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14 minutes ago, Passionproject said:

Been with him. Dm me. Happy to give some thoughts. Cliff notes. Pricing structuring is annoying. Flat fee for 90 minutes but lasts 45 at best. He’s aggressive, pure top, and knows how to pound you out. Doesn’t kiss really. Looks like his pics. Nice enough guy and definitely satisfies his bottoms that are looking for what he dishes out. 

Thanks!

Any insight? Thanks

https://rent.men/Estebanpolo

Any insight? Thanks

https://rent.men/GABRIELMULLER

At least he ads as 'top'. Seen ads listing out 'straight' and 'vers' on the same page. Sent an enquiry, got ignored to no surprise.

Conscious one would quote different rate out of their home country. I would always ask for their quote in local currency. - easier less hassle. If i were to pay in foreign currency, i would confirm arrangement beforehand to avoid debate on fx rate. 

2 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

As a client, I like hiring on long weekends, but that's me - and I'm not afraid to invite providers to my home.

Big fan of long weekend hiring esp for couple days trip out of city or state. Good for the soul, not so much for bank account lol

On 12/21/2022 at 3:53 AM, garetheast said:

I wanted to see if providers considered it rude to ask whether they are available on holidays (Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Christmas Eve and day, New Year’s Eve and day, etc.). Not everyone celebrates the same holidays and I don’t celebrate most of them. I’m happy to pay a premium for holiday services. I just don’t want to offend by asking if this is considered inappropriate. 

Its a business by the end of the day. One wouldnt stop sending work email on holidays - well receipient might not respond but email sent anw.

Agree that photo-reverse search is amazing tool. Plus ask for reference from my regular escort (granted i trust he always gv honest opinion, albeit might be with some agenda - competition and whatnot but he has never lead me astray).

Cross checking his other socials (OF in particular) is also recc'd - might give you insight on his skills and (actual) sex preference. 

Trust your gut!

On 5/17/2024 at 12:30 PM, APPLE1 said:

I think I phrased my question poorly. I completely understand the concepts of making sure they look like what they say the look like, and they they provide a good experience. What I don't understand is how or why I would put a huge effort into trying to determine if they were somehow dangerous simply because I met them ONLINE.

When guys reference things like hurting, killing, blackmailing, etc., I don't understand why the online introduction puts me in any more danger than taking home a guy I met 10 mins ago in a bar or any other in person setting.

I sincerely hope this is some sort of social experiment qs or purely for research purposes. 

Met in months ago. Not as ripped as his RM picts but still in shape nonetheless. Play wise, not my cup of tea, wont repeat.

4 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

Exactly!

This is why I don't understand all the "recent experience?" questions in the Deli, when there are reviews provided from 6 months earlier on the same thread.  If a man is going to bareback with a stranger, wouldn't it make sense to look for someone who DOESN'T have any reviews from the past 6 months so maybe that's a sign they've been celibate and their test results might be current?!  For safety, someone shouldn't want to hookup with someone else who has been reviewed in the past month, lest they won't have had time for testing and treatment! 😇

1. Bold to assume all clients left a review

2. Safest approach would be stop bareback with escorts or strangers altogether

3. Hiring is a risky game; bareback and hiring is a conscious choice

Just now, Alex93108 said:

Siad provider worked in London for 6 months. I have a rule now : No Brazilian escort hires in Brazil that used to work in London. They are all wasted and used, the life sucked out of them by the time they return back.

Only 2 out of 10 Brazilians i had met that actually perform well. 

2 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

 

Let me refer you back to the end of my previous message:

Also, when it's not working out, don't exacerbate being the odd man out.  Ask one or both of them to leave.

No, you cannot demand them to pay attention to you, but you can end things and save yourself the stress.

Yeah agree lesson learnt. Me not liking confrontation also plays part in that.

Told the first guy what i felt next morning, he apologises and wish that i had said something then so he can fix the situation. It was awkward conversation. But hey he did well in the 3s that occur week after and i am seeing him again in 2 weeks time for a 3days trip.

2 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

It sounds as if you just randomly put together two escorts and it didn't work out for you.

Learn from this.  Find an escort who has a second he works well with.  Don't just throw two strangers together and expect that it's going to work out in your favor.

Also, when it's not working out, don't exacerbate being the odd man out.  Ask one or both of them to leave.

No, you cannot demand them to pay attention to you, but you can end things and save yourself the stress.

Actually met the first guy several times before for 1on1 and 3s. Sessions always went well. Second guy was recommended by the first guy. Had several 3s with the first guy (just not with this particular second guy) that went well; and so i know well his operation and what to expect in terms of attention. In all those other 3s, i hv never felt like the odd man out. This particular 3s (with this particular guy) is just different. 

Had another 3s with him and other guy (this time random) a week after, to no surprise all went well. 

Left feeling like the third guy throughout a 3s with 2 escorts who were so into each other. I book the first guy for an overnight and the second guy for 2h; so there was a lot of fucking and resting in between. They did their job well in so far the actual fucking goes. But i cant help feel like a random meat bag/ hole that was there to just be fucked - its not a good feeling. They would:

> pull each other for french kiss throughout the session; and only give me lips peck now and then and only if I initiate first. There was a moment where they are deep eating each other face with hands on each other whilst i was standing next to them doing nothing, i just stand there like some statue. None of them even put their hands on me. They only stop after i move to sit on the bed.

> pull each other for a cuddle and caressing each other during resting on bed; whilst i would be left aside. Was so awkward for me I often just go stand beside the bed or sit on sofa or went to toilet or sit on bed facing them cuddling

> suggest to take a rest or smoke; then whenever i did they would then make out in front of me. They would fuck me like a machine (no passion) but they would make love with passion so hot that i feel wrong just by being in the room - so i went to toilet often lol

Whilst I am aware that I cant demand attraction from them, i would prefer them to not do it in front of me and on my dime.

To top it off, the first guy finish earlier than agreed time (finish at the same time as the second guy). Perhaps to move to somewhere more private.

On 4/3/2024 at 2:40 PM, DWnyc said:

also had a session cut short because “im Not feeling well, nothing to do with you, and I won’t charge for all the time …” right after he checked his phone … and I’m pretty sure arranged either a hookup or a longer session client.

I feel you on this one, happened to me recently. Voice my complaint to him and he offers to go out for lunch free of charge day after lol

Once to twice per month, but could go significantly increase when travelling. Did 4days hire last month and currently arranging for 3days hire for next couple weeks, both on travel. Tho I could go monk for a period of time if no one intersting around.

Met him in Melb. Stunning to look at but I personally wouldnt see him again. 

Pjur silicone all the way

Hv had several sessions with them (or at least i suspect to be one of them), not reccs. IME, waste of money and time, those 6packs are not a guarantee lol.

5 hours ago, DynamicUno said:

I'm curious where you're finding so many extravagantly priced guys, I never get anything quite so high.  Are they also performers on OF/JFF or porn stars in high demand?

Very likely be cases of hoping high demand providers to quote within their budget range, and raising hell when wish not met.

Surely there are providers out there who fit nicely in one's budget range. Might not be who you wanted. Free market and all. If you cant afford it, maybe just maybe, its high time to lower your standard. 

I have a rather fix 'fun' budget monthly....hire only within said budget. Anything beyond, just not meant to be, look elsewhere.

Food for thought, he is avoiding to meet you.....sorta a polite decline.

Bump. Any recent exp, thanks

Bump 😅