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I apologize on behalf of this Filipino “therapist”, even I am annoyed on what he just said on the video. Either he got pissed the guy came early, or he’s pretending to be a professional therapist on cam that he does not encourage ejaculation during sessions. Like are you kidding me, you touched the dick of course it’ll get stimulated. It’s written in the description of the genital detox thing Jab Karsai whatever that you shouldn’t touch the penis itself but the surrounding areas. And it originated from Thailand so it says, and he’s Filipino Canadian. Southeast asian most of the time look alike but trust me, we’re all different lol. If you want genital detox, just go to thailand to find an authentic one. In the Philippines, masseurs or providers are always promoting gimmicks that didn’t even originate in the country itself, like Nuru massage, which is from japan but there’s an all men spa there that allegedly practices “nuru” massage, even promoting them as nuru men (which sadly got raided lol). Also, almost all massage place in the Philippines, particularly ones with masseurs says they offer Lingam massage which is a massage to help eliminate erectile dysfunction, but again this originated in thailand. Yes, we are good at “scamming” lol and that’s sad, especially foreigners to that country wouldn’t really know the difference. But yeah, whatever the massage “therapist” on the video was blabbering about, he probably learned it on a youtube tutorial or something. Hot, but him responding to it like that, is a total turn off and quite frankly, disrespectful
Btw side note: I had Lingam massage from a masseur who claimed to have studied it while he was in Thailand.. Dunno if that's true. But yeah, it's basically edging and milking but make it more sensual and p*nis focused. I really miss that because I think I lasted two hours on that session before I came... And then another one after a few minutes. I don't know how to do it, but it's hard for the therapist's part, because he has to be patient and at the same time just concentrated with the penis itself. Most of the edging videos I watch that were created by white people (sorry lol) are just plain teasing and stroking either lightly or in a normal jerking off manner.. Lingam is much more different, like movements I never knew existed... Honestly I badly need it again because I think I'm having PE despite my age lol. Sadly, idk where to find here in the US where most HE's are either straight up an*l or HJ lol. 

Good luck with ticking off that box. It seems that most masseurs who identify as Asian are of Chinese or Thai background. Muscular Asian guys are a type for me - I don't know of any Asians on rentmasseur or rentmen, for that matter, who identify as Korean on the east or west coast of the US.
While I know that this isn't immediately helpful, put a trip to Seoul on your bucket list. I've had very nice experiences with Korean muscle guys from the massage sites that come and go there. Besides that, the food is good, the history is complex and interesting, the people are nice, and it is easy to get around by light rail in Seoul or to major cities by high speed rail.

Ok, so just a quick one.. I couldn't help but have another session with Peter because I really like the pressure of his massage. Reminds me so much of the traditional massage in my country. Very therapeutic and obviously more than sufficient for me. The ending, tbh, is way better than the first one, in fact, I'm gonna say that I didn't expect it to be really "interactive" lol! All my senses were awakened and then relieved after lol 😆 anyway he acknowledged what happened to me at yulong spa. He mentioned the names of the two guys who massaged me and used his name. My mistake probably is I didn't ask for his contact details from some patrons of him instead of directing to that spa. He actually apologized for them, and I said no, they should be the one apologizing, not him. Anyway I'd rather always have a session with him in flushing instead. But for clients who live in manhattan, to lessen the risk of getting scammed with the bait and switch thing, he want you guys to just text him thru his contact number (and never the spa number) so he can arrange the date he can be present in the spa because he said "he doesn't have fixed working days" there. (and never trust the spa's booking website, that f-ing annoying site lol). You know what to do lol. 

I respect everyone's responses. And I love all races that's for sure ❤️ I've met a lot of tasty.... *oh sht*.. Uhmm.. Nice white men or people in general. With everything blasted on the news, it's just frustrating and making me anxious as an immigrant. They are depicting immigrants in a negative way. And not all people in this country are as open and welcoming to immigrants. So most of the time, my colleagues who have lived here almost their entire lives have always adviced me that if I'm going to move to another state, include in the factors the diversity of the place. And again, with my response, I really meant no offense at all. There are certain, how do I say it? Types? Of white people that scares me a little, and to be honest, not all of those types are white. It's up to your interpretation what those types mean. It's probably just because again of the news and my social media feed. But again I love American saus... I mean white men.... err.. PEOPLE! 🫣
All love, no hate I swear xoxo

