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The back-and-forth seemed to be far too lengthy. You liked what you saw in his ad, so you should arrange a date and time, then be done with it save for a same day follow-up to confirm. Work out the pec flex kinks and other wants and desires in person. The general rule of thumb is, more and more pre-appointment questions that get asked, the less likely the meet-up will materialize. I detested playing 20 questions with prospective clients (non-escort or masseur, but this applies to just about anyone offering a service). I KNEW that they weren't going to even bother following through.
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After disappearing for a long while, Mr. Fresh (formerly Emanuel on masseur finder) has returned. I don't know if he'll do in-call (you to him), but he is (or was) a go-go dancer which is why evening availability isn't possible. He's muscled up significantly from some of the pictures he uses, which is for most a pleasant surprise, but for those who aren't fans of extra fit bods, a fair warning.
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I saw the most gigantic red flag in an ad while perusing rent men tonight. First words are "Hello ladies". 🤢 That's about as bad as an Eskimo placing an ad looking for sand.
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It's insanely rare, but if a reply back to you is long-winded, it's a sign that they aren't as busy as you would think that they should be, and could then in turn come off as desperate for a client meet. Short and to the point is the norm nowadays. (This could be an unusual example of me following that protocol). 😉
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Not sure how many would take my position on this, but practice with a dildo with your false teeth to increase your ability to open your mouth wider with patience and time. Taking teeth out before performing oral (or having none for starters) is a story a provider would share for the ages. As good as that may feel, my concentration if I was a provider would be on your teeth you just took out from your face rather than the oral pleasure you're giving. Having non-real teeth is NOT something most other people would largely notice. Sure, the other wearers of them may know, but don't let substitute teeth get in the way of your fun. You pointed out that the guy enjoyed it. So long as your tongue is still in there, it's all good to keep your teeth where they are.
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I saw him for the first time two nights ago and was so pleased with his work. He came to where I was on short notice, was the rate he advertised, and looked terrific. It was fun watching him in the shower cleaning off the basting I gave him. As Capitano points out, he doesn't advertise on rent men for a reason - he can be up to an erotic masseur, and a successful one at that. Thank goodness he had a cancellation to enable me to finally meet (and eat) him.
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No matter how crazy this seems, I'd love this.
viewing ownly replied to viewing ownly's topic in Questions About Hiring
When I read that you can get that yourself, my immediate thought was that you're one of the flexible ones. 😂 -
Talk about tearing down limitations. Masseur finder now allows shirtless pics, and that is really important when it comes to being on the fence with choosing someone for a lot of guys, preferring a toned frame or man tits or in-between. I don't think it'll be there beyond the moments after I send this out, but an entirely naked Jake Cole taking a shower is NOT being blurred for non-paying rent masseur viewers. Perhaps this is intentional as a tease to get people to cough up $10 a month to access photos like that of every blurred guy.
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I see that he's changed his moniker to JRNOFEXPRS, which is about as un-catchy a massage name I've ever seen. Just Relax Now Okay Feel Every Xylophone Pulsating Rigid Somehow - just a guess.
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When introducing a 4-hand can be detrimental.
viewing ownly posted a topic in Questions About Hiring
This past January I had by far the most fun day of my life, introducing guys from different cities who offered 4-hand where they resided to massage me together while they each were on vacation in a common city for a first time. They agreed, and all (I hope) had a great experience. I was in the Midwest this past weekend for the first time in nearly two decades on family business. I reached out to one of the guys I saw from the 4-hand to be seen alone. Crickets. I tried two more times over the weekend but never got a response. Had the opportunity have been there for a repeat with the other man, I'm almost sure he wouldn't have avoided my attempts. They had so much in common, it wouldn't at all surprise me if they fly to see one another for massage exchanges since both of them do quite well for themselves. -
Is hiring only for wealthier folks?
viewing ownly replied to marylander1940's topic in Questions About Hiring
All great points made so far. If you're wealthy, you don't need to worry what this kind of entertainment will run you. On the opposite end, if you want someone who is average-looking at best, backpage listings have men in the "under one Franklin" range to please you, but for me I'd rather save up both financially and "in my tank" to have an explosive time with someone I'm attracted to that's worth their donation in Gold (or at least pricey bronze). -
There are couples who do massage to an erotic level, like the traveling porn stars Tyler Saint with Ace Banner, or TwoBoyz in L.A.. They are only available together, but don't hold back on being pleasing. The donation is high, but it's justified. Then there are those who advertise separately from their boyfriend, but mention in their ad that a 4-hand is available with their partner, like body poet in Chicago, or Strong Hands On You in Palm Springs. From my personal experience, when I see a guy alone without his partner, the session tends to be lackluster. This could be because I saw the less energetic of the two, or because they dial it back due to having a committed relationship. There are times that my experience takes an "erotic nose dive", which of course is disappointing, only to learn that he is in a private committed relationship, which would be why certain elements weren't included anymore when they used to be. The curious sessions are the ones with men who are a couple, but book separate rooms and ONLY massage men individually. The only way I could tell is because their travel itineraries match. Interestingly, all guys I've seen who did this are no longer together! Do you only try a 4-hand with couples when you saw one of the men alone before he "settled down"?
