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Booked an escort off rent men. When he arrived, he looked absolutely nothing like his pics. Completely different person. He was a catfish. I asked him to leave immediately, then he demanded his full payment. When I told him I’m not paying anything cause he’s not the guy in the pics, he started shouting and causing a scene at 2 AM. Then he proceeds to pull out his phone and starts recording me. After the video, I decided to pay him the $200 we initially agreed on via Cash App. From the cashapp transaction, he learns my full legal name. He then asks me to make it 300. I absolutely refuse, then he increases it to $500 claiming it’s because I wasted his time and was disrespectful to him (by telling him that he was a catfish). So now I don’t know what to do. He says if I don’t pay him the $500, he’ll post the video online with my face and my name. I managed to tell him let’s go outside to the atm so I can get the money. I walk behind him and once he’s out the apartment building door, I shut it immediately behind him. Help, any advice? I don’t know what to do. He has my number, the video, my name. I’m in grad school and this would probably destroy me. I don’t know what to do. Please only constructive advice. No form of chastising would make me feel more shittier than I already do.

I think you are missing a point too. I’m not upset by the fact he doesn’t offer a 30 min rate. Like I said, I have had some providers say they don’t offer 30 mins. Totally fine. My issue was with the way he responded (with the whole $60…10 mins comment). He could’ve ignored or responded in a more decent way. Nothing wrong with being kind and professional in the way you communicate with people. It’s common human decency. Seems to me like you all are excusing his toxicity by chastising me for asking an innocent question. 

We clearly have different experiences. I have hired many providers for 30 mins on our first-time session. And in my experience, many providers usually have rates for 30 mins. Of course, there are a few who say at least an hour. If he said it was 300 for 30 mins, I would still pay it! I just wanted to know his rate for 30 mins, whatever it was. I ask for 30 mins for my first time with any provider because personally, I think an hour is too much. With time, when I’ve had multiple experiences with the same provider and we have great chemistry, I then request an hour or more with them because I’ve formed a connection and would love to spend more time with them. I’m never comfortable spending a whole hour with someone for the first we meet. Just my personal preference. And again, there are many well-experienced providers who I’ve spent 30 mins with. So I don’t really know where this “no provider offers 30 mins” is coming from lol.

I think you are missing a point too. I’m not upset by the fact he doesn’t offer a 30 min rate. Like I said, I have had some providers say they don’t offer 30 mins. Totally fine. My issue was with the way he responded (with the whole $60…10 mins comment). He could’ve ignored or responded in a more decent way. Nothing wrong with being kind and professional in the way you communicate with people. It’s common human decency. Seems to me like you all are excusing his toxicity by chastising me for asking an innocent question. 

We clearly have different experiences. I have hired many providers for 30 mins on our first-time session. And in my experience, many providers usually have rates for 30 mins. Of course, there are a few who say at least an hour. If he said it was 300 for 30 mins, I would still pay it! I just wanted to know his rate for 30 mins, whatever it was. I ask for 30 mins for my first time with any provider because personally, I think an hour is too much. With time, when I’ve had multiple experiences with the same provider and we have great chemistry, I then request an hour or more with them because I’ve formed a connection and would love to spend more time with them. I’m never comfortable spending a whole hour with someone for the first we meet. Just my personal preference. And again, there are many well-experienced providers who I’ve spent 30 mins with. So I don’t really know where this “no provider offers 30 mins” is coming from lol.

I think you are missing a point too. I’m not upset by the fact he doesn’t offer a 30 min rate. Like I said, I have had some providers say they don’t offer 30 mins. Totally fine. My issue was with the way he responded (with the whole $60…10 mins comment). He could’ve ignored or responded in a more decent way. Nothing wrong with being kind and professional in the way you communicate with people. It’s common human decency. Seems to me like you all are excusing his toxicity by chastising me for asking an innocent question. 

We clearly have different experiences. I have hired many providers for 30 mins on our first-time session. And in my experience, many providers usually have rates for 30 mins. Of course, there are a few who say at least an hour. If he said it was 300 for 30 mins, I would still pay it! I just wanted to know his rate for 30 mins, whatever it was. I ask for 30 mins for my first time with any provider because personally, I think an hour is too much. With time, when I’ve had multiple experiences with the same provider and we have great chemistry, I then request an hour or more with them because I’ve formed a connection and would love to spend more time with them. I’m never comfortable spending a whole hour with someone for the first we meet. Just my personal preference. And again, there are many well-experienced providers who I’ve spent 30 mins with. So I don’t really know where this “no provider offers 30 mins” is coming from lol.

My exchange with a famous provider. Am I wrong for thinking his response was very unprofessional.