"Have you looked a little further West in Pennsylvania ? Cost of living is lower than New Jersey but hospital salaries are comparable." 
@pubic_assistance sadly most of my coworkers who's also asian/filipino says that it's not a good place to live in. Not a lot of diversity. It's hard but that's one factor I also have to consider. I just have to say this and I'm sorry I don't want to offend any race or anything, but majority if not all, in that state, are white people. With strong political views. And I'm just trying to stay neutral as an immigrant but with the current political climate here, I feel so unsafe. I am a permanent resident here. With proper documents and definitely no criminal records. But nowadays, those documents won't protect you from these purging situation of the immigrants. I came to the point wherein the paranoid me would wanna go back to the Philippines for vacation but is afraid that the system would come up with something like frame me for something so I could get deported. That's how scary I portray the current administration is 😩

I respect everyone's responses. And I love all races that's for sure ❤️ I've met a lot of tasty.... *oh sht*.. Uhmm.. Nice white men or people in general. With everything blasted on the news, it's just frustrating and making me anxious as an immigrant. They are depicting immigrants in a negative way. And not all people in this country are as open and welcoming to immigrants. So most of the time, my colleagues who have lived here almost their entire lives have always adviced me that if I'm going to move to another state, include in the factors the diversity of the place. And again, with my response, I really meant no offense at all. There are certain, how do I say it? Types? Of white people that scares me a little, and to be honest, not all of those types are white. It's up to your interpretation what those types mean. It's probably just because again of the news and my social media feed. But again I love American saus... I mean white men.... err.. PEOPLE! 🫣
All love, no hate I swear xoxo

I respect everyone's responses. And I love all races that's for sure ❤️ I've met a lot of tasty.... *oh sht*.. Uhmm.. Nice white men or people in general. With everything blasted on the news, it's just frustrating and making me anxious as an immigrant. They are depicting immigrants in a negative way. And not all people in this country are as open and welcoming to immigrants. So most of the time, my colleagues who have lived here almost their entire lives have always adviced me that if I'm going to move to another state, include in the factors the diversity of the place. And again, with my response, I really meant no offense at all. There are certain, how do I say it? Types? Of white people that scares me a little, and to be honest, not all of those types are white. It's up to your interpretation what those types mean. It's probably just because again of the news and my social media feed. But again I love American saus... I mean white men.... err.. PEOPLE! 🫣
All love, no hate I swear xoxo

I respect everyone's responses. And I love all races that's for sure ❤️ I've met a lot of tasty.... *oh sht*.. Uhmm.. Nice white men or people in general. With everything blasted on the news, it's just frustrating and making me anxious as an immigrant. They are depicting immigrants in a negative way. And not all people in this country are as open and welcoming to immigrants. So most of the time, my colleagues who have lived here almost their entire lives have always adviced me that if I'm going to move to another state, include in the factors the diversity of the place. And again, with my response, I really meant no offense at all. There are certain, how do I say it? Types? Of white people that scares me a little, and to be honest, not all of those types are white. It's up to your interpretation what those types mean. It's probably just because again of the news and my social media feed. But again I love American saus... I mean white men.... err.. PEOPLE! 🫣
All love, no hate I swear xoxo

I respect everyone's responses. And I love all races that's for sure ❤️ I've met a lot of tasty.... *oh sht*.. Uhmm.. Nice white men or people in general. With everything blasted on the news, it's just frustrating and making me anxious as an immigrant. They are depicting immigrants in a negative way. And not all people in this country are as open and welcoming to immigrants. So most of the time, my colleagues who have lived here almost their entire lives have always adviced me that if I'm going to move to another state, include in the factors the diversity of the place. And again, with my response, I really meant no offense at all. There are certain, how do I say it? Types? Of white people that scares me a little, and to be honest, not all of those types are white. It's up to your interpretation what those types mean. It's probably just because again of the news and my social media feed. But again I love American saus... I mean white men.... err.. PEOPLE! 🫣
All love, no hate I swear xoxo

I respect everyone's responses. And I love all races that's for sure ❤️ I've met a lot of tasty.... *oh sht*.. Uhmm.. Nice white men or people in general. With everything blasted on the news, it's just frustrating and making me anxious as an immigrant. They are depicting immigrants in a negative way. And not all people in this country are as open and welcoming to immigrants. So most of the time, my colleagues who have lived here almost their entire lives have always adviced me that if I'm going to move to another state, include in the factors the diversity of the place. And again, with my response, I really meant no offense at all. There are certain, how do I say it? Types? Of white people that scares me a little, and to be honest, not all of those types are white. It's up to your interpretation what those types mean. It's probably just because again of the news and my social media feed. But again I love American saus... I mean white men.... err.. PEOPLE! 🫣
All love, no hate I swear xoxo

To respect the admin and the forum guidelines, I wouldn’t respond to that. That’s just my opinion. I’d rather not discuss where I got that idea or notion from. I just don’t want to move in Pennsylvania. Period 🙂. It’s a nice state.

