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I wish I could say that for myself!  The last few days have been interesting to say the least. 

I think there is a misunderstanding here. Expecting a tip is fine, asking for one is not fine. Imagine if your waiter in a restaurant or your hairdresser verbally asked you “How much will you tip?”
But this is especially a problem since asking for tip in exchange for extra services would get the place closed, and forbidden to do business, if the client is an undercover policeman. This has happened to Time Square Men Spa very recently, another spa which is only 10 blocks from HK men spa. And it will happen again. 

One of my hottest hookups was hiring identical twins once. Damn. 🔥🔥🔥

One of my hottest hookups was hiring identical twins once. Damn. 🔥🔥🔥

SORRY for not providing an update.
I did reach out to him im a very polite way explaining my current situation and that I will reach out to him when i'm able.  He responded in a positive way

One of my hottest hookups was hiring identical twins once. Damn. 🔥🔥🔥

I feel like I started a whole big argument and did not mean for that. The problem with asking for tips is it jeopardizes the spa and everyone’s job, which is why it’s not allowed in the first place. See TSMS. The whole point of this forum is to discuss our experiences. If you had a bad time, share that. If you had a great time, share that. But I don’t think anyone on here should be demanding anyone lose their job, that’s insane. 

No not true 

One of my hottest hookups was hiring identical twins once. Damn. 🔥🔥🔥

I agree with this except for the asking for tips part. I don't think they should be doing that. I've only had that happen once at all the dozens of times I've gone to HK and that was with a person who only worked there once or twice I think going there to earn a few extra dollars on a once or twice basis.

Having read all these posts I have two thoughts: You guys in NY are so lucky to have a place like this. And I really liked the responses the manager gave to the various comments and complaints. 
Just keep going guys. It's the only way they'll stay in business, obviously.

As a client, I don't even go there anymore or even think about it

Call 311? Girl - WTF is that gonna do? You know there are always two sides to the coin. Why don't we ask Adem what this queen wanted in return for the tip requested??? I've had quite a few massages by Adem and he is very consistent and always attentive to our time together.
Fire him? Take a seat sista ..... 
 

As a client, I don't even go there anymore or even think about it

Have you firmly and directly communicated some version of "don't call me, I'll call you?"

As a client, I don't even go there anymore or even think about it

Had Abel my first time months ago. Polite but distant, decent massage, no connection or chemistry. Clinical “ending.” Figured he was either straight or just not into it — I don’t think things personally. 
 
Recently got out of another session — more reluctant to name names this time, although people have been asking about him in the thread — but when he was called out to get me he didn’t seem to realize I was the client lmao. The guy working the front desk had to tell him I was a customer. Once we got into the room he immediately got a bit… distracted from the massage, started smelling my hair and my neck and playing with my mouth and telling me how pretty I was. Things got more distracting… and finally after about thirty minutes of that he said “maybe we should finish the massage,” lmao. 
Anyway it was super fun and honestly I thought this only happened in online smut so there you go. Kind of curious if this has happened to anyone else lol
 
 

As do I but I feel to develop the best relationship with things going forward is to see the same masseur multiple times , maybe that’s just me? I like to try out different guys as well but have found when I go back to the same person the sessions tend to get better 

Honesty is the best policy.
You shared this with us. You need to share this with him.
Nothing wrong with a provider doing follow ups with a regular. He is running a business. He is merely trying to manage his cash flow. Many of these young guys (if he IS a young pup) need guidance on these details. As far as I know most of these guys don't take courses in how to run a massage/escort business.  If you feel he's being too aggressive, SAY SO. 
You say you enjoy the service and you enjoy the company, so I don't understand any of these people telling you to "LIE" or to "BLOCK". That is terrible advice. Talk about shooting yourself in the foot  

I switch them up and go to a lot of different masseurs at HK. I gotta tell you I think a lot of people post here comments who have their own agendas. Just my opinion.

Same. It's more the reviewer than the spa at least for hk spa. 

Also at least there wasn't an ambulance involved.

It's working for me

Yeah lamb chop - well that greatly depends on the person writing the reviews. I've been going to 27 HK for a couple of years now and have had very consistent experiences. I've also never had to 'request extras' and always tipped accordingly. 

Have you firmly and directly communicated some version of "don't call me, I'll call you?"