Matt_Vancouver redux

The question was asked " will he continue escorting after your married?"

I did. For about a year, but it became increasingly difficult to leave my husband to meet with clients to did I eventually gave it up.

It was agreed that I would continue working once we were'together'.

Just communicate with each other. 

Ok. As a former escort, I feel I can weigh in here 

I met my husband of when he hired me 20 years ago.:)

I was absolutely not looking for a love connection, but when it happens it happens.

We stayed professional for about 6 months before I just said fuck it and started seeing him socially. 

It absolutely can work. As long as there is NO power dynamic. You have to always consider each other as equals or it's not gonna work.

Hope this helps

20 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I have one bit of caution though. I actually was doing that the other day. Not providers but was looking up some guys I used to hang with that I lost contact with. Came to find the one guy passed away from a drug overdose a couple years after I had last talked to him. So had a pretty depressing evening thinking about him.

Yeah I've had a few similar experiences. 

One guy had actually become a really good friend, and I just stopped hearing from him. Of course we didn't share many  friends in common, so it was a shock when I eventually heard that he had passed. I often wish I could have said a proper goodbye.

21 hours ago, Luv2play said:

Matt, do you ever hear from any of your old clients, like maybe around New Years, who just want to say hi? I do with some of my favorite providers but not from 20 years ago, more like 3 or 4.

If I knew how to contact those from 20 years ago I would, just for old times sake. As you might imagine, I'm a sentimental slob. 

I've stayed in touch with a few of my former clients. It's hard not to become friends with people you share so much of yourself with.

But there are some that I lost touch with that would be nice to connect with again.

3 hours ago, seattlebottom said:

I remember you giving shout outs to other escorts in Vancouver.   As a result I had my first escort encounter with someone you had mentioned,  he went by the name of Guy Franck, frenchtop2001.  We never met but I made infrequent trips to Vancouver and you had retired by the time I was ready to hire again.

I remember Guy. He was fucking hot.:)

4 hours ago, newatthis said:

We never met in person, but we did correspond about getting together in Montreal if our paths crossed there.  What I remember best, however, was a short, very hot post of yours describing an erotic encounter on the London underground.  Do you recall that encounter?  That post?  (Might have been on the Northern Line, but I wouldn't swear to it.)

You were one of the sane and interesting voices on this forum back then.  Stick around!  I'd be interested in learning where life has taken you since those days.

Lol. Yes I do remember that London underground encounter. It's the closest I came to having an orgasm surrounded by about a hundred people lol

21 hours ago, purplekow said:

I believe we may have had an encounter in NYC area at my home in NJ. Split a bottle of South African white wine and then a fun evening.   Welcome back to the forum and if I have you confused with someone else, I apologize.  So much time and so many men ago.  

It's quite possible:) but without a photo it's def difficult to say:)

This is the oldest photo I have of myself on my phone. About 10 years after I left the business.

No I'm not starting up again. Just curious if any of my former people are still around:)

It's been about 20 years since I've worked in the business, but I have so many fond memories of many of my clients.

Wondering if anyone on here was around when I was active?