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It's not uncommon, sadly, for providers to list being in places that they not only aren't in, but have no intention on being. It's unfortunate that you fell victim to this, but his responses to you, giving you a false impression that a meet-up is pending, makes it all the worse. Time to blow him off.

$300 for an "all the way" encounter, in 2025, is commonplace. While the method of getting there with you was a put-off, the amount wasn't unreasonable.

Unfortunately, shock value is not just limited to the comments people make about news stories, but now what used to be tabloid trash is everyday news. I hate reading articles that are just flat-out untruths for the purpose of gaining readers rather than having any accuracy. Here's how I've managed to improve my life immensely. Stop reading comments. Just from the way a headline is angled, you can already know what the masses are going to say, and it will undoubtedly piss you off frequently. Stop listening to "talk radio". It's boring as fuck to begin with - the callers make those shows unbearable. Plus, special guests dropping in NEVER have interesting, opposing views to make the discussion enlightening.

He's been so aggressive with advertising his upcoming US tour, I'm finding his (group send) messages in my spam folder. Since I introduced him to MrBeefyMuscles and that meet-up between those two materialized (but was sadly boring as Hell to watch), I should be entitled to a bonus minute, 31 instead of 30, to be in his company if I hire him. I love that he's gradually doing more "gay stuff", but until he lets a man suck his cock and not just a woman, and takes a real penis up his ass instead of fake ones, I'll wait until the end of the decade, hoping he'll FINALLY break free - and by that point in time, likely be $1,000 for a half hour! For the person earlier in the thread being harsh about his cock size, Nath's got terrific girth and nice length, larger than the average man on both counts.

Did not realize the initial post was so old. I'm horrible with celebrity names, but that guy from Schitt's Creek would do a great job in the role if it hasn't been done yet.

I wasn't in the budget to see a provider so soon after having recently seen one, but one of my all-time favorites reached out to me to let me know he was in town, so I had to turn in that stash of lots of rolled quarters to the bank & make it work. His rate was quite a bit higher than it was when I last saw him, by about $80. Seeing him when he got undressed gave me reason to see why. His body compared to last year was stellar. Clear, defined definition in-between his bulked out pectorals, and his ass last year was already phenomenal, but damn he had much larger quads that I remember. Is this obvious when providers become more attractive with fitter physiques that they are raising their rates because their demand is increasing? I saw a guy who went in the complete opposite direction, being a very handsome stud the first time I had an appointment, and let himself entirely go, but did not change the rate he was asking for. It was always reasonable, but for most it would be enough of a turn-off when his body stopped looking attractive to go elsewhere. To me, if their cock still works and their ass is open for business, I'm good.

I had a nice experience with a "deposits required' guy, pleading my case with my track record of reliability, and told him he could verify that with reaching out to anyone I've seen, or read my reviews. I enjoyed my session, and didn't have to send an advance deposit. Has anyone else been in this same boat of essentially groveling to be seen by someone who has this policy in place? When I attempted a second meet-up with this guy, he wasn't interested, so I suppose that the effort on my part may not have been worth it - he rejected that second visit before discussing the financial arrangement, and I did donate in full (including gratuity) at the start. His words were "I'm not sure. I have a lot going on this weekend", which is code for "No".

I like to be pointing downward barely visible past my balls when I'm face down, growing to (gasp) a good half inch beyond my testicles when fully aroused. It seems like most guys lie down on their cock, making the masseur have to reach for it if they want access if it's not of the therapeutic variety. For masseurs, is this a probable clue / hint that the client is interested in the massage getting into fun territory depending on how the penis is resting, as well as the amount of distance the legs are resting apart from one another?

It means I'm entirely unavailable to hire them. I do enjoy watching guys doing "massage and more" on their social media, with sleuths on here to give a link to who we're seeing. I've reached out to guys willing to film for self-promotion at no charge to the client, but I do not fit the criteria that they're looking for in a video. I'm too old, small, and hairy.

The day will never happen, as too many myths would get busted, but I love the fetish of measuring with measuring tape with hires, having something to build on for a future visit (biceps, chest, cock girth if they're a pumper).

I would recommend maintaining or even gaining muscle weight, as you look really great in your profile photos. P.S. your moniker on there is a cute one!

I wish your thread was still active. That was quite a hot read! I think many of us are very curious who the major 80s / 90s porn star was who roomed with Poolboy. The only one that comes to mind in that era is Matt Ramsey. He'd be one heck of a roommate!

This guy needs to do a signing at a some major adult store between the hours of 2 and 4. Just remind him to bring his own quill pen to sign autographs and a remote for the VCR to rewind.

You will never convince people who never tip to suddenly do so. This is why so many masseurs who used to be $100 now ask for $120 or more - to build in the tip they may not receive. I wish the revolt on gratuities would result in paying everyone a decent living wage and end the groveling. I hated working on tips, and so did my co-workers when I would get stiffed making massive payouts. The cute lady may make 2 grand on a big jackpot, but not the ugly old man - the customers don't know or care that tips are shared. It happened so often I'm grateful I quit. (And I did let the door hit me in the ass on the way out).

I love it when I've had a sexual experience with someone, and then later on see that they either prior to or after my visit, had sex with someone else who I've also seen, or have wanted to see for a good while. Does anyone else bump the priority of wanting to see someone if they've been with a different person that you're a fan of, but logistically know you'll likely never get to see because of either distance or cost? I'll give examples, since reading these sentences back, it may look like I'm drunk. I saw in Palm Springs CatCityAndy from rent masseur, and at a party, met JKBalls from Rent Men. After socializing with both, I saw a porn studio scene with those two together. By seeing this, it makes me want to see JKBalls even more since he's someone I've met, and I had a super time with CatCityAndy. Another example. I saw Luke West and Olympus Massage from rent masseur, both based in San Diego. Each of them have been with Tyler Saint. Luke in porn, Olympus with a session. Tyler Saint has been with Teddy Hunter recently. Now I'd LOVE to be with Teddy Hunter more than before, since being with Tyler is rather difficult because he's quite busy.

