Your Man in Arlington

Decided to inquire: $260 for 90 min sensual massage described as "Deep tissue sports relaxing massage." Disappeared when I inquired about whether we both would be nude and touching. For my holiday weekend de-stress, I think will instead book a regular who is therapeutic with some sensual elements (lightly clothed and no MT or HE); but who is cute, gay and thoroughly and skillfully massages everywhere (that's not genitalia) for $100 less.

Here's his MF Profile: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46543/ Interested, but with no reviews... 🤷‍♂️

That is exactly what I'm about to do. I've just seen in it a number of profiles, and have a better understanding of what it means in a masseur ad.

That makes sense. Possibly in the same vein as this thread:

I've seen escort providers on RentMen (not talking about massage providers) mention that they offer "special service" among other things (eg. kink). Is this just another term for BFE, or am I missing something? Thanks for any insight!

So far, I haven't played music when hosting or had a provider play music when visiting, unless it's a booked as a massage, and not a strictly deli type meeting.

I love wine and have an extensive collection, but I don't mix alcohol and playtime. I can't even have any food for the day before playtime. I old. 😜

My doctor prescribed it for me and I use it after after sexual encounters. It's not 100% effective, but does very well at 85% and should protect against oral exposure, even if there's intercourse with condoms. My doctor explained that you can't continually take it, so he doesn't prescribe it for people who are hooking up 7 days a week. And, from what I understand, the thesis is that it will reduce overall transmission and thus its prevalence. There's more information here: Don’t Take Chances: Why Doxycycline is a Great Bet Against STIs WWW.UCSF.EDU A short course of antibiotics, Doxy-PEP, can prevent some STIs after condomless sex. You might note: "Doxy-Pep is an option to reduce the risk of syphilis, gonorrhea and chlamydia for transwomen as well as gay, bisexual or other men who have sex with men and who have had at least one of these STIs in the past 12 months." I've never had one of these STIs, but my doctor still recommended it for me anyway. Hope this helps!

I've only had 2 providers request a photo, and they were both hosting, so I can understand that from a security perspective. Otherwise they have seemed to have no interest in seeing a photo of me before meeting up, and I don't think it mattered to them and the service they provide. There is the issue of chemistry between a client and provider. It's not always there when you meet up in person, or it's only there in certain aspects of the experience. The best providers, however, seem to be able to manufacture chemistry out of thin air. So, no, you should never worry about being out of a provider's league; if that's how you feel with them, they're not doing their job well.

Looks like he's back in Philly now. His OF content looks to have gone in a way more sub-bottom daddy-pleaser direction. 🧐

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Definitely some or most assume this. For me, playtime consistently runs full hour or close to it. And, fortunately, I've had no problem so far letting them know I'd like to shower together and hang out chatting and possibly cuddling until I signal I'm ready to wrap things up.

Must have just happened, met with him yesterday. He does have a regular full time job and mentioned that not always working.

Today I got a Buddy Activity notification I hadn't seen before "Xxx has changed their rates." I don't see any rate information on his profile, even when I VPN to the UK (haven't tried the rest of the EU). Is RM preparing to roll out a new feature, or are rates only visible to particular countries?

Ended up pulling the trigger and definitely had positive experience. If anyone from the future searches for him, finds this thread, and I'm still around, feel free to PM me for more details; they might be helpful for you.

I have ended up with naturally spending around 90 to 100 minutes with most guys, including some massage before and some conversation after. I'm OK with that. One of my Dad's saying before he passed away was something along the lines of "Some of the best glasses of beer I've had are the ones I left half-full." I started this thread out of curiosity as to whether there was something I was missing out on, but now think it's better to view a meeting as value for the right amount of time than the full amount of time. For me, so far, that happens to be more than an hour but less than two.

I've mostly had strictly therapeutic massages over the past 20+ years, and they've always been in the nude if the therapist/provider is male.

That's quite something out of the gate. He may be real, but I have a problem reconciling "Style: Otter" and "Body Hair: Shaved" with the profile photos, which all seem to come from a Spanish-language social media influencer Instagram account.

Name change from DreamGuyMassages, briefly discussed here:

And possibly illegal.

An emerging trend?

Thanks for the info. I suspect he's not my particular scene then. 🤔

NiccoloStevenson is new to RM as of yesterday. No face pics. TGTBT?

He does have my mobile number, but we left it that I would confirm with him once I was in town, a couple of days before our meeting. Since his profile expired, I don't have access to his number anymore, so would have to rely on RM Messenger to reach out to him again.

This is why I never expect it from a provider, but am pleasantly surprised when it's something they want to do as part of our get together. There are some select few providers who are not sensitive to another guy's appearance, really just love sex, and/or get off on pleasing other guys. It's great to find someone who really loves their job!