Dr.Daddy
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in 411 on Ramon in San Diego *new listing*
Street Parking was 2 hours free and easy to find in the middle of the day, setup was a table in a studio apartment. There was a dog too, he was very behaved and went away into the bathroom during the session. The table was wide and nice. Everything was very clean, with lots of beautiful plants around the house. Much nicer than many of the San Diego apartments I’ve found myself in on these types of adventures lol!
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Dr.Daddy reacted to harlow in Raj- Fort Lauderdale
Seems to have a lot of 5 star reviews but I still value to opinion of the forum members over anything else
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from Midtownm4m in WILL_NYC
Drew is busy in his business that’s doing very well. They’re together and happy but not doing 4-hand rn.
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from Midtownm4m in WILL_NYC
I saw him again this week before he leaves San Diego to head up to Huntington Beach and LA this weekend. He mentioned he’ll visit east coast cities soon, so hit him up for his NYC dates @BrklynNYC & @Jack Vernon
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from Midtownm4m in WILL_NYC
Will is traveling solo now - he’s in San Diego this week. Saw him on his own and he gave me the best deep tissue massage I’ve had in years. We had so much fun too. He’s gorgeous and has a really sweet demeanor. I wondered if it would be just as fun one-on-one, and I was blown away by what a great session we had. Highly recommend!
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Dr.Daddy reacted to + Jamie21 in 1 year independent, hit a wall with client retention & mark
20% retention rate isn’t bad. You’ve only been going a year, needs longer. It takes ages to build a regular client base.
You say you use a script post session. I wouldn’t do that. A script feels like a hard sell. Have a few messages you’d like to get over but do it in a personal way that is tuned towards the client. You need to get to know them at a more personal level. My guess is they feel ‘sold to’ and massage (whatever the style) is a very personal one to one service. Make it so they feel you see them as a whole person not another client. Contact them after the session to see how the session improved their pain (tell them you’ll do a follow up call in a week or so and are they ok with that?). You’ll get re bookings on those calls (but don’t force it).
Also I think offering a one hour session is a good idea. People want to try you out before committing to a longer session. You could do the 1 hour and then offer the next 90m at a reduced rate. That reduces the barrier of the unknown for them and gives them the full experience at a reduced cost. Once you build in them the habit of coming back they’ll come back more.
Business courses aren’t the place to learn this stuff. Learn it by doing. Ask the 20% of customers who do come back why they do so. Ask all your customers how they found you and what made them book. Listen to your customers. The answers are there , not in a business course. That would be a waste of money and time.
Basically the number one rule is know who your customer is, understand what they want, and give it to them in a way that is satisfying but leaves space for more. In everything think of your customer first. You don’t go wrong if you think about who they are and what they want. Oh and whilst you’ll get great advice on business on here from successful providers (☺️) your client base is unlikely to be on here….
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Dr.Daddy reacted to mrkileen in *DylanRyn in San Diego (Carlsbad) - most likely scam
You're really bored aren't you?
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Dr.Daddy reacted to FLJock in Gianluccahuff in San Diego
Maybe they meant average rate for a hot guy?
He’s based out of S Florida and I’ve passed on him because of his price. Guys that look like that and charge that much generally do not deliver down here.
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Dr.Daddy reacted to AndyHouse in Men's Wellness Spot in San Diego
The table shower scrub is an amazing, sensuous experience. It’s as good as the massage that comes after. The feeling of warm water cascading over your body combined with hands gliding over your soapy slick body is best described as blissful and erotic. Face down, the masseur’s hands slide from your shoulders, down your back over your calves to your feet in wave after wave; top to bottom/bottom to top. On the way from your back to legs, a hand gently slides between your cheeks. Face up, it’s the same gliding of hands chest, stomach, legs and feet with just a bit of teasing, lite stroking and fondling along the way. It’s not enough to push you over the edge, but enough that the desire builds in intensity as a prelude to the massage. You gotta give it a try. It’s a whole different sensation than the massage.
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from AndyHouse in Men's Wellness Spot in San Diego
Did a 90 min with Tony and the massage was phenomenal. He seems older than Nae or Michael. I don’t know who Andrew is yet. Apparently there’s a Tom and a Steven too. They need a roster with pics!
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Dr.Daddy reacted to MassageCommunityMember in EmbodiedFlow in San Diego *NEW as of 3/17/26*
Honestly same - I’d rather drive to La Mesa
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from msenge in 411 MichaelBruce San Jose/SFO/Seattle
Tried him out, he’s cute but wouldn’t recommend. The massage was good (deep tissue, nice lotion) but the extras weren’t so fun. Bad hotel with lots of noise and his phone dinging the entire time. Who knows, YMMV 🤷♂️
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from domonkasshu160 in Caring Bodywork by Alexandre in San Diego
Took the plunge; he’s a cute 27 Mexican guy. Lives with roommates and the setup is less than ideal so I had a bad feeling from the start. He has a very sweet personality so we ended up getting along well, but he clearly has no training. His roommate actually came home during our massage so I tried to end it early (and we had quite a laugh), but in the end I think we dubbed the session comically bad. Unfortunately, I wouldn’t recommend this sweet newbie.
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Dr.Daddy reacted to SDWorldTraveler in 411 on Garett in San Diego
I contacted Garrett yesterday afternoon, and he responded almost immediately by text. He seemed very professional and super friendly. We made an appointment for yesterday evening, which I appreciated on short notice because I had just returned from a long trip.
Has a very nice massage studio/ADU at the side of his house, which was very well appointed and welcoming for massage. He greeted me with a big smile and a super friendly attitude. He offered me restroom, shower if I needed it, which I declined. He asked if I wanted to be draped or not and I declined. His massage is light pressure. He asks continuously throughout the massage if the pressure needs to be increased or decreased and as I told him, I just wanted a very nice light Swedish relaxation massage he was able to accommodate that. It is definitely quite intimate and sensual. During a massage, I realized he was naked and welcomed mutual touch. He has a very gentle and loving demeanor and an overall great experience. Definitely would see him again.
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from BuzzLiteQueer in SDMuscleMassage in San Diego
Has anyone seen him as an escort and asked for a massage lol
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from Truance in Gentlemany
This was a ton of fun! I went with sensual for 180 but think next time I’ll do erotic for 250 cause we had a great vibe. Massage was decent and extras were wonderful. He’s very sexy, sweet, and vers!
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Dr.Daddy reacted to Sissytwink in AlphaRick from Anaheim, visiting San Diegl *new ad 4/12/26*
I am on my way to go see him. I will let you know how the session goes.
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Dr.Daddy reacted to BigDMike in Men's Wellness Spot in San Diego
I too have been. Got the king package....started out in the Jacuzzi...then had a scrub then massage. The jacuzzi "assistance" and then the ever engaging scrub and drying afterwards before the massage were all very spicy....then the massage finished happy. I want to say the guy was named "andrew"
Have Fun and check out Humanity next door for great gay shopping and some fun gear
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Dr.Daddy reacted to ChismeDaddy69 in Men's Wellness Spot in San Diego
Has anyone tried the 4 hand massage experience and if so would you recommend?
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Dr.Daddy reacted to MK1 in Men's Wellness Spot in San Diego
Has anyone tried their 4 hand massage? Is it worth it? Appreciate any info
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Dr.Daddy got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in Men's Wellness Spot in San Diego
Did a 90 min with Tony and the massage was phenomenal. He seems older than Nae or Michael. I don’t know who Andrew is yet. Apparently there’s a Tom and a Steven too. They need a roster with pics!