Quite a few guys (actually more than quite a few) have abandoned X and are now on BlueSky. There's too many masseurs to name to provide a list. Scroll down a bit with profiles of guys and you'll find their social media sites if they opt to provide them. I'd encourage you to have a better experience to see men who AREN'T publishing those. Nearly everyone will tell you that they are just wanting additional subscribers and could care less about seeing you.

This guy bounces around so much, I've no idea where he's stationed or if he even is in the places that he claims to be. Back when he had stability with his location, he was one of the precious few who advertised in Eastern San Diego County. Way back then, he was only on masseur finder, had a very high rate, and I was privately told that only occasionally could sessions get fun (read : have an MMA body like he does). I may be giving information that will make you not be able to look away, but one of his ears is permanently injured due to a fighting incident. And here I thought Mike Tyson was only hungry once. 🤣

You're right in that SIZE of sandwich = length of time. The bigger / longer, the more expensive. I've never questioned donating more for additional time, but I am questioning price add-ons like climaxing that damper what is to be an enjoyable experience. I'll add I'm referring to the client ejaculating, not the provider. Those who bitch about that in their hires don't hold water - and I feel that way even hiring a straight-up escort. YOUR satisfaction is what is to be met in a meet-up, not expecting theirs.

I doubt I'm in the minority with this take, but simply have a highest scale for ALL clients, and that ends the frustration. They aren't going to lose any business if their massage skills are up to par. Nobody likes ticky-tack nit-picky "add-on" charges for things. Just charge everybody for everything, and if people don't want it more than the basic clothed masseur with no dick touching, that's fine. If we end up fucking, that's fine. Just like a sandwich at a fast-food place. Whether I want just a plain patty and bun or want a boatload of toppings, we're paying the same price.

Your picture you posted of yourself today compared to the previous one just from last month is OUTSTANDING! It is obvious and extremely noticeable (and worth the effort you're putting in) to keep grinding. The more fit you become, the better you'll feel about yourself, and the experiences get better. Everyone else has various tastes, so you'll lose a fan while gaining a few - don't let rejection slow you down. Often times it's people envious and too lazy to make an effort to improve themselves. Never use getting older as an excuse. If anything, it should be a further motivator to stay around longer. Turning 54 today, I'm happy I planned a "fit before 55" workout, and it gets gradually more difficult as the days progress, but I'm batting 1,000 with accomplishing what I set out to do today, binge watch daddydurden content (just kidding, but I did that, too).

To the original poster : Read, re-read, and read again the most important thing you typed in your post. "I know I'm a client". That's all you need to understand, because "He's just a provider". That he did so much as to reach out to send you birthday wishes was going the extra mile. Mine is today, and I'd love to hear from people who are "just too busy" in their lives to take time to wish me a happy one, but I live in the real world. If he's telling you he loves you, he's just being polite, because he loves your money, and there's nothing at all wrong in his line of work for it. Quit dogging on your appearance - if he played "talk to the hand" to those he wasn't attractive to, it would mean less revenue. You're not the only person he's being intimate with that he doesn't want a full-time relationship with. You're undoubtedly his best client financially, but if you can be okay with knowing that your relationship with him is going to be "on the clock only", until you can afford him to be a rent man for life, enjoy your moments.

Their style of music isn't my thing, but I feel Alicia Keys and John Legend have the best voices of famous singer / songwriters today. Karen Carpenter to me had the most pleasing singing voice of anyone I've heard in my lifetime. At least Benson got spot-on advice when he auditioned for American Idol - he was too good to waste his time competing on that show. It's been eons since that tv program churned out a winner with a consistent hit catalog.

Did you volunteer payment in advance, or was that his prerequisite? I can't believe with a body that impeccable that he'd be a smoker. Next time someone demands payment ahead of time, send it to a business address (like his personal training operation, for example) to be able to get refunded. It was a pain in the ass to try to be reimbursed for my one and only advance payment no-show incident, but it did happen because I did just that. Mine was with muscle hunk Eddie Swaim in Palm Springs.

If you're sending a shout-out as a business operator, regardless of what the reason is for, there in my view is zero excuse to list non-existent days in your want ad. Five months out of the year do not have a 31st day, so when I see someone list April, June, September, or November 31st in a casting call, I tongue-in-cheek let them know I'm always available on that day - it's seen as me being a snarky ass more so than them being an idiot. I just saw Kyle Krieger, who I'm quite a fan of, mention just that (but I refrained from putting him in his place - maybe it was a "dumb jock" move on his part, for all I know). Anyone else have no tolerance for people who don't understand the calendar? I doubt spellcheck would INSERT these days that are never there - I do pity guys named Michael with alternate spellings, always having to adjust for how their own name is spelled. Crazy that for years it was the most commonly given first name, since it's such a spelling bitch.

I fully agree with p_a's comment that if the introductory experience is mind-blowing, I'll likely never see that provider again. There's no way that an encore could be better. I do stop seeing men when the sensuality takes a nose-dive. I'm taken aback and frustrated that the engagement with me is being reduced, likely because they're saving real fun for someone after me. Sometimes middle-of-the-day is all they or I could do, so that's simply unfortunate circumstance. As for things improving over time, I have fond memories from when I first started, and it's amusing to think back on them - "OMG this stud is entirely naked, I can't believe I'm deep between his cheeks, I've never had a guy jerk me and him off simultaneously!, etc.. Doing more and more as they know I've become a regular and the (because it's paid) enjoyment they get out of me is reason to return time and time again.