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I’ve experienced it with a partner once. Many times solo.
One thing - the nature of the AO sensation is more an extended hum than a bang - highly individual, factoring in all sorts of variables physical, mental and situational. It takes time to find your best method and positioning. 

It’s called elusive, but mostly the full body AO is a victim of distractions and a sense of urgency that rushes past the clues your body sends when you’re on the right track. Too much direct pressure on the prostate can spoil the trajectory. 

For me what makes it feel “full body” is the sensory overload of synced rhythms - breath, stimulation, and core. A standard O with ejaculation may or may not sync with the rest. Mine often come slightly delayed - an exclamation point of sorts. 
 
 

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I was chatting with a provider recently and he asked if I was into findom.  I nearly laughed.  Lost interest in the provider as well.

"This" as in "I'm interested in THIS topic"
"It" as in "Should I take the plunge? I'm thinking about it"
I do not think of or treat anyone as an object. (If anyone is the object, it's me)
Any other questions?

Bitch! I'm going to get this off my chest the way he got me off. Aggressively mixed with dismissive character.  It was 92° in San Diego when I saw him Thursday. A heatwave and in all honesty he may be the reason for the heat wave. His body is hotter than the scorching of my feet at Coronado beach. And that happened. I digress. He told me in his message to me explicit details of what would happen along with the fact that he wanted $250 payment for an incall at his place and he wanted the money up front when I got there. Now we all know that's a red flag but I thought I'll go with it because the rest of the communication is enticing. Now here's where it gets interesting ...how the hell anybody is supposed to figure out where he lives is beyond my imagination. After giving me the address I sent this bitch not knowing he was a bitch yet a message saying I am confused how to get into your building. And he had the nerve to say to me didn't I tell you it's next to the coffee shop and I responded Yes you did but you didn't say if you meant to the right of the coffee shop from my direction facing coming in or your direction coming out and there's a noticeable difference. Anyhow he kept telling me to go to the lobby and I said there is no lobby asking him do I have the right address and he said you're not listening, go down the alley ay the coffee shop. I said well an alley is not the same as a lobby. And then he sent me a text saying I didn't say that. He said go down the alley and I will meet you in the lobby. So I walk down this alley that has tables and chairs perplexed why the hell these people are pretending  this is a bistro in Monaco is beyond me. So the bitch isn't there. So I texted him again he says oh I'll be down in a couple minutes like what the fuck was I supposed to know when he says he's going to be there  without delay and then suddenly he has to mop his Formica!  He's had plenty of time   to show up for the appointment as his apartment is a 250 foot studio. When he gets off the elevator I was immediately hard. Oh my God he is gorgeous. We got upstairs I gave him the money as he tapped on the massage table snapping , "get undressed. Let's get started.' I said can I use the restroom first and he said, "I just mopped the floor."  Bitch! I tell you he is a bitch. And not a good bitch. A condescending kind like Mariah. Why the hell are you mopping your bathroom floor when you're about to  stimulate jizz? We get to the massage and oh my God it was outstanding. Absolutely outstanding and he does allow mt and it was very very pleasant although he was pretty small-minded in both heads. Bitch! The moment arrived where I burst accompanied at  the very same moment void of any pause with  him saying, " let me get you a rag so you can wipe it up." Bitch! He is the rag.  I would rather have Helen Keller give me a massage then ever give this fucker another five cents in spite of the fact that massage was great and  his ass was hot as Coronado beach Latin lifeguard. Would I repeat? I'm not sure because I haven't had an experience with Helen Keller yet for comparative studies.  
 

Your feedback is helpful: I will avoid him. This forum is so amazing because of users like you who provide their feedback and help other users decide on whether to hire a masseur or not. 

I totally agree.  Arbus gives a fantastic massage.  Great guy.  When I lived in SF I would see him regularly.

Highly recommend as well.  Great massage, great space, great guy. I'd be a regular if I still lived in San Francisco.

I agree. I highly recommend Arbus. 

