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  1. When I have gone for interviews, the interviewer has the resume in hand. He/She may have reviewed other data, but the resume is still on the desk. Now I suppose there are Skype interviews and other than face to face interviews, but I have not done any of those.
  2. I would pay the going rate if the escort was a truly satisfying experience in each way. I would love to be considered as a regular and get a rate in accordance with that. After all, unlike a new client, I am not likely to not show, not pay or nor abuse the escort in some way. However, as I usually will ask an escort if he wants a meal or offer him a small gift, I might find those extras will be limited as I pay the increased rate,
  3. Like the ripped body of the millennial Jake, but there is something alluring about the 90's Jake and the way he sucked a dick in those videos, Brought me off the edge and onto 90s Jake team.
  4. Well Antonio, a few years ago, I sold my medical practice to a hospital with a contracted 2 year employment guarantee. Within those two years the hospital moved the practice twice. They mismanaged each of the moves, making it almost impossible for patients to find the practice. After three years, they c,losed the practice, leaving me unemployed. I started doing part time teaching at the local hospital and as a result, I ran into colleagues, one of whom advised me of a job. I interviewed and was offered the job in a temporary position with the proviso that they would look to find someone with more longterm potential. I took that job, which was always meant to be a stopgap and after eighteen months, they found the specialist they wanted to run the facility and eventually I was dismissed. (The new person lasted less than a year. Oh well.) I went back to the teaching position, which is paid but on an as needed basis. I volunteered to do as much time as they could give me, After, doing that for 16 months, I was offered a full time position, which I am considering. Long story even longer, I put myself out there, I made contacts, I let people know I was interested in full time work and I kept my eyes and ears open. In that time, I applied for several jobs, but despite promising interiews, none resulted in a job offer. I got better at interviewing and found that I needed to hone those skills which would help me excel at the interview. Also, on several of those job interviews and even at the two I landed, I decided to address the hidden agenda of ageism. I prepared for this and even though it is not legal to directly question about age, I made a point of bringing it up and I discussed why my age, experience, maturity and dependability far outweighed any perceived advantages of youth So there are jobs out there, You need to convince yourself of your worth before you can convince anyone else. Sit down, figure out why they should hire you and then do not be afraid to tell them. Apply, even if you do not think you are right for a job and use that to hone interviewing skills and development of confidence, Keep your ears open and recruit friends and colleagues to do the same. Find temporary employment, as the best testament to your ability is to have a job, Finally, you should consider jobs which are related but not directly in your usual area of expertise. In medicine, I did private practice. The jobs I got, involved hospital care of patients, teaching, administration and insurance management. Skills which were not my forte but areas of practice to which I brough a different prospective. Good luck. It may take time but do not get discouraged.
  5. Gazpacho. Pogo. Poach. Chop. Chap. Choochoo. Goop. Hoop. Pooch. Hooch. Coop. Coco. Cocoa. Achoo. Capo. Pooh. Poopoo. Poop. Agog. Opah. Cacao 21. But I doubt Poopoo and choochoo would be good, Googoo either for that matter, Opah is very common crossword puzzle word but that may not qualify here either,
  6. Immediately got gazpacho
  7. Only one I had to add to yours were Fell Fluff and Full. and Missed Uneventful as I though you said their were nineteen and stopped looking, Came up with unfelt by putting un in front of every word I had but did not do it to eventful as that was a pangram already, You should try the Sunday one, I have spent more than an hour on that looking for one word to get me to the finish,. They score that with good to excellent scale and they tell you how many you need to be excellent but they always have a few more. In that puzzle I have usually found offbeat words, technical words from medicine that they do not score.
