a hot read! I think many of us are very curious who the major 80s / 90s porn star was who roomed with Poolboy. The only one that comes to mind in that era is Matt Ramsey. He'd be one heck of a roommate!

This guy needs to do a signing at a some major adult store between the hours of 2 and 4. Just remind him to bring his own quill pen to sign autographs and a remote for the VCR to rewind.

You will never convince people who never tip to suddenly do so. This is why so many masseurs who used to be $100 now ask for $120 or more - to build in the tip they may not receive. I wish the revolt on gratuities would result in paying everyone a decent living wage and end the groveling. I hated working on tips, and so did my co-workers when I would get stiffed making massive payouts. The cute lady may make 2 grand on a big jackpot, but not the ugly old man - the customers don't know or care that tips are shared. It happened so often I'm grateful I quit. (And I did let the door hit me in the ass on the way out).

I love it when I've had a sexual experience with someone, and then later on see that they either prior to or after my visit, had sex with someone else who I've also seen, or have wanted to see for a good while. Does anyone else bump the priority of wanting to see someone if they've been with a different person that you're a fan of, but logistically know you'll likely never get to see because of either distance or cost? I'll give examples, since reading these sentences back, it may look like I'm drunk. I saw in Palm Springs CatCityAndy from rent masseur, and at a party, met JKBalls from Rent Men. After socializing with both, I saw a porn studio scene with those two together. By seeing this, it makes me want to see JKBalls even more since he's someone I've met, and I had a super time with CatCityAndy. Another example. I saw Luke West and Olympus Massage from rent masseur, both based in San Diego. Each of them have been with Tyler Saint. Luke in porn, Olympus with a session. Tyler Saint has been with Teddy Hunter recently. Now I'd LOVE to be with Teddy Hunter more than before, since being with Tyler is rather difficult because he's quite busy.

Quite a few guys (actually more than quite a few) have abandoned X and are now on BlueSky. There's too many masseurs to name to provide a list. Scroll down a bit with profiles of guys and you'll find their social media sites if they opt to provide them. I'd encourage you to have a better experience to see men who AREN'T publishing those. Nearly everyone will tell you that they are just wanting additional subscribers and could care less about seeing you.

This guy bounces around so much, I've no idea where he's stationed or if he even is in the places that he claims to be. Back when he had stability with his location, he was one of the precious few who advertised in Eastern San Diego County. Way back then, he was only on masseur finder, had a very high rate, and I was privately told that only occasionally could sessions get fun (read : have an MMA body like he does). I may be giving information that will make you not be able to look away, but one of his ears is permanently injured due to a fighting incident. And here I thought Mike Tyson was only hungry once. 🤣

You're right in that SIZE of sandwich = length of time. The bigger / longer, the more expensive. I've never questioned donating more for additional time, but I am questioning price add-ons like climaxing that damper what is to be an enjoyable experience. I'll add I'm referring to the client ejaculating, not the provider. Those who bitch about that in their hires don't hold water - and I feel that way even hiring a straight-up escort. YOUR satisfaction is what is to be met in a meet-up, not expecting theirs.

I doubt I'm in the minority with this take, but simply have a highest scale for ALL clients, and that ends the frustration. They aren't going to lose any business if their massage skills are up to par. Nobody likes ticky-tack nit-picky "add-on" charges for things. Just charge everybody for everything, and if people don't want it more than the basic clothed masseur with no dick touching, that's fine. If we end up fucking, that's fine. Just like a sandwich at a fast-food place. Whether I want just a plain patty and bun or want a boatload of toppings, we're paying the same price.

Your picture you posted of yourself today compared to the previous one just from last month is OUTSTANDING! It is obvious and extremely noticeable (and worth the effort you're putting in) to keep grinding. The more fit you become, the better you'll feel about yourself, and the experiences get better. Everyone else has various tastes, so you'll lose a fan while gaining a few - don't let rejection slow you down. Often times it's people envious and too lazy to make an effort to improve themselves. Never use getting older as an excuse. If anything, it should be a further motivator to stay around longer. Turning 54 today, I'm happy I planned a "fit before 55" workout, and it gets gradually more difficult as the days progress, but I'm batting 1,000 with accomplishing what I set out to do today, binge watch daddydurden content (just kidding, but I did that, too).

