wayout

Good for him....always had the feeling so good to know my "gaydar" is still working.  
 
https://www.out.com/celebs/2021/6/23/david-archuleta-says-hes-some-form-bisexual-after-coming-out

As a side comment, unrelated to the main topic here, but I really love the song...seems perfect (even though I have no idea of what is being said, lol).
 

As a side comment, unrelated to the main topic here, but I really love the song...seems perfect (even though I have no idea of what is being said, lol).
 

I've noticed how more and more adult movie actors aren't advertising on rent men any longer. Is it probable that their twitter travel dates, along with Grindr, Scruff, and similar hook-up methods render websites obsolete?
 
It's frustrating in my dinosaur age plug-in computer with no smart phone to have a hell of a time making arrangements, as often I get a "form letter" reply instead of an actual one. Refusing to move with the times has never felt so isolating. Now, back to my record player....

..although it should come as no surprise. Every platform’s review system is flawed, for both parties.

The day, just before sunrise, is simply magical.

Maybe he just thinks he has a very amazing ass worthy of being photographed! ? As always - don't believe everything you read - ask him what he is into. Some guys may be willing to bottom but don't advertise as such due to stigma or perhaps they want to know what size little Eddie is before they agree to it. Tell him what you enjoy and see if he is up for it! Some guys prefer to Top but is willing to Bottom if the price is right (it takes more effort to get ready).

Any sort of take-a-way sushi platters, other than that, my go-to is Mcdonalds!

I suggest that the Lounge, Cabana corner be named The Hooboy Corner or some similar name to respect and honor the original founder of the message board.

oh btw, twinks, bears, whatever.... there are always clients that like one of these types. I am a super normal guy that happens to have a fat dick. And even when I was in London -pre-covid-era- I had so-many-messages! Anywhere I go. And then I see all these super sexy muscle hunks. But still I was mega busy. Deff shouldn't be too worried if there is a ''market'' for you.

When you wanna start with escorting you just should be sure about what you want and can. Somebody is not going to pay for you to figure out what position ur in. As long as you have something that you really like, then you can promote/advertise that about yourself. It is horrible for a client to meet somebody and then the escort doesn't get hard. Personally, I never meet somebody when I am not in the mood. Sometimes I am in the mood but can't stay hard for a longer time, then I take kamagra jelly. (works super fast) Nothing harmful or bad, just that u dont have to worry about being hard all the time. So you can completely focus on your client.
 
And cock rings, probably your question is already answered. but its with everything... should explore what ur into. For me they dont work, besides they also break all the time XD Too big I think. lol.
 
For me its also really important to know what kind of clients you wanna meet. I realized that when I had a really low rate (when I started) I got all kinds of morons and idiots. Guys that just wanna fuck for a buck. And that is not what you want. It is really important that you enjoy it too. Otherwise you will just hate yourself soo much after a few meetings. But when you get people that appreciate you, your body, your dick, your qualities, your person, then it will be super enjoyable for yourself as well.
 
After some years I have discovered a sort of pattern in guys behavior. Can see when they are serious or not. Guys that ask hundreds of questions arent serious. When they are new, and it is their first time, then they will tell most of the time. Somebody that has experience with escorts and knows what he wants will just ask you straight to the point questions. And its really important to answer all of them.
Got a lot of feedback from clients that complained about other guys in the city. (Prague) The client send a message like: blablabla, I am this, staying in hotel bladiebla, I like this and that, are you available and what is your rate? Then the escort often answered: €150,-/h. Dit some market research by myself as well, and discovered that there are sooooo many morons. That just want money. I always answer personally. Just be yourself is important.
 
 
But jeez, I am sounding like a daddy now. So daddy is gonna stop giving advice.

