Travis69

The worst escort experience of my life. Does that sum it up?

I got a massage in Lhasa from a blind guy and I put extra clothes on.

Did not know about this site when I saw him. Saw him off CL I think. It was years ago.

Smurof - there's the problem . . . Your masseur was into hairy asses and you just got yourself a wax job which was a turn off for him so he went slip, sliding away!

Well, the two escorts I know who retired both bought property in London with what they earned, and they now live very comfortable and fulfilling lives with their respective partners.
 
For my part escorting enabled me to get a law degree, and I will soon be a practicing solicitor. I also live a comfortable and fulfilling life with my partner of ten years. While I haven't retired yet, it is inevitable, since I won't have the time to escort soon.

I heard a story on NPR last summer about support animals and how easy it was to get them "certified", since there really is no standard for certification.
 
I find myself more and more behind the movement, though ... no secret that I'm a dog lover. We just moved my father into an independent living complex, finding one that allowed dogs (big ones, he's got a retriever like I do) was first on our list of criteria. Last week when I visited him there with my dog, I walked her through the lounge on the way out, and ended up spending about a half-hour longer there as the residents wanted to pet and play with my dog. One admonished me sternly, "you bring her back next week!"

Now I always say thank you as I grab my towel and head out of their room. That's TWO words!!!!!

My first thought was exactly what @MiamiLooker said, but based on your comment I'll use a different term - sexual assault. In my opinion (and it sounds like @MiamiLooker thinks along the same lines) a person who uses their physical size to attempt unwanted sexual content with someone who is smaller than they are and is in a weakened state due to an injury has at the very least attempted to sexually assault the other party.

Get an indoor antenna for $20.00. NO monthly charges and you get all the regular channels plus a few others (40 in all). You might enjoy METV channel which all all the good oldies like MASH, Hogan Heroes, etc.

Get an indoor antenna for $20.00. NO monthly charges and you get all the regular channels plus a few others (40 in all). You might enjoy METV channel which all all the good oldies like MASH, Hogan Heroes, etc.

Sorry, I had no idea I was such a worthless human being for showing empathy for someone in a difficult situation.

Show some compassion for someone from another country who hasn't mastered the English language.

Show some compassion for someone from another country who hasn't mastered the English language.

English, is of course my first language, however, I lived in Latin American for enough years that I am almost as comfortable in Spanish as in English. Furthermore I taught high school Spanish for many years. So much for background information.
We are seeing more and more escorts describing themselves as Latin and the written English they use to express themselves definitely indicates that their first language is Spanish NOT English. Thus when I see an escort describe himself as Latin I am willing to cut him some slack regarding his written English. If I'm looking for outstanding written English I can always read old articles by William F. Buckley Jr. If I'm lo0king for outstanding escorts I'm more interested in what they're into than their command of written English.

Isnt it ironic that the OP warns about hating but himself is hating someone who perhaps is more educated and speaks more languages than himself?
America First!

Which is why I used the term "seem to assume".
 

I am generally unconcerned about a sexual partner's HIV status because I use condoms, and because I know that I'm more likely to contract HIV from somebody who thinks they are negative than somebody who knows they are positive and who is medicated. That said I would find it reassuring to know that somebody is poz and undetectable. That is because I have educated myself on this topic.
 

I think we all know who has shown wilful ignorance on this topic.

There are both poz clients and poz hookers. I've seen many poz clients because of the stigma that @youngboldone is spreading. It's unfortunate and unfair. Just because one is poz does not mean they are any less deserving of intimacy and at the end of the day hopefully love.
 
Hugs,
Greg

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Wow. I wish I could retract the defence of you I mounted in this thread.
 
Did you read any of the articles that @KennF linked to? In terms of HIV transmission it’s safer to have sex with a poz person who is on meds and undetectable than with somebody who thinks they are negative (but could well be wrong). The guys who think they are negative “could potentially infect you with a fatal disease.” Moreover you seem to assume that all clients are HIV negative and/or care about the escort’s HIV status, if you think poz escorts should not be in the business. On both counts you are incorrect.
 
Please go and educate yourself instead of spreading such stigmatising nonsense.

My husband's and my sexual paths have definitely diverged as time as gone on. We never did have what I'd call a robust sex life. I foolishly thought when we got married that our sex life would improve and get better with time and eventually peak. It never did. We have now been in a sexless marriage for the last 11 of our 18 years together. Other than the sexual component, the rest of our marriage is great, so it's not like I want a divorce. But he's almost 60 and done with sex. I'm only 44 and just now coming into my prime, if my raging libido is any indication. So I finally had a frank convo with him and told him I wasn't ready to be celibate for the rest of my life. We now have an open marriage, and I have his permission to get my sexual needs fulfilled elsewhere.

So much better than the 'traditional'/heteronormative approach of suppressing your urges until they spill out in an affair, or 'cheating', thus destroying an otherwise excellent relationship. Bravo.

If you are in a hotel many front desks have courtesy kits for people who forget the basics.

If you are in a hotel many front desks have courtesy kits for people who forget the basics.

Considering some of the questions people ask front desk clerks I would not be embarrassed. Better to be a little embarrassed then not be happy in bed.

If you are in a hotel many front desks have courtesy kits for people who forget the basics.