When I visited India in 2019, I went to a deluxe hotel in New Delhi. My first night there, I used Scruff and met a guy around my age (50s.) He asked if I would be willing to have a 3-way including his friend. I agreed. I knew nothing about this new guy, but I was willing to take a chance. About 15 minutes before we were supposed to meet, I received a message from my contact saying that traffic was too slow and the he was heading back home. So now I was set to meet a total stranger. It actually worked out well. He was friendly and attractive looking, and though it was awkward at first, we had a good time. Who would have guessed? Sometimes being flexible and taking a small risk pays off.