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    Dr.Daddy reacted to musclvr in 411 on TwohandsofGod in San Diego   
    Posting to bump and confirm what Dr.Daddy and ReynST wrote previously. See Gerrod for an excellent therapeutic massage and some sensual. Go elsewhere if you're looking for the reverse of that.
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to LB2 in Hire Someone you Know?   
    It was pretty fantastic. Being acquainted helped with some of the awkwardness of meeting what’s usually a stranger. He was so warm and welcoming and we had a ton of fun together:). I did give him an out if he felt uncomfortable but he was totally fine with it. 
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to Mark_fl in Hire Someone you Know?   
    I think it would have to be awkward. Do all your mutual acquaintances know you're both attracted to men? Do they know one of you hires sex workers? Do they know onenof you IS a swx worker? Do you want your provider to know where you live?
    Yes, it may be a turn-on to be with someone you didn't know was available to you, but I would find it more stressful than erotic, especially after the fact.
    Easy pass. 
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to jeezifonly in Hire Someone you Know?   
    Be comfortable with the notion that details of your anatomy and intimate yucks and yums may be shared with mutuals. So long as it's nowhere near a connection to worklife, it's harmless for these folks to have certain pictures in their heads you may not know about...
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to + purplekow in Hire Someone you Know?   
    Years ago, I hired an escort on the recommendation of an agency.  When the escort showed up at the door we soon recognized each other as his being a friend of on of my employees.  I had admired his ass-ets and his general appearance and it had been several years since we had seen each other.  When he realized that we knew each other, I asked if he was okay going ahead with it and he said he was if I was.  We met and then met every month or so for many years.  
    My advice is to just go for it.  You may have more in common than just a casual passing acquaintance and if you are attracted, then why hesistate?
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to + PhileasFogg in Hire Someone you Know?   
    Go for it!   Personally, I’d Be full in disclosure upfront and confirm he’s ok before you show up. 
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to BeHappy in How to ask about teeth   
    You could always pay for his dental work!
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to Nue2thegame in How to ask about teeth   
    I usually start my sessions with the line, “I’m here to fill a cavity “. It opens the door to several possibilities. 
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to Nikoxx in 411 on DomLeoAfterDark   
    So I went against my better judgment and had a session with Leo despite the lack of references here, and boy was it a let down. He’s definitely the guy pictured, but the photos are dated and his body is nowhere near what he put forward in his profile.
     
    I was torn because he was very sweet and fairly  handsome. But in the end I just couldn’t get into it as the bait and switch really put me off, so I cut it short. Lesson learned. 
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to JeffSD in Men's Wellness Spot in San Diego   
    Decided to try this place out yesterday. I booked a 105-minute Emperor's package. It went closer to 2 hours. I paid $170. The booking was all done by SMS on my phone. Once I locked in the package type and start time, I asked them who my masseur would be. They sent me these photos and asked me to pick one. I picked Nae because it says he does Thai-style, which I really like. He was not afraid to get his fingers all up in everywhere...and inside everywhere. (When he first slipped a finger in, he stopped and asked: "Is this OK?" Which I thought was really nice.)
    Towards the end of the massage part (while still face down), he started to do some reach arounds and caressing between my legs. He was getting me really aroused. Then he flipped me over and took his time to finish me off. 
    The best part was that after the HE, it wasn't over. He kept going with some more Thai-style stretching and neck massage. 
    The whole experience was very much worth the price paid!
     
     


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    Dr.Daddy got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in 411 on Ramon in San Diego *new listing*   
    Street Parking was 2 hours free and easy to find in the middle of the day, setup was a table in a studio apartment. There was a dog too, he was very behaved and went away into the bathroom during the session. The table was wide and nice. Everything was very clean, with lots of beautiful plants around the house. Much nicer than many of the San Diego apartments I’ve found myself in on these types of adventures lol! 
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to harlow in Raj- Fort Lauderdale   
    Seems to have a lot of 5 star reviews but I still value to opinion of the forum members over anything else
     