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Jake in Chicago been a fantasy hire of mine for years. He visited near me in Nevada almost a decade ago, but crazily wouldn't show a face pic, which is for me a hiring no-no. He did an artsy photo shoot last month, and I think this is the best I've ever seen it. https://www.rentmasseur.com/muscleJake https://www.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/pic/48840755
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No, and unless a rare case where their first and last name is in their ad, we don't need to know theirs, either. That's invasiveness enough to not bother.
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If the sale goes through, even though it's not the same person, perhaps they can blare the theme to "Chico & The Man" at the same point in the game that Boston blares "Sweet Caroline". The owner can dub himself Chico, the fans can be "El Hombre", and slumping gift shop sales can skyrocket.
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After a lengthy absence (and a relocation within SF), he's back! Both the offer of an after-massage bubble bath and the two-and-a-half-hour session options are gone, but I'm happy to see his grand return. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/48826/
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Something that was a firm no on their site was to be shirtless. There's a handsome buff guy who advertises in Phoenix that wears a see-through shirt which showed off his upper body, but the nips must be under clothing - until now? (This is someone else). https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32471/ I for one am all for exposed torsos. I recently bared mine for a before/after at a waxing salon. Nude chests are great!
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When shopping for attire for the annual Company of Men pool party on the Glute God website, I was entranced by a man who wears their goods to perfection, Gustavo Davis. He just so happens to run a private, fully-equipped gym in Las Vegas, which is where I'll be next weekend. Instead of seeing a sensual masseur, I noticed that his workouts with his clients are light-hearted and fun, knowing many men are there just to see him, and the exercise is just a bonus. Interestingly, he apparently was in Palm Springs last weekend just like many of us were, only he was there to do a nude photo shoot in the desert, which he shares tantalizing pictures of. Instagram links are a violation of the rules here, butt (spelled wrong, and you'll understand why) he is fitnessbygustavo on Instagram. I hope it goes fun, and I let him know I'm holding myself accountable, and will see him in about 6 months so he can see progress I've made, and then it's my hope that my body can turn heads in addition or instead of the attire I'm barely in.
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He didn't respond when I sent him a private message on rent masseur, so texting must be the best way to attempt to reach him. $70 is a pretty big leap from therapeutic. It would be in his best interest to bump that rate closer together to not short-change himself.
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I stand corrected (or at least see that he's now available when he wasn't in the past). https://www.rent.men/JettWayne
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Since in 2026 seeing an escort on a low end runs [redacted amount], I was thinking of something that would be a nice touch on the part of the escort to do. Nearly always, I'm going somewhere in public after an appointment, and what I hate is having an accusation Drew Barrymore could make at her family dinner table directed at me and be true. For those who aren't familiar, in the movie E.T. she insults her brother by saying he has "penis breath". 99% of the time, I have that (unless their cock is so pumped beyond recognition that blowing them was like sucking on a shoulder or calf). Wouldn't it be great if an escort provided a travel kit toothbrush with toothpaste, and / or mini mouthwash to give to the client as a helpful gesture? I've never experienced this, but personally I think that would be an awesome thing for him to do, unless oral wasn't involved on our end, which would just then make it awkward. I'm always wanting to clean my mouth right after a session is over but frequently forget to put those things in my pocket due to being so excited to reach their destination. Not that having "P.B." is a bad thing, but fresh breath is better.
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Attention! – Annual Palm Springs Weekend, 2026
viewing ownly replied to + Oliver's topic in The Lounge
Great party as always. So fun to see familiar faces and chit-chat with guys I've been too shy to have talked to in past events. I look forward to next year (and I'll bring back the wrestling singlet, ha ha). Phil -
Masseur who offers professional and erotic massages
viewing ownly replied to Poll123's topic in Questions About Hiring
I think having a different number isn't common, but you bring up something that IS common - a different massage name from an escort name. -
Masseur who offers professional and erotic massages
viewing ownly replied to Poll123's topic in Questions About Hiring
Look for someone that advertises on both rent masseur and rent men. Unless on rent men it's made clear that it's only going to be a massage, gently reach to touch them and discover where your hand ends up. If it gets deliberately placed by him in a more special place, you'll likely get more. If your hand if violently slammed away from him back next to your body on the table, take the hint. Also look at what the reviews indicate. If EVERY review indicates a sensual experience, the odds are in your favor that getting more will materialize. If no reviews indicate that, avoid. -
Steevn visiting San Diego from Los Angeles
viewing ownly replied to + 7829V's topic in Spas & Masseurs
Something I absolutely adore about Steevn is his unit. I consider myself to be about as tiny as humanly possible, so it's refreshing to see someone who is out and proud with one somehow less endowed than myself. I'm sorry I missed his Palm Springs trip, hoping to connect in the future with him sometime.
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