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CastaDiva

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    CastaDiva reacted to Luv2play in What age is too old?   
    One should add that your brain is your greatest sex organ. As long as you have that working in tip top fashion, you can have a great time having sex, no matter what your age.
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    CastaDiva reacted to Gfantaps in 411 on LatinMusclBoy   
    He’s really hot, I would repeat
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    CastaDiva reacted to Kevin Slate in 411 on Johnnxl?   
    Has anyone met with him?  Feel free to PM if you prefer.  Thanks.
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    CastaDiva reacted to Ronin512 in 411 on Johnnxl?   
    Bumping for anyone with feedback from experience?
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    CastaDiva reacted to RadioRob in Two new Forums have just been added   
    This is an experiment that I'm playing with...  it's using the same system that is posting the Today in History posts.  
    I'm not quite happy with the formatting of the RSS feed imports and I have to see if there is a way I can clean them up.
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    CastaDiva reacted to Skip in 411 Cristianbody   
    Agree, husband material
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    CastaDiva reacted to pubic_assistance in Discretion_T in NYC?   
    I was reading the caption at the start of this conversation. Which says "Pornstar Performer ". 
    azdr0710 filled me in about the general nature of that text
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    CastaDiva reacted to Jamie21 in Client booked then silence, why??   
    Maybe they forgot. I send a reminder the day before. It usually elicits a response if either ‘looking forward to it!’ or ‘oh is it tomorrow?’ which helps to avoid any day of the session surprises.
    I agree with @Shawn Monroe there’s some who get off on the idea of a session but then aren’t able to follow through, possibly because of anxiety or that they just booked when horny. It’s just one of those things that come with the territory. 
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    CastaDiva reacted to TorontoDrew in Rentmen sponsors, worth it?   
    Couldn't agree more.  It's a two way street.  As an older guy I realize I'm not their first choice for some fun but it's amazing when rhey put some effort into it.
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    CastaDiva reacted to jtwalker in Rentmen sponsors, worth it?   
    I’ve met a few that disprove this.  There are some great guys on RM.  
    Anyone who truly wants to get the most out of the situation will give the most.  Ironically, the best way to receive is to give.  This is applicable in most of life.
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    CastaDiva reacted to TorontoDrew in Rentmen sponsors, worth it?   
    I think that's a bit harsh.  I want to experience pleasure for a fair price.  I don't want to take advantage of someone when I can afford not too.
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    CastaDiva reacted to FewBricksShy in Rentmen sponsors, worth it?   
    I was telling another friend who hires that I find it disingenuous when a provider says his goal is to make a guy happy. Not really. His goal is to make money. And the most money possible for the least amount of work and time possible. That’s perfectly fine. And acceptable. But let’s cut the crap. My goal is to have the most pleasure possible for the least amount of money possible. If everyone were honest and respectful about our intentions, then things would be better. I saw an ad today that said “There's nothing better than turning strangers into lovers.” Honey – you and I both know we’re never going to be lovers…Stop wasting my time with empty words. George Bailey promised the moon and only delivered on a drafty old house…When he accepted that and the reality of his actual life, he realized he had a wonderful life. He stopped living and wishing for a fantasy. We’re adults here and hopefully respectful. If we can’t accept that escorts want to make money and clients want to have a good time, if we want to think something else is going on, then we’re all delusional.
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    CastaDiva reacted to jtwalker in Rentmen sponsors, worth it?   
    I think clients and providers would all be better off if they would start looking for win/win transactions.  There are so many on both sides trying to be on the win side of a win/lose deal.  In the end, nobody wins on those deals.
    It gets old hearing about clients that didn't get what they want and providers that think everyone is wasting their time.  If people would just try to take care of other people, this hobby, hell the world would be a better place.
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    CastaDiva reacted to FTL in Rentmen sponsors, worth it?   
    The experiences were above and beyond what I have ever experienced with anyone and I’m 71. I was happy to make the contribution but now I’m wondering why. Better off just tipping more and booking more and maybe the providers don’t really know what it is or they do and let us who don’t keep doing it. Honestly my provider usually said he appreciated it but to what benefit for anyone other money RM. I though it perhaps off set their monthly fees but not so sure from this. Bottom line no more without full discussion of what benefits him and hopefully me. Pay and learn from the old man
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    CastaDiva reacted to FewBricksShy in Rentmen sponsors, worth it?   
    Agreed. And that’s what I was saying from my experience. I have done it and it wasn’t appreciated and there was no benefit. I don’t see any reason why there can’t be an agreement about what it means. Maybe it is just a tip. Maybe it’s not. For me, having done it, it wasn’t an equitable arrangement for me. If I felt it were appreciated or that there was some benefit to me, then I could entertain it. At this point, I feel like it’s not the best way for me to show appreciation. A tip is a tip. But RM sponsorship, from my experience, isn’t a beneficial to the client. No shit any arrangement, financial or otherwise, is beneficial to the provider if there are no strings/expectations/arrangements attached. If it’s just a sponsorship with no expectations, how could it be anything but positive? It seems to me the question should be, “Is RM sponsorship worth it if there are expectations?”
    @FTL– If a provider isn’t going out of his way for you for consistently going above and beyond and treating you like any other client who wouldn’t go above and beyond, then I feel that’s unethical, or at least entitled. I can tell you I appreciate what you do for me and not really. I can say the sky is green too if it means it benefits me, especially if it doesn’t cost me anything more than saying the sky is green. As long as you’re paying and he doesn’t have to do more, why wouldn’t he keep up such an arrangement?
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    CastaDiva reacted to TorontoDrew in Rentmen sponsors, worth it?   
    I see it as a potential one time gift for an extraordinary time.  Although I'd most likely tip well instead.
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    CastaDiva reacted to Jamie21 in Overnighters... What do you do?   
    London does this to green Brazilian boys, I can imagine they must feel like a kid in a sweet shop (candy store).  I’ve lived here all my life and have been to the clubs in Vauxhall and Soho and others across the city. It all goes on here. Fortunately the strongest thing I’ve had is a double espresso! 
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    CastaDiva reacted to Alex93108 in Overnighters... What do you do?   
    By contrast I had another overnight ( probably my worst) , in Brazil that went something like this.
    We agreed to  meet around 10pm. He texts me the day of to tells me that he is going to a birthday party and that he can arrive only at 1am. * THIS IS A HUGE RED FLAG* -. If anyone changes the time on me, I will cancel ( and you should too) because either you're the second act, and he's spent, or something else is going on. In this case it was the latter.
    He arrives a 1:30am. Now I was staying the nicest hotel in a major Brazilian city, ( when I mean nice, its the best hotel in the city I was staying at). Most 5 star hotels in Brazilcan be had for around $100-250 US, this was multiple more than that.  It was a treat to myself and my travel agent managed to get 1 night free out of multi night stay. So the effective rate for was less.
    So the dude shows up at this classy joint, all jumpy. After some chit chat, he tells me he worked in London for 6-8 months, then asked to do "chems" [ gee, i wonder where he got that habit from] . I said, I don't mind if you do - as long as it doesn't interfere with my enjoyment.   For a Brazilian, his English was ok, I guessed he picked it up from London, along with other bad habits.  Since I am in the UK frequently, we chat about that for a while.
    For those of you familiar with nice hotels - there is no bloody microwave in the room. What was I supposed to do? Call the concierge and ask for one?  
    "Hi - this is Mr. Jetlow. My hooker needs to cook his meth, can you send a microwave or heating plate to my room please? "   . I don't think so. 
    So he then snorts the thing. and festivities begin - except its evident that he can't get hard, hes not into the appointment or into me at all. What  a turn off. He tires for an hour - asks for a drink ( which I provided) , then asked to leave.
    But not before asking for his fee, prorated of course. A real hustler. I just wanted him gone
    It was supposed to be an overnight - it turned out to be an hour plus. Win some lose some. I was surprised, normally Brazilians are rather professional practitioners. What I learned from this is : The next time I'm in Brazil , I am going to ask the guys if they have EVER worked in London, because if they have and they are now back in Brazil, chances are they are RUINED.   My best Brazil hires in Brazil are the ones who have never seen Vauxhall or Soho. Because once they have its DONE, because they have probably done that scene for 6-8 months, on chems, and totally SPENT.   The best ones are the ones who aspire to go to London and are 1 or 2 years into the art, and have yet to hit the British isles or places like Paris.  I have more than once instance to prove this theory to be true. 
     