"Have you looked a little further West in Pennsylvania ? Cost of living is lower than New Jersey but hospital salaries are comparable." 
@pubic_assistance sadly most of my coworkers who's also asian/filipino says that it's not a good place to live in. Not a lot of diversity. It's hard but that's one factor I also have to consider. I just have to say this and I'm sorry I don't want to offend any race or anything, but majority if not all, in that state, are white people. With strong political views. And I'm just trying to stay neutral as an immigrant but with the current political climate here, I feel so unsafe. I am a permanent resident here. With proper documents and definitely no criminal records. But nowadays, those documents won't protect you from these purging situation of the immigrants. I came to the point wherein the paranoid me would wanna go back to the Philippines for vacation but is afraid that the system would come up with something like frame me for something so I could get deported. That's how scary I portray the current administration is 😩

I had this last December. Omg and I'm a side. I thought it was like what you see in porn. I never bottomed at all. So it was really painful. He didn't even ease into it, he just inserted his pointing finger. I got shocked lol

I live in Dallas, one of the fastest growing cities in the U.S. (please don't bother with the Texas bashing responses.)  Dallas is a pretty liberal city and has a very active gay scene.  I also understand that the greater Dallas area has a growing Filipino community.  Rapidly growing cities are always in need of healthcare professionals.  The summers can be hot, so there is that.  But Texas has no state income tax, so you can take what you would pay in other states and invest for the future!  It may not be for you and that's okay.

Diversity is absolutely something to "consider". BUT I made this suggestion because I grew up there and I have seen a huge change in the cultural diversity of various regions in PA. To be afraid of conservative white people is paranoid to be sure. Although the Susquehanna Valley WAS all white back in the 60s, the number of Indian and East Asian, black and Latino people living there has drastically increased over the years. My parents live in a nice suburb just nearby to a major medical center so many of their neighbors are doctors and nurses. The neighbors next door are Indian and the ones across the road are Iranian. My father watches football on Sundays with the gay couple down the road. 
Although you don't have the diversity of a large city and you won't find many traditional gay bars (these are going to be mixed community venues)...it is wrong to jump to the conclusion that these kinds of places are unsafe simply because you're not the same as everyone else. 

To respect the admin and the forum guidelines, I wouldn’t respond to that. That’s just my opinion. I’d rather not discuss where I got that idea or notion from. I just don’t want to move in Pennsylvania. Period 🙂. It’s a nice state.

"Have you looked a little further West in Pennsylvania ? Cost of living is lower than New Jersey but hospital salaries are comparable." 
@pubic_assistance sadly most of my coworkers who's also asian/filipino says that it's not a good place to live in. Not a lot of diversity. It's hard but that's one factor I also have to consider. I just have to say this and I'm sorry I don't want to offend any race or anything, but majority if not all, in that state, are white people. With strong political views. And I'm just trying to stay neutral as an immigrant but with the current political climate here, I feel so unsafe. I am a permanent resident here. With proper documents and definitely no criminal records. But nowadays, those documents won't protect you from these purging situation of the immigrants. I came to the point wherein the paranoid me would wanna go back to the Philippines for vacation but is afraid that the system would come up with something like frame me for something so I could get deported. That's how scary I portray the current administration is 😩

"Have you looked a little further West in Pennsylvania ? Cost of living is lower than New Jersey but hospital salaries are comparable." 
@pubic_assistance sadly most of my coworkers who's also asian/filipino says that it's not a good place to live in. Not a lot of diversity. It's hard but that's one factor I also have to consider. I just have to say this and I'm sorry I don't want to offend any race or anything, but majority if not all, in that state, are white people. With strong political views. And I'm just trying to stay neutral as an immigrant but with the current political climate here, I feel so unsafe. I am a permanent resident here. With proper documents and definitely no criminal records. But nowadays, those documents won't protect you from these purging situation of the immigrants. I came to the point wherein the paranoid me would wanna go back to the Philippines for vacation but is afraid that the system would come up with something like frame me for something so I could get deported. That's how scary I portray the current administration is 😩

To respect the admin and the forum guidelines, I wouldn’t respond to that. That’s just my opinion. I’d rather not discuss where I got that idea or notion from. I just don’t want to move in Pennsylvania. Period 🙂. It’s a nice state.

I agree with @wsc. Your list is a bit Utopian. Sadly you are experiencing fhe unfortunate financial reality of the United States in 2025 for young people. Salaries are not keeping up with inflation. 
Most of my friends from Southeast Asia are shocked by food prices here. There is no cheap food destination in the US except States where farm-to-market is more common. 
Have you looked a little further West in Pennsylvania ? Cost of living is lower than New Jersey but hospital salaries are comparable. You are going to need to compromise on something from your list. Anywhere with no crime & great weather is going to be expensive because everyone wants to be there...and no crime means no poverty. 

