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Andrew in Chicago is great. Deep pressure and an excellent massage even if you don’t go the erotic route. Message him early though as he gets busy with clients and his day job. 
 
https://rentmasseur.com/AndrewTheMasseur

I would have cut the provider some slack over not mentioning any type of refund or “do over” while he was sick, including when you both departed as you said he was still under the weather. Food poisoning is not fun, so I can imagine his thoughts were more focused on getting thru/over it vs what to do about the weekend that went, literally, down the crapper. 

As you say you have a long-standing relationship with this provider, which includes regular off the clock texting - yet if I’m reading this correctly, neither of you have reached out to the other in the 2 weeks since this unfortunate weekend. You’re miffed because he hasn’t offered any sort of apology, offered any refund or do-over. Fair enough. But, for all you know he could be equally miffed you’ve not checked in on him, how he’s feeling, if he’s fully over it. This why I always say the Three C’s are soooo important! Communication, communication, and more communication. 

I’d reach out to him, ask how his recovery was, express your disappointment in how the weekend turned out, but be clear you understand it wasn’t his fault. See how he responds, and you can determine how best to broach the subject of the refund/do over. I find a bit of cheeky humour often works - something like “looking forward to working off the credit I have now 😜” 
 
Friendships can occur between providers, and hobbyists which is why I wish you had reached out earlier. You’re sitting stewing thinking he only cares the money, he may be stewing thinking you only care about the sex.

Hopefully what sounded like a mutually enjoyable, and beneficial relationship can be rise from the ashes of that weekend. 
 
Good luck! 
BBD 

Communicating with him is quite difficult.  On at least three occasions I have hit him up while traveling to Texas......no response.  I doubt it was the nature of my inquiry.  It was to the point but not explicit.  After a few tries I generally give up.  I think poor communication says  much about the way they do business in a more general sense.
 

Maybe give it a minute before you bump again?

If asking for same day or within a few hours, I fully expect that the answer is likely no. If yes, great. I do think it also goes both ways as some escorts book and then cancel/ghost last minute. Or have been up all night/seen several clients so know full well they can’t do what the client asks for but books anyways and still expects their full rate. 
 
There are assholes in every group who ruin it or give the bad reputation 🤣

If asking for same day or within a few hours, I fully expect that the answer is likely no. If yes, great. I do think it also goes both ways as some escorts book and then cancel/ghost last minute. Or have been up all night/seen several clients so know full well they can’t do what the client asks for but books anyways and still expects their full rate. 
 
There are assholes in every group who ruin it or give the bad reputation 🤣

This cuts both ways. I’ve had plenty of providers who pull similar shit. Like not showing up or being totally late, coming unprepared, wanting to leave early, constantly checking their phone etc.
I had one escort who wouldn’t ejaculate because he was saving it for another client later in the evening. A bit of a buzz kill.
And don’t get me started on the number of guys who I’ve seen that couldn’t sustain an erection.
My last big pet peeve- seeing an escort incall and finding out that their place is a disgusting shithole

Def agree need to normalize. I’d say it’s more friendly vs friends. We chat outside of bookings but aren’t doing trips or hanging out as friends outside of the bookings.  And thank god he didn’t take the friends pay double approach @KeepItReal 🤣🤣

I dunno. My motto is "real friends pay double". After all - they should know the loads...eh..value I bring! 😝

That’s the problem when the line becomes blurred. If he’s a friend there should be no charge. If he’s charging you it’s not a friend situation is it? (even if he’s discounted his rate). It sounds like you need to regularise the situation with him: friend or client but not a ‘bit of both’ because that can’t work. 
I had a client become a friend. I stopped charging him. It was too awkward to charge. I told him, the situation is different now so I’m not charging you. It saved us both any difficulty. He remains a friend. 

I forgot to address the “discount” question you asked @Chihawks - in a way, you’re already getting a “discount” in the sense that you’re not paying the gent’s hourly rate for the 48, 72, or 96 hours that make up your weekend. It’s a flat rate for the entire time - no extra upgrades or surprises. I would advise nailing down when the weekend time starts, and concludes. In my experience, once we’ve both arrived at the hotel should be when the “clock” starts. With a provider you already have an established relationship, connection with, this is all easily sorted. 

