ShyBi95

I'm curious how much $ you wasted on an abusive boyfriend experience .

His profile (now under Connorquinnxxx and based in NYC) should have been the warning signs.  The pic of him in a Hustler shirt, his interview where he says he works in theater...  I met him through somebody else so the first time I met him was for an overnight.  I don't normally do that, but the overnight was was good.
The next time I saw him was for a weekend where I traveled out to him/stayed with him, was a complete disaster.  Despite talking about and agreeing to the things I wanted from the weekend (boyfriend experience, cuddling, being vers), he didn't deliver on any of it.  He wasn't into being affectionate and definitely not into the boyfriend experience, despite saying he gives the absolute BFE.
The cherry on top was the last night, where he disappeared for over 5 hours.  He was very hard to get in contact with during that time, which come to find out was because he went to see another client during that time.  We never talked about that being OK.  I ended up leaving and booking a hotel for my last night in NYC.  He is all about manipulation and games.  I tried to talk to him about what happened, but he kept trying to gaslight me into thinking this was somehow all my fault.  For his rate, definitely not worth the chaos.
https://rent.men/connorquinnxxx

His profile (now under Connorquinnxxx and based in NYC) should have been the warning signs.  The pic of him in a Hustler shirt, his interview where he says he works in theater...  I met him through somebody else so the first time I met him was for an overnight.  I don't normally do that, but the overnight was was good.
The next time I saw him was for a weekend where I traveled out to him/stayed with him, was a complete disaster.  Despite talking about and agreeing to the things I wanted from the weekend (boyfriend experience, cuddling, being vers), he didn't deliver on any of it.  He wasn't into being affectionate and definitely not into the boyfriend experience, despite saying he gives the absolute BFE.
The cherry on top was the last night, where he disappeared for over 5 hours.  He was very hard to get in contact with during that time, which come to find out was because he went to see another client during that time.  We never talked about that being OK.  I ended up leaving and booking a hotel for my last night in NYC.  He is all about manipulation and games.  I tried to talk to him about what happened, but he kept trying to gaslight me into thinking this was somehow all my fault.  For his rate, definitely not worth the chaos.
https://rent.men/connorquinnxxx

His profile (now under Connorquinnxxx and based in NYC) should have been the warning signs.  The pic of him in a Hustler shirt, his interview where he says he works in theater...  I met him through somebody else so the first time I met him was for an overnight.  I don't normally do that, but the overnight was was good.
The next time I saw him was for a weekend where I traveled out to him/stayed with him, was a complete disaster.  Despite talking about and agreeing to the things I wanted from the weekend (boyfriend experience, cuddling, being vers), he didn't deliver on any of it.  He wasn't into being affectionate and definitely not into the boyfriend experience, despite saying he gives the absolute BFE.
The cherry on top was the last night, where he disappeared for over 5 hours.  He was very hard to get in contact with during that time, which come to find out was because he went to see another client during that time.  We never talked about that being OK.  I ended up leaving and booking a hotel for my last night in NYC.  He is all about manipulation and games.  I tried to talk to him about what happened, but he kept trying to gaslight me into thinking this was somehow all my fault.  For his rate, definitely not worth the chaos.
https://rent.men/connorquinnxxx

@BenjaminNicholas - I didn't think of that before, but yes... Very ironic and fitting - a pictures does say 1000 words!

I had been talking with him for a little bit after this happened - but it became clear in that time he's all about manipulation, gaslighting, and games.  None of what he told me was sincere or the truth in the time I talked to him after seeing him.  The guy that I was asking about in the original post/where this situation happened was Connor Quinn (connorquinnxxx).  We talked about what I wanted for the weekend and he had agreed to it all, most of which is stuff he says that is he OK with not only in his into section but the about me.  None of it was out of the ordinary or any kind of crazy request - cuddling, boyfriend experience, and a few role plays (non of which were extreme).  He delivered on almost none of what we talked about and as I said above, disappeared for 5 hours the last night to go see another client.  He was nearly impossible to get a hold of during that time he was away, so ended up leaving his apt (as he had agreed to host for the weekend) and booked a hotel for my last night in town. 
https://rent.men/connorquinnxxx

Sorry you had to deal with all of that. 

And based on your experience, perhaps this pic of Conner is just a little too on-the-nose...

How to handle a rude escort🤔 =
Don't hire him.😘
 

Love these categorisations of people. In the Venn diagram of gay body types I believe the overlap of the Twink circle with the Jock / athlete circle is where “Twunks” live. 
And I never understand sex workers who don’t kiss but will do everything else. I kiss, it’s extremely difficult not to kiss when you’re doing things properly. Maybe I’m just very oral? Babies like to explore with their mouth…everything goes in their mouth. I think my baby instincts in that respect are still with me 😂

Aren't both of those the whole point of an "overnight" ?

Exactly.
Fantasies aren't reality.
Only Disney ( and most guys on Rentmasseur) guarantee a happy ending.

I think relationships can be a little more complex than just transactional over time and that any idea of emotional attachment should not be so quickly dismissed. But from the sound of it you're developing feelings for multiple guys very quickly which seems pretty unsustainable.

Because he's a good masseur.
 

I noticed that too in the rent.men v6.0, but for me it was random rather than replacing the text every time. It hasn't been happening for me in the Beta of v7.0. The new version also tells you the time the activity occurred (and in local time if I'm reading it correctly).

Met him tonight,  incredibly nice and talented guy. Would definitely recommend and repeat. Great Italian accent as well 

I had a recent experience with him in Chicago and it was great.

Def agree need to normalize. I’d say it’s more friendly vs friends. We chat outside of bookings but aren’t doing trips or hanging out as friends outside of the bookings.  And thank god he didn’t take the friends pay double approach @KeepItReal 🤣🤣

Been there. Done that. Don’t do it. Adopt a dog. 

I'm a top
but
That's probably because I only had sex with girls when I was in my teens ..so my brain always thinks penetration is the goal.
that said...
When I did start going with guys I started with older men who always wanted to fuck me. So I let them even though it wasn't really my thing. I do like pleasing my partner.
Now that I'm older I have zero interest in older men and only meet with younger guys who want "daddy" to take the lead. So I am always on top.
My only bottom desire is to be in the middle of a threeway with two muscular men. No idea why my brain suddenly coverts me into a cum rag for that single fetish, but it does make me want it more than with any other type of sexual encounter.
 

Yes the preparation is the hassle. It’s easier to top. Preparation can add an hour to the time needed. I hate to be anxious about not being clear down there so I try to be thorough in preparing. 

Good tops know how to bottom. 

He is vers, I have seen him a number of times and he always bottomed.  He is open to top, but the session has to be 1 or the other.  He won't flip during a session.  He moved away from Chicago, it looks like he is only doing this while he travels.  He has been back to Chicago a few times this summer, just haven't been able to get schedules to line up when he is in town.

Tyler's been around for a while...( so have those photos.) At minimum, I would say these are pre-pandemic so from at least two or three years old.
 

I had the same experience with him years ago. He was super-energetic & then suddenly crashed into a deep sleep. Couldn't wake him. It was sad, bevause I could have taken all he had. 

Money can make you hard, especially depending on your need!