We clearly have different experiences. I have hired many providers for 30 mins on our first-time session. And in my experience, many providers usually have rates for 30 mins. Of course, there are a few who say at least an hour. If he said it was 300 for 30 mins, I would still pay it! I just wanted to know his rate for 30 mins, whatever it was. I ask for 30 mins for my first time with any provider because personally, I think an hour is too much. With time, when I’ve had multiple experiences with the same provider and we have great chemistry, I then request an hour or more with them because I’ve formed a connection and would love to spend more time with them. I’m never comfortable spending a whole hour with someone for the first we meet. Just my personal preference. And again, there are many well-experienced providers who I’ve spent 30 mins with. So I don’t really know where this “no provider offers 30 mins” is coming from lol.

You were the one in the wrong not the escort. 

My 2 cents, it is unprofessional on your part to ask an escort what is the rate for 30 min knowing that it’s always minimum an hour. With all my respect, one advice for you, if you want an escort to take any of your request seriously never ask for 30 min. This sounds ridiculous. 

I’m in complete agreement with @Asterisk. 

How many well regarded, well reviewed providers thru the years, on the current and previous iterations of this forum, have discussed how much time is wasted by “potential clients” trying to haggle them on price, only to get abuse - not dissimilar to what this provider received. 

I am not aware of any professional provider who offers 30 minute pricing/sessions. That’s more the realm of curb crawling. 

As stated in the previous post, in my opinion it was the provider who was the one that dodged a bullet here. 

Welcome to the forum, provocateur.

How many providers have you hired for 30 minutes?
He told you his rate for anything up to one hour:  $300.
I think the provider dodged a bullet.  And makes logical arguments substantially better.  And isn't the one who feigned offense or false indignation when called out.
He should've deleted without responding.

 

Totally agree.    

You dodged a bad experience.   

just walk away,  not worth getting all worked up about it.  

My exchange with a famous provider. Am I wrong for thinking his response was very unprofessional.

We clearly have different experiences. I have hired many providers for 30 mins on our first-time session. And in my experience, many providers usually have rates for 30 mins. Of course, there are a few who say at least an hour. If he said it was 300 for 30 mins, I would still pay it! I just wanted to know his rate for 30 mins, whatever it was. I ask for 30 mins for my first time with any provider because personally, I think an hour is too much. With time, when I’ve had multiple experiences with the same provider and we have great chemistry, I then request an hour or more with them because I’ve formed a connection and would love to spend more time with them. I’m never comfortable spending a whole hour with someone for the first we meet. Just my personal preference. And again, there are many well-experienced providers who I’ve spent 30 mins with. So I don’t really know where this “no provider offers 30 mins” is coming from lol.

I've never asked for it but I've definitely been offered 30-minute sessions as an option by a few providers. Some reputable guys, some I'd consider the "Millenial Gen-Z provider" where everything is on the fly and they don't go about the business in the standard professional way. 
Guess it depends on what you're looking for. Also I recognize over here where I live the "standard" is throw out the door sometimes. 

Booked an escort off rent men. When he arrived, he looked absolutely nothing like his pics. Completely different person. He was a catfish. I asked him to leave immediately, then he demanded his full payment. When I told him I’m not paying anything cause he’s not the guy in the pics, he started shouting and causing a scene at 2 AM. Then he proceeds to pull out his phone and starts recording me. After the video, I decided to pay him the $200 we initially agreed on via Cash App. From the cashapp transaction, he learns my full legal name. He then asks me to make it 300. I absolutely refuse, then he increases it to $500 claiming it’s because I wasted his time and was disrespectful to him (by telling him that he was a catfish). So now I don’t know what to do. He says if I don’t pay him the $500, he’ll post the video online with my face and my name. I managed to tell him let’s go outside to the atm so I can get the money. I walk behind him and once he’s out the apartment building door, I shut it immediately behind him. Help, any advice? I don’t know what to do. He has my number, the video, my name. I’m in grad school and this would probably destroy me. I don’t know what to do. Please only constructive advice. No form of chastising would make me feel more shittier than I already do.

Booked an escort off rent men. When he arrived, he looked absolutely nothing like his pics. Completely different person. He was a catfish. I asked him to leave immediately, then he demanded his full payment. When I told him I’m not paying anything cause he’s not the guy in the pics, he started shouting and causing a scene at 2 AM. Then he proceeds to pull out his phone and starts recording me. After the video, I decided to pay him the $200 we initially agreed on via Cash App. From the cashapp transaction, he learns my full legal name. He then asks me to make it 300. I absolutely refuse, then he increases it to $500 claiming it’s because I wasted his time and was disrespectful to him (by telling him that he was a catfish). So now I don’t know what to do. He says if I don’t pay him the $500, he’ll post the video online with my face and my name. I managed to tell him let’s go outside to the atm so I can get the money. I walk behind him and once he’s out the apartment building door, I shut it immediately behind him. Help, any advice? I don’t know what to do. He has my number, the video, my name. I’m in grad school and this would probably destroy me. I don’t know what to do. Please only constructive advice. No form of chastising would make me feel more shittier than I already do.