To the original poster : Read, re-read, and read again the most important thing you typed in your post. "I know I'm a client". That's all you need to understand, because "He's just a provider". That he did so much as to reach out to send you birthday wishes was going the extra mile. Mine is today, and I'd love to hear from people who are "just too busy" in their lives to take time to wish me a happy one, but I live in the real world. If he's telling you he loves you, he's just being polite, because he loves your money, and there's nothing at all wrong in his line of work for it. Quit dogging on your appearance - if he played "talk to the hand" to those he wasn't attractive to, it would mean less revenue. You're not the only person he's being intimate with that he doesn't want a full-time relationship with. You're undoubtedly his best client financially, but if you can be okay with knowing that your relationship with him is going to be "on the clock only", until you can afford him to be a rent man for life, enjoy your moments.

Their style of music isn't my thing, but I feel Alicia Keys and John Legend have the best voices of famous singer / songwriters today. Karen Carpenter to me had the most pleasing singing voice of anyone I've heard in my lifetime. At least Benson got spot-on advice when he auditioned for American Idol - he was too good to waste his time competing on that show. It's been eons since that tv program churned out a winner with a consistent hit catalog.

Did you volunteer payment in advance, or was that his prerequisite? I can't believe with a body that impeccable that he'd be a smoker. Next time someone demands payment ahead of time, send it to a business address (like his personal training operation, for example) to be able to get refunded. It was a pain in the ass to try to be reimbursed for my one and only advance payment no-show incident, but it did happen because I did just that. Mine was with muscle hunk Eddie Swaim in Palm Springs.

If you're sending a shout-out as a business operator, regardless of what the reason is for, there in my view is zero excuse to list non-existent days in your want ad. Five months out of the year do not have a 31st day, so when I see someone list April, June, September, or November 31st in a casting call, I tongue-in-cheek let them know I'm always available on that day - it's seen as me being a snarky ass more so than them being an idiot. I just saw Kyle Krieger, who I'm quite a fan of, mention just that (but I refrained from putting him in his place - maybe it was a "dumb jock" move on his part, for all I know). Anyone else have no tolerance for people who don't understand the calendar? I doubt spellcheck would INSERT these days that are never there - I do pity guys named Michael with alternate spellings, always having to adjust for how their own name is spelled. Crazy that for years it was the most commonly given first name, since it's such a spelling bitch.

I fully agree with p_a's comment that if the introductory experience is mind-blowing, I'll likely never see that provider again. There's no way that an encore could be better. I do stop seeing men when the sensuality takes a nose-dive. I'm taken aback and frustrated that the engagement with me is being reduced, likely because they're saving real fun for someone after me. Sometimes middle-of-the-day is all they or I could do, so that's simply unfortunate circumstance. As for things improving over time, I have fond memories from when I first started, and it's amusing to think back on them - "OMG this stud is entirely naked, I can't believe I'm deep between his cheeks, I've never had a guy jerk me and him off simultaneously!, etc.. Doing more and more as they know I've become a regular and the (because it's paid) enjoyment they get out of me is reason to return time and time again.

Most recently I saw this from MassagesByMac in Atlanta. He has his own personal website. I didn't find him on the typical masseur websites. He was only mentioned a long time ago in a closed thread once.

I'm seeing more often providers showing rates for various differences in services, and among them, a higher charge if a "release" on us is done. This isn't merely a difference between a therapeutic and sensual massage - I'm never going to be one of those guys, but I'm well aware that plenty of men want a sensual environment without sensual touch down there. While I'd much prefer the providers spelling out ahead of time their price points instead of doing the outrageous and springing it on horny clients in the moment, I don't see why having my cock pleasured by one's hand deems a penalty fee. I'm totally understanding that clients with large snakes for cocks probably don't need to donate for a jerk session due to the desires of the provider, if both are interested. Thankfully while erotic is prohibited in rent masseur's listings, providers can indicate in their profile that they provide that offering, and that's what I tend to book - so long as I don't have to be gouged to climax.

