shay Posted May 6, 2022 Share Posted May 6, 2022 Has anyone had experience? https://rentmasseur.com/BoiNextDoor Wanderoz, KV65GEN, Bluefin and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bichiguy Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 3 hours ago, Jmore said: I almost had an experience last night…it turned out quite badly. I texted and we made arrangements. He then asked me to tell him a little about myself. I told him my age and, apparently, he doesn’t like older guys. When I got to the lobby of his building, he ghosted me. I sat there 20 minutes waiting, because at first, I thought he wasn’t ready for me. As it turns out, he was never giving me the apartment number because, I guess, I wasn’t young enough. How do I know this? I contacted him from a different phone and said I was younger. Heard right back and he was ready for me to come right up. Everyone has preferences. I get that. I’m ok with that. But don’t have me drive to your building and then ghost me. Be an adult and say you are not interested if that is the case. Feel free to DM for more details. https://rentmasseur.com/BoiNextDoor ugh what bs - sorry you went through that. Love your detective work though. I've been told I look 10 years younger then I am but who cares, you book a client you get what you get. Send him a note asking if he's in better shape then those pics he has posted lol + ButchAtl, Jmore, KyleGA and 3 others 3 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
claym Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 You took one for us all. Thanks for the forewarning. KyleGA, + NYCVers89, + ButchAtl and 3 others 1 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jmore Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 14 hours ago, bichiguy said: ugh what bs - sorry you went through that. Love your detective work though. I've been told I look 10 years younger then I am but who cares, you book a client you get what you get. Send him a note asking if he's in better shape then those pics he has posted lol It turns out it was miscommunication on my part. He is open to everyone and about the nicest guy (if not the hottest) you could ever find. Don’t hesitate to see him. And don’t jump to conclusions like I did! bichiguy, Mike87 and + Vegas_Millennial 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jmore Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 15 hours ago, claym said: You took one for us all. Thanks for the forewarning. It turns out it was miscommunication on my part. He is open to everyone and about the nicest guy (if not the hottest) you could ever find. Don’t hesitate to see him. And don’t jump to conclusions like I did! bichiguy and Mike87 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonedoc Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 Could you explain more? Did you contact him and he agreed to see you? What was the explanation. claym 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Vespa Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 He ghosted me twice. Don't bother. Go read one of his reviews on RM, similar experience. KyleGA 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonedoc Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 He must have reviewed the negative reviews as there are now 7 five star reviews only. Wanderoz, claym, bichiguy and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jmore Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 13 hours ago, Bonedoc said: Could you explain more? Did you contact him and he agreed to see you? What was the explanation. We’ve talked extensively. The miscommunication was on my part. He’s a nice guy who has made up for it. I wouldn’t hesitate to see him. Mike87 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4same Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 I had a great experience with him. Looking forward to seeing him again some time. claym, + Vegas_Millennial, KV65GEN and 3 others 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chads Posted May 21, 2022 Share Posted May 21, 2022 Met him tonight, incredibly nice and talented guy. Would definitely recommend and repeat. Great Italian accent as well Jmore, InChiTown, claym and 4 others 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ dctraveler Posted May 28, 2022 Share Posted May 28, 2022 On 5/21/2022 at 12:09 AM, Chads said: Met him tonight, incredibly nice and talented guy. Would definitely recommend and repeat. Great Italian accent as well This is encouraging to hear. I reached out to him to tell him that I look forward to his dc visit next month. Turns out he is already booked 2 of the 5 days of his trip and he encouraged me to book my appointment now in advance so I did. Many masseurs are horrible at handling business end of things but not Fabio. I am really looking forward to my massage with him. Mike87 and Wanderoz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike87 Posted July 19, 2022 Share Posted July 19, 2022 I met Fabio in San Francisco today, it was an amazing experience!! He was very open to conversation even before we met, which is unique for a masseuse in my experience. He looks even better than his pictures, in my opinion, and you could definitely feel that he is a certified massage therapist 🤤 will definitely see him again if he is back in town KV65GEN, Chads and InChiTown 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KV65GEN Posted August 25, 2022 Share Posted August 25, 2022 Hey boys, anyone had recent experience with him in Chicago? He seems to have solid reviews but I rather triple check before reaching out to him. Mike87 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m4same Posted August 25, 2022 Share Posted August 25, 2022 4 hours ago, KV65GEN said: Hey boys, anyone had recent experience with him in Chicago? He seems to have solid reviews but I rather triple check before reaching out to him. I had a recent experience with him in Chicago and it was great. ShyBi95 and KV65GEN 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KV65GEN Posted August 25, 2022 Share Posted August 25, 2022 1 hour ago, m4same said: I had a recent experience with him in Chicago and it was great. Awesome, are you able to elaborate on the type of session? even by DM if it's not allowed oh here, sorry i am new to the site Mike87 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KyleGA Posted May 12, 2023 Share Posted May 12, 2023 On 5/18/2022 at 12:21 AM, John Vespa said: He ghosted me twice. Don't bother. Go read one of his reviews on RM, similar experience. Similar experience here. Tried a few times since November to schedule a session with him. On a couple