I spend part of the year northwest of Seattle. It’s a very pricey city and region, especially gas prices. There’s no state income tax, though. Nurse salaries are pretty high, however. There’s also the notorious “Seattle Freeze” 
 

Tennessee is nice but Then there are quality of life issues, amenities and cultural offerings (or lack of) to consider. Everything is a trade-off. You have to prioritize. 

I’d encourage you to consider one other factor - we all talk about cost of living, but we don’t talk much about cost of employment.  The upper Atlantic and New England suffer from high taxation, high cost of living, but because soooo many people live there, relative wages may be lower.
Pondef options in a low tax state like Knoxville or Chattanooga.  

Hey guys, so I know I think it's better to post this kind of question on a platform like reddit, but maybe I can get a reasonable answer in here as well. Just to give you a background, I migrated here in the US around 2022. I am from the Philippines and I'm an RN. Uprooting my life from my country to this foreign land was difficult. Homesickness is like one of your enemies. Cultural differences also can be a factor. But thank God I think I am way past those... at the moment lol. So probably some of you guys know that Filipinos have nursing degrees. And I admit, income is better than some other jobs. But in this current economy and political climate, the cost of living is becoming worse. My main source of income is my job and my extras come from my per diem job. I am not lazy, though at times, I'm thinking about how other people in my age group are already talking about investments, and stocks, or running a business or probably content creating thru OF...LOL kidding. I am the type of person wherein I'm somewhat playing safe all the time. Even in stuff like business or investments. Probably because I grew up in a household wherein we're not rich, and that all of the small businesses my parents tried failed. I'm just telling this just to emphasize that for now, my main source of income would be my employment. So going back, I live in North Jersey. And I started in Central Jersey. The cost of living when I entered here vs now sky rocketed. Like from food and groceries, to rent, to probably gas. It seems like I'm trying to adjust myself to the world around me but my salary isn't actually keeping up with it lol. And as much as possible, I try to avoid any miscellaneous expenses like material stuff... Clothes or shoes or even vacation budget. But still, I can feel struggling and my savings are stagnant. So few months ago, I thought about relocating. One place that was suggested to me by my ex co worker was Seattle. I went there for a little trip, place was nice, the people were ok, as well as the weather, rent was also reasonable, but the food and grocery prices seems high as well as gas price (which is almost 3x than what we have here in Jersey). I have an upcominh trip in LA but I'm just considering California because the offer for RNs in California is way higher than what we have here in jersey or even nyc for that matter. And I know it kinda balances out with the cost of living, but maybe you guys have any other suggestions of places or whatever so I can save more money for myself. When relocating, I am hoping to find a place that has:
1. Good weather
2. Low to none crime rate
3. Low rent prices
4. Cost efficient in groceries and food prices as well as gas
5. Diversified place
Any suggestions? I feel lost, financially speaking lol. 

I apologize on behalf of this Filipino “therapist”, even I am annoyed on what he just said on the video. Either he got pissed the guy came early, or he’s pretending to be a professional therapist on cam that he does not encourage ejaculation during sessions. Like are you kidding me, you touched the dick of course it’ll get stimulated. It’s written in the description of the genital detox thing Jab Karsai whatever that you shouldn’t touch the penis itself but the surrounding areas. And it originated from Thailand so it says, and he’s Filipino Canadian. Southeast asian most of the time look alike but trust me, we’re all different lol. If you want genital detox, just go to thailand to find an authentic one. In the Philippines, masseurs or providers are always promoting gimmicks that didn’t even originate in the country itself, like Nuru massage, which is from japan but there’s an all men spa there that allegedly practices “nuru” massage, even promoting them as nuru men (which sadly got raided lol). Also, almost all massage place in the Philippines, particularly ones with masseurs says they offer Lingam massage which is a massage to help eliminate erectile dysfunction, but again this originated in thailand. Yes, we are good at “scamming” lol and that’s sad, especially foreigners to that country wouldn’t really know the difference. But yeah, whatever the massage “therapist” on the video was blabbering about, he probably learned it on a youtube tutorial or something. Hot, but him responding to it like that, is a total turn off and quite frankly, disrespectful
Btw side note: I had Lingam massage from a masseur who claimed to have studied it while he was in Thailand.. Dunno if that's true. But yeah, it's basically edging and milking but make it more sensual and p*nis focused. I really miss that because I think I lasted two hours on that session before I came... And then another one after a few minutes. I don't know how to do it, but it's hard for the therapist's part, because he has to be patient and at the same time just concentrated with the penis itself. Most of the edging videos I watch that were created by white people (sorry lol) are just plain teasing and stroking either lightly or in a normal jerking off manner.. Lingam is much more different, like movements I never knew existed... Honestly I badly need it again because I think I'm having PE despite my age lol. Sadly, idk where to find here in the US where most HE's are either straight up an*l or HJ lol.