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Speaking of ages, one of my favorite guys had a birthday today so I texted him a birthday greeting (he was soooo appreciative I remembered). The guy has been advertising as 32 for as long as I can remember from my first hiring of him (2019) and I've noticed when I'm with him he's really been aging - in his face and his body (especially his chest, though he works out regularly). I've guessed him to be close to 50. When he was in town a few weeks ago, we had a conversation about what he did before escorting (he's a very well-educated guy). Turns out he went to college in my state, studid pharmacy, then graduated and got his masters in pharmacy to be a pharmacist. So that's 6 years of education, which brings him to 24. Said he was a pharmacist for 15 years in a hospital (that takes him to 39 years old) left that job and became a pharmaceutical rep for two years (41) and then started this in 2019. So he's 47, or more accurately - 48 today. I was right (and I don't think he realized I was doing the math in my head). And he still advertises as 32.

When they don't treat their service as a business profession the way I treat their service. When I reach out to them (always in a professional, polite manner), I always let them know I'm interested in an appointment with them, but need to know what their hourly rate is, and where are they staying in my city (there are some hotels in some areas I simply won't go to, for different reasons). Once they answer those two questions (and I'm still interested), I then ask when they have availability for that day / evening / tomorrow ? I believe I'm treating them kindly and professionally with the above texts. Some providers will answer the first two questions to my liking, so we move on to availability - again, they respond with a date and timeframe which can work with both our schedules. I can tell off the bat that they are professional, they take this seriously, and we're going to get along great. (It never fails). I schedule right away and 90% of the time I become a 'repeat'. AND when I do see them, by the end of the appointment, I always complimnt them on their professionalism - from their very first text. These guys seem very appreciative of this compliment. But then there are those who answer the first text (first two questions) with 'Hey' or 'Wassup?' I'll ask again about pricing and location, and they follow up with 'You wanna see me now ?" At that point, I know this guy is making money off a hobby, isn't taking this 'business' seriously, and things will get worse from there, no matter how hot his photos / descriptions are. The few times I went ahead and met with them, I left very disappointed. So at that point, I thank him for his time and let him know I changed my mind - it's not worth it.

"Dolly: The Musical", the long awaited musical biopic of country icon Dolly Parton is slated to open at the August Wilson Theater on B'way this spring, but those who have already seen the show in previews have some serious doubts. The show has opened in previews a couple of weeks ago for it's off-Broadway run at the Fisher Center in Nashville, ahead of its August 9 scheduled opening for a three-week limited engagement. Ticket prices for 'the first nine rows of orchestra' were priced at $295, with lower priced tix between $99 - $140 (again, these are 'Broadway ticket prices' for a 'work-in-progress' musical in Nashville -keep that in mind). There has been much public criticism over the ticket prices and the theater has responded by offering more 'lower price' tickets (especially since the word-of-mouth has been horrendous). Those who have seen the show said it's a 'disaster of Biblical times', a complete mess, and a 'wreck worse than the Titanic'. The show has a run time of over three hours, with Act 1 clocking in at 90 minutes (more recent reviews from this weekend said it's been cut to about 2 hours and 45 minutes; still too long for B'way). Those who have seen it said it feels more like a 'punishment' to fans rather than a tribute to Dolly. Another theater-goer said 'it doesn't know if it wants to be a concert or a musical biopic' as it keeps changing paths throughout the evening. The set design, costumes, lighting, and song catalog are all heavily criticized from those who have seen it (some are saying the show really focuses on Parton's early years of her career, and glosses over the past 40 years). Many say the show has no direction. Will it make it to B'way for the upcoming season ? That remains to be seen - the general consensus is that it need a ton of work, and it won't make it by March (it's proposed opening). Others feel the producers will skip B'way altogether, and send it to 'Dollywood' as another attraction for park attendees.

Ms. Billy Porter began his three month run as the 'Emcee' in the current revival of CABARET last week, and the box office dropped nearly in half. The musical, which has a weekly cost of just over $500K, saw the box office drop from $1,166,265 the week prior - the last week country crooner Orville Peck was in the role - to $648,886 for Porter's first week. (Marsha Wallace also joined the show as Sally, but Porter's name was supposed to be the big draw.) This was the lowest grossing week for the current revival since opening on April 21, 2024, with actor Eddie Redmayne as the 'Emcee'. ( Adam Lambert and Peck succeeded him in that order.) The show is scheduled to close on October 19, but many speculate if ticket sales don't improve with Porter in the role, it my be 'au revoir' to CABARET long before the announced closing date.

In one of the strangest moves in Broadway history, 'Izzy' has not brought down the final curtain yet. Jean Smart has returned, spending all her time sitting on stage as the poor woman can't stand on her legs too long with her injured knee. Audience capacity is at about 35-40% for the week. Producers are insisting the show must go on - through August 24.

