misterhumphries

You took this encounter WAY too far, expended far too much time and energy on it. And in the end all you have is yet another promise to take action that, based on past behavior, may not be kept. The last thing I would want, if I were in your situation, is to pursue a meeting with this man after he may have scammed you and you were threatening to lodge a formal complaint. Too much hurt feeling and possible personal risk of retribution at the escort's hands. My rules are simple: if an escort doesn't reply or takes what I consider too long to reply. I shrug and move on. Insisting that you meet with only the one escort makes you appear desperate or stalkerish; primed to be taken for a ride.

Talk about Kroger. Oddly enough, since the Covid inflation set in, Kroger has been the only store where I can find somewhat lower prices on eggs and butter. I lament, though, that the Kroger digital coupons no longer seem to offer discounts on any real food items that one might want to buy. For the past month or so, the only digital coupons were for batteries, toothbrushes, deodorants. Real groceries don't seem to be discounted much any more.

Hear hear! The equation for escorting is the escort is PAID for his time. If you can't afford it, keep it moving. There's not a requirement that a client be "hot" or anything else. If an escort has those parameters, it would reduce his income considerably. I'd find this question about a discount to be insulting and time wasting, if I were an escort. If you want to have free sex because you're "hot" it's perfectly possible -- just don't expect an escort to stiff himself (no pun intended) on his set fee.

I don't believe location matters; you're paying for the erotic experience that you request. If you have a straight escort, there are going to be definite limits (I've yet to encounter one who would even consider fucking a man's ass). Just don't overthink it. Be clear about your wants and needs, keep an open mind, and have a ball!

I believe the BFE or escorting is whatever a client says it is, or what he expects. There are no hard and fast definitions for each type of experience. I tend to lean more towards the BFE because sex is easy to come by. But when I want a definite type of body, I make it clear what I'd like. sex is usually not part of the scenario; intimacy (albeit brief) is.

thanks for the opinion. next time he comes to my area i might have to look him up. I love a man with a round hard ass.

I've heard and read nothing but praise about Mike Gaite. Is his ass as spectacular as it looks in photos? This inquiring mind wants to know.

I'm the same. I am also an LMT. I have had so many gay men apologizing for their weight or their age. It's come one, come all with me, too. Money spends the same. Personally, working on bodybuilders is interesting but it's more hard work digging into those dense muscle fibers. I work up a sweat like mad when a more muscled man is on my table. I know some therapists who will not work on bodybuilders for just that reason.

I'm sorry to read that your first escort experience was lacking. Like you, I am also a minority. I believe the key to a great experience that YOU ARE PAYING FOR is to be frank. Read the profile carefully to see if it is worded in such a way that minorities or older men may not be welcomed. State exactly what you want -- sex, intimacy that goes beyond sex, etc. Not every escort is for everybody. Ask if an escort has any ethnic preferences (we all do, no harm in that) so you don't expose yourself to feeling less-than while paying for the privilege. Like everything in life: if you don't ask, you don't get. Communication is everything. When hiring, it's no time to be shy or coy.

It's always a case of buyer beware. And when I hire, I state upfront if I don't like your looks or hygiene, or you find me repulsive, we can put a stop to the transaction.

The inflated cost of eggs and butter sadden me. Sad because they are two cooking essentials for me. I still remember the glory days when a dozen of eggs could be had for 99 cents. Never again

It's the same hypocrisy around bathhouse sex. The end result (for most) is sex with a stranger. The same sex you'd have via Grindr, Manhunt or any other app. The only difference being a bathhouse's geographical perimeters and admission fee.

I don't know if a man "NEEDS" to jerk off but it is a form of sex with someone I love and admire.

I don't think you have to say anything. If he's an escort, he probably has other clients that you know nothing about. It's a blurring of the interpersonal lines that YOU feel a loyalty that the escort may not. Scrape away the sexual intimacy, and you're left with a business transaction. It's not rude to see and pay whatever escort you please.

It's a toss-up: Ruffles potato chips or homemade caramel popcorn. So bad for you but so delicious, like many things in life.

I had an acquaintance who claimed he never jerked off or had to stimulate himself manually during sex with a man. Just goes to show the biggest sex organ is the brain. But for me, jerking off while I'm choking on a massive dick makes me EXPLODE!

You may not have meant it but that comment is racist. It's an old trope of the black person being sexual or seen merely as a sex object. No black person ever got his/her civil rights respected because they are good or adventurous in bed.

I can't tell you how or with whom I discovered I am a nipple pig but it's been a revelation. I once dated this man with genuinely HUGE MASSIVE bodybuilder-style tits with thimble nipples that he loved to have nursed and chewed. It was awesome. And then he did things to my nipples that made my knees buckle. For me, the acid test is if any potential date or sex partner knows what to do with nips.

When I look at porn (rare these days) my go-tos are the pre-condom movies of Falcon and Colt studios. The men back then were more sexual, I believe, in contrast to the slick packaging and ticking off aesthetic boxes. Chad Douglas was one of my favorite porn stars. I got a thrill watching those greedy but unsuspecting boys grimace and cringe to be stretched by his thick heavy dick. For brute, often homely muscled MEN, I like Erotkius and Hunter Hunted from the Raging Stallion studio. That Xerxes had it all: huge muscle ass like that on a statue of Hercules; wide open asshole and an ever-hard big dick.