occasions we had found a time that worked when he was showing available on the site, only for him to cancel on me a few hours before the session was supposed to start. The last time I tried to schedule with Fabio, I suggested another date to avoid being squeezed in between several sessions he already had booked & for the shortened length of the massage he proposed. When I suggested another date, he became ill tempered in his responses. InChiTown 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ dctraveler Posted May 12, 2023 Share Posted May 12, 2023 6 minutes ago, KyleGA said: Similar experience here. Tried a few times since November to schedule a session with him. On a couple occasions we had found a time that worked when he was showing available on the site, only for him to cancel on me a few hours before the session was supposed to start. The last time I tried to schedule with Fabio, I suggested another date to avoid being squeezed in between several sessions he already had booked & for the shortened length of the massage he proposed. When I suggested another date, he became ill tempered in his responses. Sucks that a few of you guys had scheduling issues with Fabio. He has a full time job and does massage as a side gig hence his limited availability. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wanderoz Posted May 12, 2023 Share Posted May 12, 2023 Previous link doesn’t work for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KyleGA Posted May 12, 2023 Share Posted May 12, 2023 22 minutes ago, dctraveler said: Sucks that a few of you guys had scheduling issues with Fabio. He has a full time job and does massage as a side gig hence his limited availability. Completely understand that - but why put available if you aren't? And I don't get the incredibly rude response when I suggested another date - no idea his situation and was just trying to respect his time/find another time that worked. @Wanderoz - looks like he changed his name to BoyNexxtDoor BoyNexxtDoor on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ dctraveler Posted May 12, 2023 Share Posted May 12, 2023 2 minutes ago, KyleGA said: Completely understand that - but why put available if you aren't? And I don't get the incredibly rude response when I suggested another date - no idea his situation and was just trying to respect his time/find another time that worked. @Wanderoz - looks like he changed his name to BoyNexxtDoor BoyNexxtDoor on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com I haven't the slightest clue either. My wild guess, based on the busy full time work schedule he told me, is that he gets more bookings than he can handle during his massage appointment opening hours - that may force him to get short with people during text correspondence and I am not saying that is an excusable reason to communicate with you the way he did. Just a wild guess so who knows what the real reason is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chads Posted May 12, 2023 Share Posted May 12, 2023 I've had a great experience with hi m and think he's a nice guy. Love his accent. He is not an American native by the way. Italian is his mother tongue, which he uses quite well by the way 😉 Italians can be quite direct when they speak and tone can definitely be misunderstood via text messages. Personally I think he's worth the experience. Since he doesn't do this full time and is of demand his schedule can be a bit difficult. claym 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShyBi95 Posted May 13, 2023 Share Posted May 13, 2023 (edited) I met Fabio last year and to start the sessions we had were fine. The last few months, I experienced a similar situation to @KyleGA where he would cancel sessions last minute despite us confirming before hand. Things come up and completely understand he has a day job, but for as frequently as this occurred it seems unprofessional. Even had a session that I showed up and he completely ghosted me as he didn't answer his door/phone, he had fallen asleep. The last session, while he said he was OK to do it and wasn't tired from work, only did 60 minutes vs. the 90 minutes we agreed to. While things started off fine as I said, the more I saw him and got to know him outside of the sessions, can say there is a whole different side to the "sweet and kind" Fabio I first met. His profile has several inaccuracies, only thing I'll say here (feel free to DM) is that he is not on PrEP as he says. I only say that as it's relevant to some of the extras he offers with his sessions. Edited May 14, 2023 by ShyBi95 Shy88 and KyleGA 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy88 Posted May 14, 2023 Share Posted May 14, 2023 I had a similar experience described by @KyleGA and @ShyBi95 . When I first met him, he was responsive and communicative. The first session went fine and went to schedule another session. Leading up to the next session he wasn't as responsive. I tried a few times to confirm and he never responded back. It still happened, but he shortened the session. I scheduled it to be 90 minutes. However, an hour in he stopped and told me that he had another client coming in 20 minutes. I didn't raise the issue cause I didn't want the drama at the time. I was supposed to have another session. However, when I checked to confirm, he texted that he didn't want to hold anymore sessions with me. I was a bit confused. I thought I said or did something that was insulting. I tried asking him and he wouldn't say. There's a bit more and you can message me about that if you want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VersOral Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 On 5/11/2023 at 9:49 PM, dctraveler said: I haven't the slightest clue either. My wild guess, based on the busy full time work schedule he told me, is that he gets more bookings than he can handle during his massage appointment opening hours - that may force him to get short with people during text correspondence and I am not saying that is an excusable reason to communicate with you the way he did. Just a wild guess so who knows what the real reason is. Two apology/excuses for him in an hour? I can see speaking up for someone you've had a good experience with but, that seems excessive. I'll never book with someone whom multiple people report back on being rude and unprofessional. Too many providers out there post they're available when they aren't. There's no need to be rude to potential clients when at work, and not available for services they advertise. ShyBi95 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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