Three evictions in, and two of the hot guys have already gotten evicted - 'Zae' and Adrian. Damn ! And Keanu is put on the block every damn week (but manages to get himself off). Overall, the season has been incredibly predictable which makes it incredibly slow.

For those who missed it, HBO has renewed the series for a fourth season this past Tuesday.

Can either of you elaborate ? What was his fee ? I noticed his ad says he's 28, but the tattoo across his chest in Roman numerals says 1989. So that makes him 36 these days (and by his photos, he's really not pulling off 28) . If he didn't live up to what was discussed, that's a deal breaker for me.

So I met with Vlad earlier this week. Cute guy, fun personality. Booked a one hour for $150, did tell me $200 was for erotic and explained what came with that - I opted for erotic. The massage started well, but about thirty minutes in he said I wasn't 'relaxed'. He told me to get off the table and move to the bed, for he felt I'd be more 'relaxed' on the bed. I did as I was told, and that was the end of the 'massage part' of my appointment and began the 'erotic' portion. Yes, I left very relaxed. The bed was a good move on his part. Would I repeat ? Possibly, but not right away. Please don't contact me for more details on my experience. The requests won't be answered. Thanks !

I have an appointment with him in about an hour. I've been hesitating with him, and I don't know why. But I decided to take the leap and he was available tonight. He was very pleasant and informative via text setting everything up. I must say, this blog he wrote a few weeks ago defining 'sensual massage' really caught my dick...I mean 'my eye' : Sensual massage 💆‍♀️ Jul 09 Sensual massage is a type of bodywork designed to heighten physical pleasure, intimacy, and relaxation through touch, often stimulating the senses beyond just the skin. While it focuses on creating a deeply pleasurable experience and can involve intimate body contact and arousal, its primary goal is usually to enhance emotional connection and sensory awareness rather than directly leading to ***ual intercourse or orgasm, though arousal is a common response.

May give him a spin when he visits later this week. Sexy man, and I wouldn't mind some MT with him and a HE from him. Funny, he's only on MF in my area, no ad on RMasseur. $150 for 30 mins $200 for 60 mins - this sounds like the better deal.

He's in my area this coming week and I almost reached out to him today to set up an appointment. THANKS EVERYONE FOR THIS CANDID INFORMATION ! You just made me dodge a bullet, no matter how hot and sexy that bullet looks.

AS I said in the post, I never really made conversation with him because I was too nervous / intimidated by his gorgeous looks. And what little convo we had was very generic - weather, business, changes in the neighborhood, etc. for all these years. I never thought of asking what team he played on, or if he had a family of his own - I just observed him for those five minutes or so, and felt my dick get bigger and bigger and bigger in my pants.

I still live in the house I was born in back in the early 60s. The neighborhood has gone through its series of changes over the past seven decades, but a few things remained the same...until this week. At the top of my street (which runs off a main street, though not too busy) sits a gas station which opened up in the 1950s, just when my neighborhood was being built up. It started out as an Esso Station, then changed to Exxon (in the 70s), then Texaco, then a 'no name' brand. Most of the houses surrounding it were built around the same time, and the building boom ended around the early 1970s, as there were no more empty lots to build on. I remember going to this gas station with my mom or dad as a toddler. It was owned by an Italian man who immigrated here in the 1920s when he was a baby, and he opened this station when he married. It has remained a 'full service station' ever since (never changed to self-serve) with a one-bay garage for very small mechanical work. Around 1975, when I was starting middle school, this guy had his son - a recent high school graduate - join him at the gas station. So I was around 11, and this guy had to be 18. I remember driving up in the passenger seat, and seeing this gorgous young man pump our gas, open the hood and change the oil, and then stretch across our windshield and wash the windows - usually with his 'uniform' unbuttoned and wide open. I still remember his wavy brown hair on his head, his mustache and light facial hair, and the light hair on his chest. I realized I was gay from the first day he waited on us. (And he was so friendly and polite to my parents). As I got older and learned to drive, I would always offer to fill up the tank each Saturday, knowing that 'Kenny' was working. So I'm in my late teens, he's in his 20s, and now fully matured into a man - complete with a full chest of hair and dazzling smile. In the hot summer months, he always wore his shirt opened or no shirt at all - showing off his beautiful sculpted chest / arms. I lost count on how many times I sprung a boner staring at him stretched across the windshield washing the glass bare-chested. I remember to fill the tank up then, it cost $15 and I would give him a $20 bill and tell him to 'keep the change' (my mom and dad told me it was nice to tip, but that was too much! I didn't care - it was my money from my part time job!). Kenny would always wink and smile, and say 'Thanks buddy ! See you next Saturday'. As we got older, Kenny aged like fine wine into his 30s, 40s, 50s - kept the handsome face, the hairy chest, the muscled body. (He looked very much like the Playgirl model Rock Pamplin in his 1970s spread.) The only difference was his wavy brown hair had a sprinkle of gray in it (including his chest) which made him all the more sexier to me. He'd make light conversation, but I was always too lost in his looks to respond - worried about the boner in my pants. My tongue would hang out whenever he stretched across the windshield and showed off his chest and muscled arms. (In the meantime, about 25 years ago, his dad passed unexpectedly, leaving him the business. That's when I stopped tipping him, when he became an owner.) I still go on a regular basis to get gas from him, especially in the summer. Now in my early 60s, I somehow found the courage to engage in conversation with him if he's talkative. The other day he broke my heart - said he's putting the business up for sale, as he's pushing 70 and is tired of pumping gas in the frigid cold winters. He plans on moving to Florida to be closer to his 'family' ( a sister and his nephews) in November. This is the first time in 50 years that Kenny actually killed my boner. And I didn't realize this gorgeous hunk never married, and never had kids. For the first time, I wondered the other day if he was possibly gay ? Damn! I could've offered more than a five dollar tip over the years ! So it's the end of an era in my neighborhood. I'm going to miss Kenny, his gorgeous smile, his beautiful body even at 70 (he could pass for early 50s). If I had enough guts, I'd ask him to shave some chest hair and put it in an envelope for me - to have as a keepsake. But I don't have the guts.