Although age is something that is part of it for me, I tend to more think of a twink being defined by their body type. Here is something that I came across that seems, for the most part, pretty good at defining the various terms (ref: https://pairedlife.com/dating/Gay-Men-Are-you-a-Jock-Otter-Bear-or-Wolf):
 
Gay Body Types
[TABLE]
[TR]
[TH]Type[/TH]
[TH]Build[/TH]
[TH]Hair[/TH]
[TH]Age[/TH]
[TH]Example Celebrity[/TH]
[TH]Notes[/TH]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Otter[/TD]
 
[TD]Thin or athletic[/TD]
 
[TD]Lots[/TD]
 
[TD]Any age[/TD]
 
[TD]Scott Caan[/TD]
 
[TD]Part of the extended bear community[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Wolf[/TD]
 
[TD]Lean, muscular[/TD]
 
[TD]Semi-Hairy[/TD]
 
[TD]Any age[/TD]
 
[TD]Joe Manganiello[/TD]
 
[TD]Sexually aggressive; Silver or grey wolf is an older wolf[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Bear[/TD]
 
[TD]Big, often with a belly[/TD]
 
[TD]Lots[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]John Travolta[/TD]
 
[TD]Very masculine[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Cub[/TD]
 
[TD]Husky[/TD]
 
[TD]Lots[/TD]
 
[TD]Young or younger-looking[/TD]
 
[TD]Jack Black[/TD]
 
[TD]Sugar cubs and muscle cubs are sub-types[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Chub[/TD]
 
[TD]Real big[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]John Goodman[/TD]
 
[TD]Distinct from bears[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Pup[/TD]
 
[TD]Slender[/TD]
 
[TD]No[/TD]
 
[TD]Young[/TD]
 
[TD]Joe Jonas[/TD]
 
[TD]Energetic, cute, and naive[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Bull[/TD]
 
[TD]Super-built[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson[/TD]
 
[TD] [/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Twink[/TD]
 
[TD]Slender[/TD]
 
[TD]No[/TD]
 
[TD]Young[/TD]
 
[TD]Justin Beiber[/TD]
 
[TD]Self-centered, usually between 18 and the mid-20’s[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Twunk[/TD]
 
[TD]Muscular but slender[/TD]
 
[TD]No[/TD]
 
[TD]Young[/TD]
 
[TD]The muscular version of Beiber[/TD]
 
[TD]A more muscular Twink[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Gym Bunny[/TD]
 
[TD]Sculpted[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Under 50[/TD]
 
[TD]Shemar Moore[/TD]
 
[TD]Fitness associated with gym, not sports[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Jock[/TD]
 
[TD]Muscular and athletic[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]David Beckham[/TD]
 
[TD]Fitness is associated with sports[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Gym Rat[/TD]
 
[TD]Very lean and well-built[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD] [/TD]
 
[TD]Addicted to working out[/TD]
[/TR]
[/TABLE]

Although age is something that is part of it for me, I tend to more think of a twink being defined by their body type. Here is something that I came across that seems, for the most part, pretty good at defining the various terms (ref: https://pairedlife.com/dating/Gay-Men-Are-you-a-Jock-Otter-Bear-or-Wolf):
 
Gay Body Types
[TABLE]
[TR]
[TH]Type[/TH]
[TH]Build[/TH]
[TH]Hair[/TH]
[TH]Age[/TH]
[TH]Example Celebrity[/TH]
[TH]Notes[/TH]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Otter[/TD]
 
[TD]Thin or athletic[/TD]
 
[TD]Lots[/TD]
 
[TD]Any age[/TD]
 
[TD]Scott Caan[/TD]
 
[TD]Part of the extended bear community[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Wolf[/TD]
 
[TD]Lean, muscular[/TD]
 
[TD]Semi-Hairy[/TD]
 
[TD]Any age[/TD]
 
[TD]Joe Manganiello[/TD]
 
[TD]Sexually aggressive; Silver or grey wolf is an older wolf[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Bear[/TD]
 
[TD]Big, often with a belly[/TD]
 
[TD]Lots[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]John Travolta[/TD]
 
[TD]Very masculine[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Cub[/TD]
 
[TD]Husky[/TD]
 
[TD]Lots[/TD]
 
[TD]Young or younger-looking[/TD]
 
[TD]Jack Black[/TD]
 
[TD]Sugar cubs and muscle cubs are sub-types[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Chub[/TD]
 
[TD]Real big[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]John Goodman[/TD]
 
[TD]Distinct from bears[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Pup[/TD]
 
[TD]Slender[/TD]
 
[TD]No[/TD]
 
[TD]Young[/TD]
 
