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    LD19847 reacted to EZEtoGRU in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    I've been watching each night since Tuesday...at least for a little while.  Friday was the busiest night as far as number of dancers goes.  Most the guys were returning former dancers (Jay, Pauly, Adrian, Marco, Kyle, Frank, Zach, Ronny) plus a few mostly forgettable new guys.  Most of the returning dancers are not in as good of shape as before...which is understandable.  Gyms were closed for many months.  Alex the bartender is back but the rest of the bartenders I saw seemed new to me.  Former dancer Tommy seems to be the new manager.  He was there each night but didn't dance.  
    It was hard to tell how busy the bar was as the camera didn't pan around the room whilst I was watching.  I'm sure it will take a few weeks for them to get back into the groove.  If I was in Canada, I would definitely plan on going.   
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    LD19847 got a reaction from cany10011 in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    Stock Bar has posted on its Instagram account that it will reopen on June 15:
    https://www.instagram.com/p/CPxljFhppw7
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    LD19847 got a reaction from Boy4 in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    Stock Bar has posted on its Instagram account that it will reopen on June 15:
    https://www.instagram.com/p/CPxljFhppw7
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    LD19847 got a reaction from twinkboylover28 in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    Stock Bar has posted on its Instagram account that it will reopen on June 15:
    https://www.instagram.com/p/CPxljFhppw7
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    LD19847 reacted to soberguy in Palm Springs Resorts?   
    I've stayed at Hacienda and Santiago many times.  In my opinion, they are both great resorts.  Hacienda is a bit on the pricey side but the upkeep and service are not comparable.  So if you have the means and are looking for a beautiful place to stay, I can definitely recommend it.   In terms of cruisiness, it goes under the radar but I have had very pleasant physical encounters with other guests every time I've been; it's a behind closed doors sort of thing.  Santiago is also nice, though not on the same scale.   And in my experience the price is significantly less than the Hacienda.  I've always had a great time at Santiago; beautiful open pool and super friendly guests.  It does seem to get a bit cruisy at night with guys wandering around peaking where they can but it's fun and manageable - not sex clubish.  Another place to consider is La Dolce Vida which is my favorite.  They've recently done a renovation in most of their rooms so it's got a fresh feel.  It has two pools which is fun.  Originally it was two separate resorts and the transitioning element between the two sides adds a bit to the sex vibe for some reason but like Santiago it's never been too over the top.  And similarly, the other guests have always been super engaging. I have a great time whenever I stay there.  I hope that helps and have a great visit.
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    LD19847 reacted to Jamie21 in How much time do you estimate you lose each week (wasting time).   
    Definitely agree with Jarrod. I never understand it. I’ll get a text asking if I’m available for a massage on x date /time. I reply quickly with details of my availability and then.....nothing. No response not even a message saying “I changed my mind”. Why do that??
    I’m professional, I have a website, I take my work seriously, I prepare for clients, I make myself available, I cancel personal appointments all to accommodate a client’s request....then as happened today my client who booked yesterday messaged an hour before the time to cancel.
     
    I understand things happen, but an hour before the time? I believe in a lot of these situations the client has just changed their mind or got cold feet. It’s very disappointing.
     
    Other times I’ve had a client book a couple of weeks in advance. Lots of messages went back and forth to make the booking. Including details of what he wanted. I messaged him the day before to confirm (as I always do) and he replies by saying “oh sorry I forgot mate, I’ve got something else booked now”. So I guess had I not checked he’d have just not turned up and I’d be waiting with everything ready. Why book it if you then aren’t so interested that you even note it in your diary?
     
    Even worse, I had a request for a 4 hands with a masseuse and me. The client had specific requests which I was able to meet by contacting one of the masseuses I work with. She made arrangements for the date, so did I. It took a lot of time to schedule it and find the right masseuse. Then, the day before the client cancelled because of “issues at home”. Fortunately he did agree to pay to cover the costs my masseuse incurred (she was travelling a long way for the session) which was decent of him. But the worse thing is all the time wasted.
     
    I think there’s an attitude that sex workers time is unimportant and we can be treated with disregard. If something better comes up they choose to either cancel at short notice or just not turn up. I definitely value my clients who book and do turn up, they get great service. I’ve learned the signs that indicate whether someone is unlikely to turn up. If they book and don’t show up I’ll never book them again. If they cancel last minute without genuine reason they’ll also never get a booking again.
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    LD19847 reacted to Jamie21 in Masseur best practices...   
    All of this advice is great, especially about the high levels of professionalism required to do it properly. I’ve been doing sensual massage for 5 years now and am always learning new things about the work.
     
    However the single most important tip I would give is to treat each client as if he is the most beautiful and sexy guy in the world for the time that he is with you. Give him your total focus, pay attention to how he reacts to your touch (everyone has different areas of their body that get them going - often unusual areas, so explore them) and treat him like he’s your hottest date regardless of any attraction you may or may not have. I learned that not every client is who I’d go for if it was a dating situation but there’s always something you can find that is attractive about him. Some of the most erotic and sexy massages have been with guys I’d not normally be attracted to.
     
    You also need to decide what your limits are and stick to them. Only once did I have a client pressurise me into doing something I wasn’t happy doing and I decided after that to be really strict on what’s included and what isn’t. I do include fucking (as top) if the client wants it but I don’t charge extra for it because I say to them that it has to feel right for both of us. That way I’m not under pressure to perform if it’s the 4th client of the day for example. If they want me to bottom I do charge extra. I think it’s important to be clear in your offering what’s included (subject to any legal restrictions on what’s possible in your jurisdiction). And whilst the erotic and sexual parts of the massage are important don’t forget that you must give a great proper massage. Learn good effleurage strokes, learn head massage, have a speciality (head massage is good). Important to be a great masseur as well as able to bring a guy to climax.
     
