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Just say no. No way he’s worth 450. 

If you prefer someone who just lays there and gets sucked, then may be this is the guy for you. Not my typa escort minus passion. 
A friend booked him and he canceled on him the last minute. At the same time, he was on grindr looking for sex and messaged me lol and said, "Some old man wanted to meet, I wanted to charge him 400 or 500, but he still would not cancel". 
If this is the kind of attitude he has towards paying clients, this MF should be thrown out of business. 

Note that I said generally, as some small percentage of reviews on RMass are negative or neutral. Also, quite a few RMass providers require contact via text and will not reply to the RMass msg channels…thus once again buyers of services are led here to CoM.

To be honest I don't trust reviews on either site. Only once in all the years that I have been hiring I have left a bad review and it was because it was a scam. I always check forums like this one to get info on a particular provider. Also I have had providers offer me a discount in exchange for a good review, so that could explain why I have had a below average experiences with a providers with many 5 star reviews. 

For the providers I tried (10-plus), I have found the majority of the RMass reviews to be inaccurate and uninformative, laced with vague adjectives and superlatives, and lacking in detail. It might be said that reviews of providers with, e.g., 20 or more, reviews have some validity. I’m dubious. One thing is clear about RMass: it generally screens out negative reviews.
After several run-ins with over-priced rub-and-tug providers, I completely ignore the RMass and MFind reviews and consult the CoM community.  
Thank you fellas !!!

So many of these guys do not smile in their photos.  Not sure why.  They come across as serious (and who's looking for serious in RM?) or, more importantly, unfriendly and uninviting.  Just my opinion.

He quoted me 300 for massage and 400 for extras and doesn’t cum. I passed of course. 

https://rentmasseur.com/MaleMassagee
he will not expect or require any additional activity beyond massage if you make it clear that’s all you want.  And…He’s a very good masseur. 

Much discussed here, bottom line being excellent massage and purely therapeutic:  https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38637/
 

I would also recommend Sam who was already recommended up top. EXCELLENT massage. 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5022/

Probably the best therapeutic massage I ever got was from someone who also offered other services. You can simply decline extras. I wouldn't restrict my search to those who are only therapeutic. 

I would concur with @SoSoSoHo on recommending Chris aka SportsMassageNYC

Hi! I’ve gone to both and highly recommend the skill. And yes - therapeutic only:
https://rentmasseur.com/SportsMassageNYC
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5022/

Administrator’s Message:
Gentlemen, Let’s stay on topic and, please,  no  more personal attacks. A few replies have been removed. 

Thanks. I don't need that being told to me, and last time I checked, I can post whatever I want for as long as I follow the guidelines.

I have the money, but I want value.
Don't see value in $260-$350 massages, even with MT/HE.

And this is why I view posts from users who are barely active on here with a grain of salt. 
 
You went from “maybe he had an off night” to “I didn’t like his technique.” Each statement implies different things about your experience, especially when presented separately. Didn’t like his technique? Great. Why? You can be more specific without giving a detailed review
All this to say, if you had a bad experience, fine. But no poster should be surprised when a generalization is challenged, especially regarding a well reviewed therapist. If Alex had an “off night” I want to know why so I can make an informed decision about hiring him. 

You just made it to the top of my list when I visit NYC next.  
Have a nice End of Summer wknd! 

There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. 
 
I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. 
 
Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. 
 
In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. 
 
I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. 
 
Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. 
 
That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. 
 
Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. 
 
It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. 
 
I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. 
 
I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. 
 
I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. 
 
I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. 
 
To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! 
 
To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. 
 
I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙

I agree with this. There will always be people who (a) will miss the point you are trying to make, (b) will disagree, (c) will beat every word typed to death to prove/disprove a minor point, (d) will make it about them or something else, (e) will blame the poster, the admin, (f) will take things literally, and/or (g) will challenge your thoughts, opinions and/or assumptions. Can be annoying at times, but it is a forum where people can express their thoughts (or lack of).
Don't let this discourage you from posting. There will always be a Trevor for you.

Haha it was clearly why there was no one else my age there at that time.  I planned ahead and took a nap earlier in the day.  And once in there I really got a second wind that carried me through the night. I totally crashed at my hotel and slept in on Sunday. Still recovering but worth it. 

i messaged him asking about location and longer sessions. his response was to ask if he could see a face pic. ???

Findom and cashslave in his hashtags. Ugh.

Thank you; I've added him to my Buddy List for quick and easy access!!  ...will be contacting him.

There is the viewpoint that even bad head is good, but there are definitely varying levels of skill.