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How's his BP? Is he on any meds for that?

So just have the guys wear g-atrings that may or may not come off in the champagne room just like the female strip clubs do.

I know a guy who just does it through word of mouth. He's really doing it for the sex not the money though.

I could swear I was aware of him pre-Y2k.

People who make it to the C-suite tend to be the kind of person who hates people who get in their way for any reason....

Well, delicious suggests some tongue invovlement...

I thought you didn't rim...;)

There pretty much is a cure for baldness now but it's more a preventative and if you don't start early enough you're too late.

No offense, but that's your friend's interpretation of the denial. If they actually put that in a letter, I'd expect to see it on 60 Minutes. But again, given the fuckery the companies are engaged in now with insulin and Epi-pens...it's possible.

There are cheap generics for HIV meds these days. The scandal is that pharmacy benefit managers exist and they keep them off of formularies. I'm about to start taking PreP outside of my insurance because I can't morally justify the roughly thousand dollars a bottle my employer pays when I can get the same medication for something like 50 bucks a month with Goodrx. This should be a scandal but too many orgs have their hands in the cookie jar. As for not funding a cure in the 80s, at that point was there ANY viral disease we had a cure for? I don't necessarily think it was ulterior motives keeping that from happening back then. Also, I don't think at the time people understood the absolute fuckery the pharmaceutical industry would get up to with patent games and barely tweaking formulations to keep prices increasing. The same medicine always declined in price back then over time, and that was the expectation of what would happen for HIV meds...they'd come down to something affordable.

I thought it was more about using "their" terminology and fitness influencers acting like they give a shit about strippers . Complaining about language appropriation seems pointless given language constantly evolves, but the writer sorta had a point. She just didn't express it effectively IMO.

They were, well Rick was, quite prolific in posting in these forums back in the Hoo-Boy days..they're just about your and my age IIRC. There's an expired rentmen profile for "munroeandross" so they were active at some point not TOO long ago. Once every couple of year Rick popped his head up here but not to advertise.

I would imagine if you chat them up they will bring up the subject of whether you are "gen" if that is what they are looking for. As a rule of thumb, the hotter they are, the more likely they are looking for $$.

Stick around a few years.

Have you considered the possibility/probability that if you HADN'T been vaccinated, you'd have been killed rather than feeling sick?

You could join any or all of the various gay sports leagues in NYC. I know several marriages that started on the rugby team in particular.

Are they both the problem or was one of them the problem? There are those who consider getting to your age without having had a committed relationship a red flag, you know. Dan Savage put it this way, anyone can have their dealbreakers, but if your number of dealbreakers is greater than the number of fingers on one hand, you're probably gonna wind up alone. People -all people - are messy. They're going to have things you don't like about them. I have a straight friend in his late 40s who is going to die single because he thinks having waited so long entitles him to a higher standard, not a lower one. Meanwhile he would be the ideal second husband for a mother. And he'd make a great stepdad. Don't overlook those who loved and lost.

It's older than that, I was looking at it in the late 1990s..

A lot of the commitment-minded guys paired off in their 20s. You might need to wait a few years for a crop of widowed/divorced men in your age group.

The "unmet" thing here is where I'm thinking maybe you're giving up too soon. Maybe you need a little more time to grow on people(amd they you). Maybe you need to ask for the second( and third) date too.

Something that is different about gay relationships is that there is not a presumption about who does the pursuing. Are you perhaps waiting to be wooed rather than doing the wooing, or expecting some sort of 50/50 reciprocity that is kind of rarely how it goes in the real world? Maybe you're gonna need to be the one to do the asking out the first couple(dozen) times. Also, don't necessarily look down on hookups as having no potential to become more. 15 years ago a friend of mine was fucking a guy from Manhunt 2-3 times a week for 6 months before the bottom said "so when are you going to ask me out on a date?" They're married now and have a kid.

Are your friends not turning into lovers because you're subconsciously keeping them in that box? As an actuary, you should periodically review the data on your book of business to see if any risks belong in a different tier. Also. I think you may have unrealistic expectations a long term relationship can't live up to the thrill of a first encounter with a professional.

You shouldn't really need a trainer for all that long unless you have issues that make you want to have a spotter. They should get you to a point where you are comfortable doing the workout on your own. You might want to see the trainer 2-3 times a week for the first few weeks, then go on your way, and then maybe come back several months later to do some more advanced.stuff, but really it's just about gradually increasing the weights/duration of exercise. You simply do NOT need to keep chamging it up every 6 weeks like some people say. Upper body day: bench, shoulder raises, lat pulldowns, tricep pushdown, dumbbell curls. Lower body day:leg press, leg extension,hamstring curls, adductor/abductor, calf raises Cardio: walk on treadmill or pedal bike for 30 minutes 3 sets of 10 for everything. start at the very lowest weight (if you can't bench the bar, start with 2 5-lb dumbbells) for the first week or two while you get used to the movements. If you succeed at all 3 sets, add 2.5 or 5 lbs next workout. On the cardio, if it's too easy, go up .1mph or 1 level on the next workout. In 6 months you will be surprised how far you've come.

Quite a few providers have an OF I would start with those guys and see what they say.

This. It also makes for salacious TV reporting and ratings. They used to do busts of park cruisers etc during Sweeps month.