    Doing naked sensual massage is a fantastic job, meeting new people and helping them explore their sexuality. I’m glad I’ve been able to open up new experiences for my clients.
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    LD19847 got a reaction from Dirks in London recommendations   
    Has anyone met with Henry?
     
    https://www.sleepyboy.com/uk/south-west-england/escort/Henry4577
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    LD19847 got a reaction from Luv2play in London recommendations   
    Has anyone met with Henry?
     
    https://www.sleepyboy.com/uk/south-west-england/escort/Henry4577
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    LD19847 got a reaction from + Reisr30 in London recommendations   
    Has anyone met with Henry?
     
    https://www.sleepyboy.com/uk/south-west-england/escort/Henry4577
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    LD19847 reacted to Stefcho in Your Most Muscular Meet-Up?   
    Colton, RIP...
    As nice and generous as he was muscular. We wrestled, it was like David and Goliath. He showed me some holds and he loved to flex. He was really one of a kind.
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    LD19847 reacted to Luv2play in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    Oh I remember him. He was a fixture for quite a while. The dancers would gravitate to his table near the dance floor. He would pass out paper money like it was napkins.
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    LD19847 reacted to Luv2play in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    Oh I remember him. He was a fixture for quite a while. The dancers would gravitate to his table near the dance floor. He would pass out paper money like it was napkins.
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    LD19847 got a reaction from adianblance in Pineapple Point Ft. Lauderdale   
    I have stayed at Pineapple Point a couple of times and would echo the staff are excellent and very accommodating.
     
    As you'll see on the website they do offer on site massages. It has been a while since my last stay, but other guests did say good words about Joel if he's still working there.
     
    The only awareness point is that the property is in a residential area (some taxi drivers struggled to find it) and neither the beach nor the bars of Wilton Manors are within walking distance.
     
    As for action, it's not full on cruising day and night like Island House in Key West, but it's there if you're looking for it.
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    LD19847 got a reaction from + Hoover42 in What do we know about when and how Montreal clubs will reopen?   
    The Saloon Bistro Bar has put itself up for sale:
     
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    https://www.remax-quebec.com/fr/fonds-de-commerce-a-vendre/1333-rue-ste-catherine-e-ville-marie-village-15060855.rmx
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    LD19847 reacted to BostonTom in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    The going rate in Montreal has been $20 a song for at least fifteen years. So given inflation (and the low Canadian dollar) it's a bargain these days (or will be again), particularly for Americans. Your friend was a little naive to think he'd get off with a stripper for $15, but hey, at least he learned his lesson. A few other tips for the less-experienced from someone who's been around the block a few times too often: the stripper isn't going to let you do much in the first dance but get his clothes off - and the lure of "one song only and then I'll see about more" can lead to a pushy or even hostile situation in my experience so I don't really recommend it. You're in this for $40-60 if you want a smooth entrance and exit. Also, some strippers will try to pretend you've gone an extra song. Assess that situation carefully. I usually try to enter the booth at the top of a song and keep track, and when breaking it off say, "So I think that was three songs" or something like that. If they push back too strongly - again, it's really not worth it. Remember strippers are in business, and they're probably not really attracted to you, and they're trying to get as much money out of you as possible with the least effort in the shortest amount of time possible. That's just life. Also remember they talk among themselves about clients, so if you want to be able to pick up the next hot dancer, you may have to part with some cash to keep the last one happy. Also remember there's not supposed to be any actual sex going on in the back room. At Campus the back room largely lacks any privacy at all now, and at Stock the staff sometimes sticks their head in through the curtains. So anything beyond a hand job is very risky. All that said, most strippers in my experience have given me my money's worth. They provide a service much more reliably than, say, waitresses or salespeople! And most are smart, good natured and want to have a good time. Just bring extra cash, don't get too drunk, don't expect the moon, and keep your wits about you.
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    LD19847 reacted to + MysticMenace in Inside scoop on Alain D   
    so, did a little research...? and found out the following:

    not meeting up with clients due to covid but most likely is using his RM profile to direct traffic to his revived Twitter and OF (looks to be inactive) pages
    open to doing custom videos
    uprooting himself from Philadelphia to LA this upcoming January

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    LD19847 got a reaction from Bargara Leatherboy in So Many Escort Ads List Spanking   
    It may be a British thing but there's a fairly big M/M spanking scene in London with four regular events.
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    LD19847 reacted to + MasssageGuy in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    Rather long, but the ending is worth it.
     
    https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f625536afc1e
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    LD19847 reacted to PDR in Rory the British muscle god   
    He’s back @eddieboiii
    https://onlyfans.com/eddieboiii?rec=939430
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    LD19847 got a reaction from Boy4 in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    Stock is hosting an online event with dancers and staff this Saturday, June 13 at 10pm on Zoom and its website:
     
    https://www.stockbar.com/
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    LD19847 got a reaction from coriolis888 in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    Very few people tip the dancers when they are on stage. It does interrupt the dancer and the show for other patrons. I would certainly not touch a dancer intimately on stage unsolicited.
     
    There are private booths and if you want to show your appreciation for a dancer that's where to do it.
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    LD19847 got a reaction from Chidude in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    The village will be pedestrianized from tomorrow. Gallerie Blanc should also reopen soon.
     
    https://www.instagram.com/villagemontreal/
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    LD19847 got a reaction from Alfstoria in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    The village will be pedestrianized from tomorrow. Gallerie Blanc should also reopen soon.
     
    https://www.instagram.com/villagemontreal/
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    LD19847 got a reaction from Boy4 in STOCK BAR / MONTREAL   
    The village will be pedestrianized from tomorrow. Gallerie Blanc should also reopen soon.
     
    https://www.instagram.com/villagemontreal/
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