misterhumphries

You should go to the source and ask him!

THIS! There's nothing wrong with a little mutual objectification. Neither the escort or his client is in the room because they saw each other in a crowd, their eyes locked, and they knew it was true love. Escorting is a transaction. A voluntary transaction. Each party gets something they want from it. Nobody is denying anyone's humanity. But there's nothing wrong with a zipless fuck, either.

Ears like the British gay actor Russell Tovey

Bodybuilders are NOT intimidating. The ones I've met are some of the nicest men there are. They know why they are hired and will flex and let me explore to my satisfaction and amazement. One actually laughed and said I sounded like little kid! He made it clear he was also D.T.F. If you are self-confident and exude some degree of sensuality, they will mirror that approach. Mind you, all the above is my experience.

Yes! RM has some BONE UGLY men with only big dicks to recommend them. Wouldn't touch it.

I think making concessions is a part of any human connection. No one can be all things to one person. When I hire, it's for BODY. I tell bodybuilders, I want a muscle man to play with. I don't care about faces or cocks. It's nice if he's got a big one put it's not a deal-breaker. If he claims he's straight or bi -- more power to him BUT I would insist on full access to taste, lick, and suck any muscle that I wrap my lips around. Now that I think of it, a massive dick does NOTHING for me.. Such men tend to be one-trick ponies (no pun intended). I will suck on a big one, but to me, men have SO much more to offer.

Update: I got my Shun knives. Gordon Ramsay had better look out!

There was an episode of this on "And Just Like That." Harry was having dry orgasms with Charlotte. Turns out he needed to perform kegel exercises to strengthen his pelvic floor. By the end of the episode, Harry was spouting like Old Faithful.. something to think about.

"... asked if they could shower"? You're better than me. My home is not an annex of the YMCA. I expect an escort to arrive shaved, bathed, and presentable. And a toothbrush???! I do not pay hundreds of dollars for a fixer-upper. Now there was one amateur bodybuilder with a massive chest and bodacious nips who I insisted be a little funky when we get together. I enjoyed smelling like him for a while after a session....

This ability of "tops" to "discover their holes" or whatnot always seemed curious to me. In my experience, several men I've dated were exclusive bottoms with me -- couldn't get enough -- yet their ex's (many of whom I also know, gay circles are very small as one ages) are surprised, declaring XX was exclusively a top. Maybe it's high time we abandon these labels and just allow ourselves to do whatever feels good at the time and with whomever we are with.

Thanks for the reply. I read the same concerns about the sanitary condition of those knife blocks, so I am leaning towards a magnetic strip or a magnetic stand. A magnetic stand may also help preserve the sharp edge of the knives. \ I've never heard of Damascus knives. I checked out the link. Too rich for my blood. The most I'd pay for a single knife is about $150 or so, but worth a look. Shun, I've been aware of the name but always have "shunned" them (I couldn't resist!). On closer inspection, the Shun brand may be just what I'm looking for.

I am in the market for a new set of kitchen knives. I'm considering All Clad, Made In, and Wusthoff and Williams Sonoma. I am also on the fence about buying a set (I read the quality of sets sold with those massive storage blocks can be hit or miss) or buying individual knives. Does anyone have any opinions to share about knives they are happy with and are good value for the money? Opinions are gratefully welcomed.

Yes, it's not that uncommon for an escort to give a follow-up to having his profile viewed. The personal touch to drum up a li'l business, don't you know. It happens to me a lot, but it's never from a man I'd even remotely consider hiring. As for if escorts read this site, yes, they do. Why not? We dish about escorts like mad,.. what's sauce for the goose..

Yes! There is a clip I love featuring Tom Chase and Brad Patton swapping fucks. Chase took Patton's thick cock. It was so arousing to see Chase start to cringe and shake his head for the fucking to stop! Ugh! I love that clip. Rather than Chase becoming a bottom or versatile, it's always possible that he has always been versatile in his personal life, but in porn -- because of his big dick -- he was marketed as an exclusive top.

What you describe is a lot to explain to a total stranger that you are hiring. An escort is there for the money; the activities that take place during the scheduled time are not a matter of life or death for the escort. If there is sex and it's good, all the better. But you should feel no pressure to perform in any particular way. Rather than an escort, you may want to consult with a sex therapist who can help you come to terms with the reality of your sexual capabilities. As others have opined, you are not alone. As we age, most of us will experience some changes in sexual performance and stamina. Nothing to apologize for. As for a return to physical intimacy: FABULOUS! But you set the pace, you set the agenda that you are comfortable with. No explanations needed. Physical intimacy doesn't always have to include penetrative sex.

I'd doubt he'd be any more interactive now that he's slapped "bisexual" on his profile. More like "buy" sexual. Any profile that has to label itself as "elite" is suspect for me. Let his presentation, behavior, and performance do the talking. If he's got the goods and can deliver same, word will spread.

Now, now.. He could have scored a good deal at Costco and stocked up....

I'd also recommend a movie called "John" on Tubi. I stumbled onto it and was riveted. It follows documentary style, a young gay boy's misadventures in WEHO.

I'd say no. You've shown interest and made an opening offer. It's now up to the escort to accept or flat-out refuse. Of course, your offer could also be based on how you'd want your time spent with the escort.

No one. It sets a bad precedent.

Gamesmanship! Your bank did you the "favor" of being possibly $20K in debt instead of $5K. It's a thing that makes you go "Hmmmmm...." One of my credit card providers lowered my credit limit -- for reasons only they know -- and I thank them. The resulting limit is all I need for practical purposes; the rest is financial window dressing, possible quicksand.

Game is right. Witness how our friend Ali Gator is beating his breast over a fluctuation involving something he has no control over. We have been brainwashed to believe a "high" FICO score somehow makes you a better consumer, a better person, and more entitled to special treatment. I favor Dave Ramsey's perspective that an individual in a truly strong financial position doesn't rely on the vagaries of a credit score. He delays gratification -- in most cases -- and pays CASH for what he wants whenever possible.

This is a tough one. Your healthcare choices must be made to suit YOU and your situation. The only caveat with the ACA is most of its plans are HMOs and to get full benefit from the plan you'd be limited to seeing the physicians who participate in the plan. You'd also need referrals to see a specialist (who also must be in network). If you have a favorite primary care physician or specialist, that could be one way to narrow your choices. Find a plan in which your provider is a member.

What I found impressive is how Maggie Smith didn't buy into the "celebrity" cult that strangles America. In more than one interview Smith said she enjoyed going where she wanted to go and do what she wanted without being recognized. Acting was a job for her and that mindset probably helped keep her sane and happy.

I doubt it. If he was that casual about meeting in the first place, he probably shrugged and went back to his Gameboy or whatever electronic gadget obsesses people nowadays.