I've seen two, and they were terrific experiences. The first guy wore a tiny bikini brief to start out, and was outstanding with his massage skills - his genuine work trade, so it was to be expected. The last half hour of my appointment was all about the fun, and it was mighty, mighty, fun. Sadly, he appears to have taken his escort ad down, and also eliminated sensual as a massage option. I know he was a married man in a sexually open relationship, but perhaps the tides have changed. The second one was with Christian Voss, who at the time I saw him looked stage ready, which blew me away. I got to blow him, which was an outstanding memory. I was fortunate, as since he was completely new to being hired, he had a very affordable donation which he no longer offers, since he's GOOD. There's a bit of an age difference with these gentlemen, but I'd so love to see them work together someday. I'd have to save up for at least half a year to make that reality happen for a 4-hand / 2 penis fantasy.

My favorite butt shot in a terrestrial movie is of Michael Welker (Who???) from Drop Dead Fred, which is one of the worst movies I'd ever seen, but his ass alone keeps it from being THE worst. The frontal is very brief and poorly lit, but it was exciting to see the Naughty By Nature rapper nude in a very forgetful film, Love And A Bullet. Unsure if links to this stuff from here is allowed, but they can be seen at azmen.com I tend to prefer my porn stars naked and non-porn stars clothed.

Stop in to a DMV and get to work! 😀

Interestingly, men who are 5 feet 11 are the most genuine about how tall they are, based on a recent "man on the street" segment I saw on YouTube. It makes sense, because they're well aware they aren't at that barrier that so many refuse to give the time of day to, so it is of no benefit to try to lie. I feel that women are far more picky about men being at least 6 feet tall (and at least 6 inches) than men are. In a provider's ad, subtract two inches from both, and you're likely right on the money with accuracy.

If they were nice enough guys, I'm sure they wouldn't mind hanging around for a still painting. I am kidding / just having fun with you, please understand.

This makes it seem as though you were hiring before photography was a thing. 🤣

Not to veer off the subject and turn in into a DMV thread that would be as long as my wait, the answer is no. In bold lettering, even if you want to schedule an appointment for a future visit, you must wait your proper turn. I liked the DMV before now, due to an understandably valid lawsuit brought upon the DMV for denying service to those outside of the service area, which meant walking in and out in moments for locals. Now, people in droves drive down from over-crowded DMVs in the city to......wait just as long, plus their lengthy commute! On a side note, I'm looking forward to the upcoming "DMV" sitcom, that's really a thing. It looks really stupid from the commercials, and I like stupid.

In the DMV today, I had worlds of time to kill, so I thought it would be a fun time passer to list everyone I'd ever seen in my decade plus of hiring, and break down the percentages of how many did fun things with me. Somebody else listed an annual report of their financial success as a provider, which many of us found to be interesting, showing slow times and busy times, as well as a % breakdown of their finances. Not surprising, their top tier clients made up a sizable percentage of their intake. We'll start with the fewest, and go from there. An important disclaimer : When I was a novice to doing this, I was a skeleton physique, which I very much no longer am. As the time has progressed as well as my fitness level, my experiences have improved dramatically. I'd be curious if these percentages are in the ballpark of other men, if they thought it out and divulged these tidbits. Of all the men I've been with, 6% of them had no sensuality, and strictly massaged me. 6% is the percentage I also came up with of providers who I topped. Now this is debatable with some that when you're taken for a ride, you're not really topping, but I'm of the belief if my cock is entirely in their ass, they're bottoming. 15% of my hires have topped me, all of them with me on my tummy and them on me and in me. 18% of my hires have rimmed my ass. This must be a personal health reason and not a matter of my cleanliness for this to be as low as it is, since I do induce nice erections from most of the men who like what they're seeing with their eyes and feeling with their hands, and spend a good time on it. 27% of my hires have received a rim job from me. This is my absolute favorite thing to do, and have had a few tell me had they known, they would've prepared for it. Now for the two things with the highest percentages, blow jobs. I'm not at all a size queen, but it is quite fun to take a really thick long one down to the base, and see them pitch their head back in euphoria. I've been able to do this with 39% of my hires, while 51% of my hires have taken my short thick-y down their throat (or really, in their mouth - I'm even smaller than most butt plugs, so it's not a gag reflex threat). I love doing sixty-nine, but don't have a percentage breakdown for that - my name finally got called at the DMV after almost 3 hours!