misterhumphries

There is no choosing sexuality; it simply is. For me, my choice was to accept that I am sexually interested only in men. I did not sit myself down and wonder: "Hmm.. What can I do to make my life that much more difficult and to feel ostracized?" The very idea that sexuality is a choice is a step backwards that led to the gay reprogramming camps and religious groups who used to believe they could pray the gay away. The DSM long-ago stopped classifying homosexuality as a mental disorder. Sexuality is biological, a genetic quirk.

Elbow Grease is so 1980s. I've since moved to Gun Oil. Silicone is the way to go. And cum.

I have just two words of warning: Linda Evangelista. If diet and exercise don't cut it, it's nature's way of telling you you don't need it.

A borderline average build asking for $400? That's a HARD pass for me.

YES! He's a meaty specimen. I'd love to peel them clothes off him to see what he's working with first, though, before I commit lust in my heart or elsewhere.

This tit-for-tat bickering and hypocritical attitudes about who should or should not teach sex ed are why the lead article to this thread would never work in the US.

I interpreted the article to mean Geffen deleted the tweet because he didn't want it known he dated a porn actor. It's also hyperbolic and misplaced to compare an unrepentant child molester with a gay man. I don't follow Geffen's doings but I assume all his partners were adults and were willing.

The opinions on your situation are unanimous: YOU ARE BEING PLAYED. But this shady escort could only get away with it with your help. What's this "you are only hearing my side of the story..."? He's a cheat; no misinterpreting that.

You'd think at his age and with his astronomical wealth, David Geffen could do whatever he wanted, with whomever he wanted WITHOUT APOLOGY .. and certainly with no wimpy-ass deletes.

OOH-WEE! He is BIG. Not fan of all that foreskin, though.

Montana's flat stomach and abs are to die for! I'll never starve myself enough to get that flat stomach again. 😪

Spanking. Never considered it until I came across this thread. It might be incredibly erotic if I could find a man who had confidence and physical strength to overpower me, pin me over his knee and go to town on my backside with his open palm.

I quote from a google definition. Fetish: a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs. This would include feet, eating ass, sneakers (never understood that one), pit hair, etc.

If it's on the menu and the ass is spectacular AND CLEAN! I will gladly munch on it. But that's a very intimate act that I only do if an established partner wants it. And I know from experience bodybuilders love to get them big hard asses eaten out.

It's not a matter of blaming an escort for not kissing. And it's not that I randomly kiss any man. Oral hygiene and condition of teeth are are essential points. I considered hiring a big beefy specimen this afternoon. He responded "no" when I asked if he kisses. I thanked him but no sale. I suppose I'd like the option for kissing to occur if I feel so moved.

My parents told me nothing. I was exposed to scare tactics about what could go wrong if one has sex. When I began to experience sexual attraction for other men, I was entirely left to my own devices. I read a lot, observed a lot, made up my own mind. Gay porn was thrilling for its forbidden aspects but I never confused what happens in porn with real life.

I always think twice of giving my address to some strange man when I request an in-call. You could take the initiative and offer to meet at a nearby coffee shop or some place public. Then be escorted to the client's house if you both get good vibes from each other. There's an equal risk that you also assume going to a stranger's house.

I love cheez-its. they are my crack.. which is why I can't buy them more than 2x a year.

I hope you recognize the hypocrisy. The end result of an escort encounter is some type of sexual encounter with a stranger. Same as the result on any of the hundreds of hook-up apps. For some reason, the bigotry seems to rear its ugly head if an exchange of money is involved.

Right. I'm not ashamed of anything I choose to do.

No. But mainly because it's never come up. I wouldn't have any issues discussing it with a man open to the idea.

Yes. Don't drink alcohol with clients. You could have been given a roofie. And it was rape but who could you tell and not face backlash? Please be careful

This is a common misconception. The reporting on HIV/AIDS has been so widespread that many think it's the only STD that must be avoided. My doctor said there is a rise of syphilis (some resistant to drug treatment) among gay men for this very reason. And chronic syphilis has a house of horrors all its own: blindness, insanity, infertility impotence. Wearing a condom faithfully is so simple yet resistance to it continues....

I was going to write that those photos are too out of focus for my liking. And one of them doesn't look facially like the man in the others. Seems I'm not the only one to smell a rat. And those 5-star reviews could also be faked.

I'd be interested to know, too. An escort on top of his game knows that the brain is the largest sex organ. I've always believed a skilled, sensual escort knows what buttons to push to keep a client happy without necessarily going all the way. This theory excludes hungry, exclusive bottoms who only want their booties stretched.