No, no loss of face for not being able to afford it at this time - it's business. But you don't have to let him know. That said, I would drop the 'Paying for your time....soon.' line. Just say, 'Currently, I'm pausing these luxuries for personal reasons. Once I'm ready to start again, you're at the top of my list to book an appointment."

Funny you say this - some people have said there was more merchandise for the show stocked up at the back of the theater than there were people sitting in the seats at most performances. No one bought anything at intermission or the end of the show - I guess this isn't a show they want to 'remember'.

Yes, but those dozen people you refer to can see it this Sunday at the matinee (where about 80% of seats are still unsold) and then the show can close. No need for it to limp along for another three weeks. Put this out of it's misery, and save MacDonald and the cast from further embarrassment.

Maybe that's why tickets aren't selling. At this point, why continue for the next few weeks ? They should shut this down ASAP. When they do close on August 17, it's expected to lose their entire $19M investment. It will fo down as one of the biggest flops for the 2024-25 season, as well as 'Gypsy' revivals (this is the fifth).

If anyone wants tickets to see GYPSY this Sunday afternoon, you're in luck ! As of right now, there's less than 100 seats sold. Back in June, Audra said she wouldn't be doing Sunday matinees once she returned from her vacation on July 8. Apparently, the closing notice has changed her mind as she was back this past Sunday.

I had a similar experience with a local masseur in the beginning of this year, right after Christmas. He was texting every five days or so, asking if I wanted to book an appointment for the coming week. I kept refusing him as I was very busy with work / life. I kept telling him "Sorry, but this week is crazy for me - I have no free time to schedule an appointment." Plus, I was trying to catch up on holiday debt, so I was cutting back on 'extras' for financial reasons. I repeatedly let him know that 'as soon as my schedule frees up' I would contact him. That didn't stop him. He kept reminding me of the 'importance' of a massage for my well-being (I always booked a $200 erotic with him, and always had a good time, so he had a point there...sort of). FINALLY, after nearly 2+ months of this, I responded "I agree - a weekly massage is beneficial for my overall well-being. However, I'm broke this week. If you're truly interested in my well-being, and you're willing to give me a free massage this week to keep me healthy, I'll take it ! Let me know what day and time, and I'll make it work." And that was the end of that. (I haven't heard from him since, and I've decided to take an extended break from him).

I checked and it's fine for me. I have heard from a number of providers that they have dropped their accounts from the site for a number of reasons - most popular is 'to save money' (I guess they are an unnecessary advertising expense). Other providers have said that it's not worth it since there are so many 'restrictions' on the site - from photos to text. Unless you're strictly therapeutic (with no wiggle room) and fully clothed throughout the appointment, MF is not for you (so I've been told). You can't even 'hint' in your texts that you offer erotic.

It means they're looking for stardom in Hollywood. If you're a movie producer, they're willing to do a personal 'screen test' just for you. 😜

I've met Diego a couple of times before my past appointments. Doesn't seem my type - he's a little too short for me (and not that attractive, IMO).

I've reached out a couple of times to him since his last visit to RI in the beginning of the year whenever I see he's traveling to CT. I ask him if he will be extending his travels back to RI, he answers 'Yes! Next week ' gives me dates and never shows. He did this in March, and he did this in May (he also thanks me for my patience). I've given up even though he's incredibly sexy.

You didn't remind him it was a 90 not a 60 on your last visit ? Also, were any 'extras' included ? Were you both nude ? PM me if you prefer. Thanks for the info, BTW !