     
     
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    CastaDiva reacted to TorontoDrew in Overnights with Clients that Snore   
    My husband snores.  I would download a white noise app for your phone.  Helps to even out the sound.
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    CastaDiva reacted to Lazarus in Castro Supreme   
    His profile has expired but he shows as being available now. He sent me the same message as above. Surprised he is charging only 350 an hour…being a porn star & all. A lot of amateurs charge much more. 
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    CastaDiva reacted to Cliff in Castro Supreme   
    I would try Castro once just for the thrill of (attempting to) take his abnormally huge cock. I wouldn’t really care if he’s indifferent to me or not, ha ha. 
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    CastaDiva reacted to dutchal in Newbie or name change in NYC?   
    https://rentmen.eu/Lucasbraziliam  (note the "m")
    Same guy? 
     
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    CastaDiva reacted to GossipSummary in Porn stars I wish I could hire   
    I wish I could hire Zeb Atlas. 
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    CastaDiva reacted to MmM in Adrian Moss is Back With a New Scam   
    Used to go by Adrian Moss, Dale Parducci, Chrisitian. Etc. G4P. Had a spectacular body and equipment. 
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    CastaDiva reacted to jazboy in Adrian Moss is Back With a New Scam   
    He's very handsome.  Beautiful body and beautiful dick, beautiful skin and a beautiful hole too.  I like his subtly arrogance when he says things like "wow my cock looks great in these underwear."    Guido fantasy straight guy.  He's been doing this a long time.  I've always enjoyed him and he's lowered some boundaries with me.  I think for a lot of young straight guys, the money and attention is exciting in the beginning, but eventually they don't want to fuck around with men anymore.  But.... it's hard to leave, because they get used to the cash and the other earning options aren't always there.   So they get out, then back in and go back and forth when they need the cash.  When they get to that stage, they are usually a little jaded.  I think that's where he is now.  I don't know if he's a "scammer".  But he's definitely trying to make the most money he can with the least personal compromise.  
    He told me once he didn't want to do porn because of the stigma that would follow him around.  Selling headless videos on Onlyfans is a way to cash in without going full porn star.  
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