[TD]Joe Jonas[/TD]
 
[TD]Energetic, cute, and naive[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Bull[/TD]
 
[TD]Super-built[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson[/TD]
 
[TD] [/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Twink[/TD]
 
[TD]Slender[/TD]
 
[TD]No[/TD]
 
[TD]Young[/TD]
 
[TD]Justin Beiber[/TD]
 
[TD]Self-centered, usually between 18 and the mid-20’s[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Twunk[/TD]
 
[TD]Muscular but slender[/TD]
 
[TD]No[/TD]
 
[TD]Young[/TD]
 
[TD]The muscular version of Beiber[/TD]
 
[TD]A more muscular Twink[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Gym Bunny[/TD]
 
[TD]Sculpted[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Under 50[/TD]
 
[TD]Shemar Moore[/TD]
 
[TD]Fitness associated with gym, not sports[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Jock[/TD]
 
[TD]Muscular and athletic[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]David Beckham[/TD]
 
[TD]Fitness is associated with sports[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Gym Rat[/TD]
 
[TD]Very lean and well-built[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD] [/TD]
 
[TD]Addicted to working out[/TD]
[/TR]
[/TABLE]

Oh, also, I have not yet made it on to RM. Maybe by July, I'll make sure to update my profile with the link

Thank you, not to sound cocky but I do get checked out by a lot of people. I have an exotic look, so I guess that's intriguing for clients I would assume. Honestly, it could be an ongoing thing, depending on if the money is right. Not in a really good spot with family, and want to be financially independent especially with school.
 
Stories? Tell me more!!
 
Thanks for the very kind words!

I've escorted off and on for more than 20 years. When I started I was at the upper age range of twink/twunk, and now I'm firmly in the Daddy category.
 
When I was younger, I'd say 90% of the time the client wanted me to bottom. Now being older, it's completely flipped so that I am the top nearly every time.
 
Perhaps those who have chimed in who like twinks can let us know if they prefer the escort to be bottom or top.
 
For staying hard, there is no shame in using Viagra or similar. As a professional, your job is to show up ready to go, and doing what you need to so that you're hard is part of being professional and showing consideration for your client. You want him to have a good time, and if you're confident your dick will stay hard it will allow you to have a good time too.

Great advice! I'm a pretty hung twink, seven inches. Topping with a non-client seems like a good idea, thanks again

You should be clear with clients about your role though. I think they’ll be reluctant to book if you say you’re a bottom but will top. Be a clear bottom or clear top. If you’re uncertain about whether you can top in a professional capacity maybe try it with non client partners first. I’d say also that ideally you need to be above average size if you’re going to top. Most clients go for big boys lol.

Awesome! Thanks for the reply, I'm very open to topping and trying new things. I wouldn't say I'm a COMPLETE bottom. Moreso, a vers bottom who is interested in topping. I'm fine with BJ's, they require little effort. I just want to ensure that my client is well taken care of, and I get what I deserve

I never wear cockrings with clients. I wear one sometimes doing yoga but that’s a different story!!
 
I don’t have a problem getting hard or staying hard but if I’m doing a filming session (I make massage porn) and I know I’ll need to be hard for 3 sessions (we tend to film a few massage videos in a day) then I’ll take half a viagra pill just to be sure. But generally I don’t like to use it.
 
I think if you wear a cockring it can help to keep you hard but don’t wear it for too long. In my experience if you get anxious about staying hard then you’re likely to struggle to stay hard...it’s often all in the mind.
 
I’d suggest having a dildo available. It will give you confidence that if you didn’t stay hard you can use the dildo on your client until you are hard again. Just by having the dildo there it will reduce your anxiety and therefore you’ll stay hard...see what I mean? Find ways to reduce the anxiety about going soft and you’ll discover that the problem goes away. It’s better than using viagra or cockrings.

I don't want to say that you're in trouble but you should try (and learn if possible) ASAP. 80% of your clients will ask you to top them.