Booked an escort off rent men. When he arrived, he looked absolutely nothing like his pics. Completely different person. He was a catfish. I asked him to leave immediately, then he demanded his full payment. When I told him I’m not paying anything cause he’s not the guy in the pics, he started shouting and causing a scene at 2 AM. Then he proceeds to pull out his phone and starts recording me. After the video, I decided to pay him the $200 we initially agreed on via Cash App. From the cashapp transaction, he learns my full legal name. He then asks me to make it 300. I absolutely refuse, then he increases it to $500 claiming it’s because I wasted his time and was disrespectful to him (by telling him that he was a catfish). So now I don’t know what to do. He says if I don’t pay him the $500, he’ll post the video online with my face and my name. I managed to tell him let’s go outside to the atm so I can get the money. I walk behind him and once he’s out the apartment building door, I shut it immediately behind him. Help, any advice? I don’t know what to do. He has my number, the video, my name. I’m in grad school and this would probably destroy me. I don’t know what to do. Please only constructive advice. No form of chastising would make me feel more shittier than I already do.

Booked an escort off rent men. When he arrived, he looked absolutely nothing like his pics. Completely different person. He was a catfish. I asked him to leave immediately, then he demanded his full payment. When I told him I’m not paying anything cause he’s not the guy in the pics, he started shouting and causing a scene at 2 AM. Then he proceeds to pull out his phone and starts recording me. After the video, I decided to pay him the $200 we initially agreed on via Cash App. From the cashapp transaction, he learns my full legal name. He then asks me to make it 300. I absolutely refuse, then he increases it to $500 claiming it’s because I wasted his time and was disrespectful to him (by telling him that he was a catfish). So now I don’t know what to do. He says if I don’t pay him the $500, he’ll post the video online with my face and my name. I managed to tell him let’s go outside to the atm so I can get the money. I walk behind him and once he’s out the apartment building door, I shut it immediately behind him. Help, any advice? I don’t know what to do. He has my number, the video, my name. I’m in grad school and this would probably destroy me. I don’t know what to do. Please only constructive advice. No form of chastising would make me feel more shittier than I already do.

Booked an escort off rent men. When he arrived, he looked absolutely nothing like his pics. Completely different person. He was a catfish. I asked him to leave immediately, then he demanded his full payment. When I told him I’m not paying anything cause he’s not the guy in the pics, he started shouting and causing a scene at 2 AM. Then he proceeds to pull out his phone and starts recording me. After the video, I decided to pay him the $200 we initially agreed on via Cash App. From the cashapp transaction, he learns my full legal name. He then asks me to make it 300. I absolutely refuse, then he increases it to $500 claiming it’s because I wasted his time and was disrespectful to him (by telling him that he was a catfish). So now I don’t know what to do. He says if I don’t pay him the $500, he’ll post the video online with my face and my name. I managed to tell him let’s go outside to the atm so I can get the money. I walk behind him and once he’s out the apartment building door, I shut it immediately behind him. Help, any advice? I don’t know what to do. He has my number, the video, my name. I’m in grad school and this would probably destroy me. I don’t know what to do. Please only constructive advice. No form of chastising would make me feel more shittier than I already do.

Booked an escort off rent men. When he arrived, he looked absolutely nothing like his pics. Completely different person. He was a catfish. I asked him to leave immediately, then he demanded his full payment. When I told him I’m not paying anything cause he’s not the guy in the pics, he started shouting and causing a scene at 2 AM. Then he proceeds to pull out his phone and starts recording me. After the video, I decided to pay him the $200 we initially agreed on via Cash App. From the cashapp transaction, he learns my full legal name. He then asks me to make it 300. I absolutely refuse, then he increases it to $500 claiming it’s because I wasted his time and was disrespectful to him (by telling him that he was a catfish). So now I don’t know what to do. He says if I don’t pay him the $500, he’ll post the video online with my face and my name. I managed to tell him let’s go outside to the atm so I can get the money. I walk behind him and once he’s out the apartment building door, I shut it immediately behind him. Help, any advice? I don’t know what to do. He has my number, the video, my name. I’m in grad school and this would probably destroy me. I don’t know what to do. Please only constructive advice. No form of chastising would make me feel more shittier than I already do.