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    Dr.Daddy got a reaction from Saabster in WILL_NYC   
    Drew is busy in his business that’s doing very well. They’re together and happy but not doing 4-hand rn. 
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    Dr.Daddy got a reaction from Midtownm4m in WILL_NYC   
    Drew is busy in his business that’s doing very well. They’re together and happy but not doing 4-hand rn. 
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    Dr.Daddy got a reaction from ShyBi95 in WILL_NYC   
    Drew is busy in his business that’s doing very well. They’re together and happy but not doing 4-hand rn. 
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    Dr.Daddy got a reaction from Wanderoz in WILL_NYC   
    Drew is busy in his business that’s doing very well. They’re together and happy but not doing 4-hand rn. 
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    Dr.Daddy got a reaction from Midtownm4m in WILL_NYC   
    I saw him again this week before he leaves San Diego to head up to Huntington Beach and LA this weekend. He mentioned he’ll visit east coast cities soon, so hit him up for his NYC dates @BrklynNYC & @Jack Vernon
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    Dr.Daddy got a reaction from Midtownm4m in WILL_NYC   
    Will is traveling solo now - he’s in San Diego this week. Saw him on his own and he gave me the best deep tissue massage I’ve had in years. We had so much fun too. He’s gorgeous and has a really sweet demeanor. I wondered if it would be just as fun one-on-one, and I was blown away by what a great session we had. Highly recommend! 
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to + Jamie21 in ​1 year independent, hit a wall with client retention & mark   
    20% retention rate isn’t bad. You’ve only been going a year, needs longer. It takes ages to build a regular client base.
    You say you use a script post session. I wouldn’t do that. A script feels like a hard sell. Have a few messages you’d like to get over but do it in a personal way that is tuned towards the client. You need to get to know them at a more personal level. My guess is they feel ‘sold to’ and massage (whatever the style) is a very personal one to one service. Make it so they feel you see them as a whole person not another client. Contact them after the session to see how the session improved their pain (tell them you’ll do a follow up call in a week or so and are they ok with that?). You’ll get re bookings on those calls (but don’t force it). 
    Also I think offering a one hour session is a good idea. People want to try you out before committing to a longer session. You could do the 1 hour and then offer the next 90m at a reduced rate. That reduces the barrier of the unknown for them and gives them the full experience at a reduced cost. Once you build in them the habit of coming back they’ll come back more. 
    Business courses aren’t the place to learn this stuff. Learn it by doing. Ask the 20% of customers who do come back why they do so. Ask all your customers how they found you and what made them book. Listen to your customers. The answers are there , not in a business course. That would be a waste of money and time. 
    Basically the number one rule is know who your customer is, understand what they want, and give it to them in a way that is satisfying but leaves space for more. In everything think of your customer first. You don’t go wrong if you think about who they are and what they want. Oh and whilst you’ll get great advice on business on here from successful providers (☺️) your client base is unlikely to be on here….
     
     
  20. Surprised
    Dr.Daddy reacted to mrkileen in *DylanRyn in San Diego (Carlsbad) - most likely scam   
    You're really bored aren't you?
  21. Agree
    Dr.Daddy reacted to FLJock in Gianluccahuff in San Diego   
    Maybe they meant average rate for a hot guy? 
     
    He’s based out of S Florida and I’ve passed on him because of his price.  Guys that look like that and charge that much generally do not deliver down here.  
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    Dr.Daddy reacted to AndyHouse in Men's Wellness Spot in San Diego   
    The table shower scrub is an amazing, sensuous experience. It’s as good as the massage that comes after.  The feeling of warm water cascading over your body combined with hands gliding over your soapy slick body is best described as blissful and erotic.  Face down, the masseur’s hands slide from your shoulders, down your back over your calves to your feet in wave after wave; top to bottom/bottom to top. On the way from your back to legs, a hand gently slides between your cheeks. Face up, it’s the same gliding of hands chest, stomach, legs and feet with just a bit of teasing, lite stroking and fondling along the way. It’s not enough to push you over the edge, but enough that the desire builds in intensity as a prelude to the massage. You gotta give it a try. It’s a whole different sensation than the massage.

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    Dr.Daddy got a reaction from AndyHouse in Men's Wellness Spot in San Diego   
    Did a 90 min with Tony and the massage was phenomenal. He seems older than Nae or Michael. I don’t know who Andrew is yet. Apparently there’s a Tom and a Steven too. They need a roster with pics! 
  24. Agree
    Dr.Daddy reacted to MassageCommunityMember in EmbodiedFlow in San Diego *NEW as of 3/17/26*   
    Honestly same - I’d rather drive to La Mesa
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    Dr.Daddy got a reaction from MikeW in 411 MichaelBruce San Jose/SFO/Seattle   
    Tried him out, he’s cute but wouldn’t recommend. The massage was good (deep tissue, nice lotion) but the extras weren’t so fun. Bad hotel with lots of noise and his phone dinging the entire time. Who knows, YMMV 🤷‍♂️ 
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