It depends. If you'll get soft WAY too quickly for cumming that's ok, you can learn to control it or use creams to delay orgasm.
If you'll get soft WAY too quickly because you don't have a top (insertive) mindset and are unable to maintain a hard-on, that's a problem.
I've been with guys using cock rings and everyone uses a different type, it depends on size too. It should help used in combination with Viagra.
You can always offer your services as a bottom but be aware that you might have fewer clients. If you're in your 20s, that should help as well.
As last resource, you can try becoming a masseur and advertise on rentmasseur.com as there are fewer expectations for you to top but to get more clients you should be open to the idea to give blowjobs.

Although age is something that is part of it for me, I tend to more think of a twink being defined by their body type. Here is something that I came across that seems, for the most part, pretty good at defining the various terms (ref: https://pairedlife.com/dating/Gay-Men-Are-you-a-Jock-Otter-Bear-or-Wolf):
 
Gay Body Types
[TABLE]
[TR]
[TH]Type[/TH]
[TH]Build[/TH]
[TH]Hair[/TH]
[TH]Age[/TH]
[TH]Example Celebrity[/TH]
[TH]Notes[/TH]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Otter[/TD]
 
[TD]Thin or athletic[/TD]
 
[TD]Lots[/TD]
 
[TD]Any age[/TD]
 
[TD]Scott Caan[/TD]
 
[TD]Part of the extended bear community[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Wolf[/TD]
 
[TD]Lean, muscular[/TD]
 
[TD]Semi-Hairy[/TD]
 
[TD]Any age[/TD]
 
[TD]Joe Manganiello[/TD]
 
[TD]Sexually aggressive; Silver or grey wolf is an older wolf[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Bear[/TD]
 
[TD]Big, often with a belly[/TD]
 
[TD]Lots[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]John Travolta[/TD]
 
[TD]Very masculine[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Cub[/TD]
 
[TD]Husky[/TD]
 
[TD]Lots[/TD]
 
[TD]Young or younger-looking[/TD]
 
[TD]Jack Black[/TD]
 
[TD]Sugar cubs and muscle cubs are sub-types[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Chub[/TD]
 
[TD]Real big[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]John Goodman[/TD]
 
[TD]Distinct from bears[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Pup[/TD]
 
[TD]Slender[/TD]
 
[TD]No[/TD]
 
[TD]Young[/TD]
 
[TD]Joe Jonas[/TD]
 
[TD]Energetic, cute, and naive[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Bull[/TD]
 
[TD]Super-built[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson[/TD]
 
[TD] [/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Twink[/TD]
 
[TD]Slender[/TD]
 
[TD]No[/TD]
 
[TD]Young[/TD]
 
[TD]Justin Beiber[/TD]
 
[TD]Self-centered, usually between 18 and the mid-20’s[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Twunk[/TD]
 
[TD]Muscular but slender[/TD]
 
[TD]No[/TD]
 
[TD]Young[/TD]
 
[TD]The muscular version of Beiber[/TD]
 
[TD]A more muscular Twink[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Gym Bunny[/TD]
 
[TD]Sculpted[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Under 50[/TD]
 
[TD]Shemar Moore[/TD]
 
[TD]Fitness associated with gym, not sports[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Jock[/TD]
 
[TD]Muscular and athletic[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD]David Beckham[/TD]
 
[TD]Fitness is associated with sports[/TD]
[/TR]
[TR]
[TD]Gym Rat[/TD]
 
[TD]Very lean and well-built[/TD]
 
[TD]Maybe[/TD]
 
[TD]Any[/TD]
 
[TD] [/TD]
 
[TD]Addicted to working out[/TD]
[/TR]
[/TABLE]

If you're a (hung) Top (or can top) you'll do well regardless of your physique.
There's a shortage (almost crisis) of Tops in Toronto.
Bottoms and Versatiles can be found anywhere, especially hookup apps.

Hi there. You should have no problem establishing yourself in the market. I prefer guys 18-30 so twinks are definitely my type. And actually on the masculine part I prefer that over feminine guys. I'm into guys not girls so sometimes too fem turns me off. And on Toronto there is a lot of competition so make sure you have a good ad, good pictures, and you should be fine. Would love to see your ad once you create it and maybe we could get together then once the border opens back up. Would love to maybe be one of your first clients.

Sometimes I order steak, sometimes salad, sometimes the pasta. Same with dudes. I don’t want twinks all the time, but when I do, nothing else will satisfy.