As a client who has engaged gents for weekends, and longer on occasion, I would echo everything @BenjaminNicholas said. 

Communication is the key to any successful engagement, regardless of length - but obviously more so with weekends, (or longer). Be clear on your expectations in terms of social interactions, (dining out, taking in a show, sightseeing, daytime activities, etc.), as well as your expectations in terms of intimacy, sleeping arrangements.

On an extended engagement, I do agree that the fee does mean the gent’s time is exclusively yours. Obviously, this is subject to any agreement you both may come to regarding three ways, and the like. But, even on his free/personal time, the gent should not be meeting other clients, period. But, given how handsome providers are, I’d caution you about one thing - flirting. If you’re out and about, lounging pool or beachside, etc., chances are other guys will talk, flirt with him. Don’t get upset if he chats, even flirts back. While some guys have no boundaries, your gent should let him know, in a no doubt charming way, he’s spoken for. 

Allowing for free/personal time is not something set in stone. Like Benjamin said, it can be all over the board. Some may require a couple of hours for the gym a day, and you yourself may require time alone to address your own personal business. Just talk to the gent so there’s no confusion. 

I would add one final recommendation - I would not recommend a weekend (or longer) with any gent you have not engaged previously, and that you have not had at least one overnight with. Personally, I believe you need the connection that comes from previous engagements, overnights in order to make a successful weekend or longer. Who wants to spend 1/2 a weekend figuring out each other’s likes, hot spots, etc.? 


Good luck, mate! Do report back on how it goes! 👍🏻
 
Cheers,
BBD 

1. Rate covers time.  You're also expected to pay for airfare (if flying him somewhere).  And yes, that rate should mean that his time is exclusive to you and only you (unless ya'll discuss otherwise).
2. The answer to this can be all over the board.  Just talk with your potential date and see what his personal time needs are.  For me, I hit the gym daily and that's a minimum of an hour.  It also gives me a chance to quickly make private calls and return any text messages.
3. My advice to an escort is don't give a client a discount if you're not going to also give them the usual 110%.

His OF had a post from earlier this month saying he was moving to Canada 

Yes, this is correct - there are two Blessed Boy's, the escort in NYC is NOT the one that is pictured above.
This is the escort in NYC that I met up with the last two  weeks: https://rentmen.eu/BlessedBoy
Feel free to reach out if you questions about any of these guys.  
It was an amazing 4-some and each guy has unique qualities. 
Blessed Boy is just a flat out STUD and fully versatile and is the pure definition of a grower!
Skinnyhungmj has a perfectly shaped straight dick who has a very devilish smile when he is doing his thing.  He really felt great when he was inside and showed me how much he can pound when he and Blessed Boy were busy.
Boy_xxxL is HUNG HUGE and can pound hole like a madman...that was where Blessed Boy stepped up to the plate as I was no way capable of taking that missile....but when it was me and Boy_xxxl he was very much aware of my limitations and went at a normal pace.
Great time had by all!  Lots of hot, sweaty sex, just like I wanted to experience and these three men were exceptional!
 

I met with these three guys last night and had a BLAST.
I highly recommend all three, especially if you really like HUNG tops.
Suffice it to say, it was my own live porno where I was as much of a participant as a voyeur...and it was an awesome show.
Kuddos to Blessed Boy as he was a trooper and his hole got wrecked.  

I’ve seen him in a Chicago bar.  I’d say he’s close to 60.  Nothing wrong with that, but just a heads up.  

IT SUCKS!!!

I’ve seen a few times where a bad review does get taken down, have heard from a few escorts that if they push hard enough the bad review will get taken down. This site for sure has been the best place to get accurate info!

Colten Barrett is super sexy and sweet, and also a great massage
https://rent.men/ColtenBarrett

That’s extremely unprofessional. If they are that late without a reasonable excuse and an apology then don’t hire them again. 
Unfortunately this industry does have a lot of amateur providers who seem to treat it as a hobby and mess their clients around. 

Welcome, Mr. Quinn.