Arbus gives an excellent therapeutic massage. He works at a high end spa as well. His place is very nice off Market with a dedicated massage space. I’ve seen him many times. Recommended. 

You're not hideous (as far as I know 🙂 ). The masseur is an asshole in the way he handled that. I don't believe something spooked him, he might just be the kind of asshole who caters only his own preference instead of being professional and cater the intended public (within  reason). If things were the way you posted them, I don't see any bad action on your part.
I have known and met many gay men who are that self-centered and careless about what other fellow gay men feel or have to go through, and are quite dismissive in that way. Fortunately, that's not represenatative of the larger provider community. Unfortunately, in the recent years the field has gotten saturated with many people wanting to make money or just have fun and get paid for it, hence, a growth in unprofessional behavior from many providers.
Additionally, the concept of "ghosting" has become a thing in recent areas. The same is happening with people looking for work, getting interviews, and at the time of the offer they get ghosted. That seems to be a thing that is common to see in many other industries too.
I encourage you to look for another provider. Also, this is the perfect place for you to mention that provider by name and share your bad experience, so others don't have to go through the same unprofessional event.
Sorry that happened to you.

As others have said , even if there were such a thing as commonly accepted “hideous” (there isn’t) most providers (especially the good ones) wouldn’t care as they’re there to make money. Some would add they’re there to provide a service - take that as you will.
If it’s for reasons specific to you upon seeing your photo - f*** him, he’s trying to monetize his hookup life and only idiots would pay if they could see through it. The provider experience is different and you should enjoy your ability to do so - don’t be disheartened and especially in New York you’ll find someone worthy of you choosing to exchange your valuable time and resources for the valuable experience they provide. 
 

You are making an assumption that he ghosted you for reasons that have to do with you. It’s also possible that he ghosted you for his own personal situation- like maybe he’s sick, depressed, fueling an addiction, dealing with family issues etc. I would not take it personally. Shake it off and go elsewhere

I’m respectfully serious.  I’m always working on myself, there is always room for improvement.  If he senses an issue, maybe he should address it?  He would be happier in the long run?

Don’t be that person. Treat that question as if it was rhetorical. 

Don’t book guys that want a picture from you. He doesn’t need one. Find someone who takes the work seriously. You’ll have a much better time. 

Only a real man can take a dick up his ass.  Grunt!

Just say no. No way he’s worth 450. 

If you prefer someone who just lays there and gets sucked, then may be this is the guy for you. Not my typa escort minus passion. 
A friend booked him and he canceled on him the last minute. At the same time, he was on grindr looking for sex and messaged me lol and said, "Some old man wanted to meet, I wanted to charge him 400 or 500, but he still would not cancel". 
If this is the kind of attitude he has towards paying clients, this MF should be thrown out of business. 

Note that I said generally, as some small percentage of reviews on RMass are negative or neutral. Also, quite a few RMass providers require contact via text and will not reply to the RMass msg channels…thus once again buyers of services are led here to CoM.

To be honest I don't trust reviews on either site. Only once in all the years that I have been hiring I have left a bad review and it was because it was a scam. I always check forums like this one to get info on a particular provider. Also I have had providers offer me a discount in exchange for a good review, so that could explain why I have had a below average experiences with a providers with many 5 star reviews. 

For the providers I tried (10-plus), I have found the majority of the RMass reviews to be inaccurate and uninformative, laced with vague adjectives and superlatives, and lacking in detail. It might be said that reviews of providers with, e.g., 20 or more, reviews have some validity. I’m dubious. One thing is clear about RMass: it generally screens out negative reviews.
After several run-ins with over-priced rub-and-tug providers, I completely ignore the RMass and MFind reviews and consult the CoM community.  
Thank you fellas !!!

So many of these guys do not smile in their photos.  Not sure why.  They come across as serious (and who's looking for serious in RM?) or, more importantly, unfriendly and uninviting.  Just my opinion.

He quoted me 300 for massage and 400 for extras and doesn’t cum. I passed of course.