  8. I am shocked that this group did not come up with RIBALD.
  9. I usually do the Sunday puzzle which requires a five letter word. Will check this out
  10. Funny, was just thinking that I had not seem a post from you lately. Now that I have, I am wondering where you have been,
  11. Radio personality and cutting edge radio broadcaster, Don Imus has passed away at 79 years old. I remember listening to Imus in the Morning when commuting to my medical school rotations, He was outrageous and topical and very funny. His direct heir, Howard Stern, took many a page from the Imus playbook and twisted them into a more juvenile and and overtly sexual direction. For a time, both Imus and Stern were on the same radio station in NYC. Imus had the coveted AM drive time slot and Stern the evening drive slot. Stern eventually became more controversial anymore popular, pushing Imus or perhaps pulling him down the same juvenile, puerile path. Eventually, Imus created quite a local controversy regarding the Rutgers' College Women's basketball team and racial remarks he made about the appearance of the team members. This played a small role in Imus leaving that station, I always preferred Imus. He did start a yearly charitable radio drive to raise money for the homeless which has grown quite large. Though I have not heard his show in years, I was saddened when I learned of his passing.
  12. William Erickson was at the Palm Springs get together and at the Washington get together and I hired him at both locations. I also had him visit me at my home. Great guy. Intelligent and fun. I contacted him over the summer and he was in Europe and when he returned, I texted him a general hello, only to find out he had retired from escort. He may have retired once before, so I am hoping for his return.
  13. There is a thread started by a newcomer and in it he listed about 20 escorts who he has considered hiring, In looking down his list, there were some escorts whose name prompted me to check out their ad and others I easily flew past. XL or XXL in the name holds no interest for me. Muscle or Hunk in the name invokes just enough sass for me to check out that ass. So what about you? Any part of name make the ad worth checking out?
  14. usually 520 a song so twenties are a nice denomination unless you like long slow dances, then bring the Benjamins .
  15. I met him at the Palm Springs get together and though I spent a bit of time with him, it was not for professional purposes. He is a nice guy and looks great in clothes. Wish I had gotten to see him out of his clothes.
  16. I have many Spanish speaking patients, I always ask, in Spanish, if they prefer English or Spanish. That is much easier on my ego then speaking to them in Spanish and having them respond in English, which I usually take as a non-verbal way of telling me their English is better than my Spanish, and it usually is.
  17. Prefiero hablar en español Without explanation should do the trick. No need to involve your friend's language skills nor imply that you need practice with your Spanish. Simple and true.
  18. purplekow

    Too honest?

    If by being good, you mean doing well for others to your own detriment, then I would say one should not be good all the time. There are times when saying no may be good but not perceived that way by the one hearing it. So rather than being good, I think one should be kind, careful of the feelings of others and honest. When you are those things, you are good to yourself and good to others, whether they think so or not.
  19. I had a patient stalk me. She was in her 80s and demented. Once I treated her hypothyroidism, she stopped making sexual remarks and the letters to my home mailbox stopped, but she continued to pass by my office and stare in the windows. I also had an 18 year old woman who came to the office way too often regarding her carpal tunnel syndrome, My wife worked in my office at the time and she was not very happy with that situation. The worst was a middle aged woman who once came in for a breast exam at around Halloween time. She had always been a flirt and at times aggressive about it. She came into the office and asked if I had received pictures of her breasts and kept asking just that way. This led to a rather pointed conversation about the appropriateness of her comments. She said she was just trying to make a joke and was inquiring about her mammogram results. When it came time to do the exam. She had colored her rather ample breasts orange and asked me how I liked her pumpkins. Patients like these are the reason I always have an chaperone in the office. I also had a young man who was receiving testosterone injections for hypogonadism as a result of abuse of testosterone and gonadal insufficiency. He claimed he was unable to give himself the injections and he would come in regularly for his testosterone injection. He had quite the stunning physique and each time he received his injection he asked that he get the shot in the rump and he lowered his pants and underwear totally to the ground. Right after the injection, he would stroke the area suggestively. So, point being, there are lots of flirts and more and from my point of view, male or female patient, I have a chaperone in the room.
  20. I have had an escort tell me he loved me but he was not in love with me. I am not the kind of guy who says I love you to anyone, so I was taken aback but I knew that he meant I love you in the I love spending time with you and love you as a friend way.
  21. I do not usually google check escorts, in fact I have never done so before this one. I was trying to get a contact as I cannot use roentgen contact because they do not allow return mail to AOL. But with two clicks, I was on his linked page and Facebook page. And while I did not spend time thoroughly checking it out, it does appear he is still work for the DOJ. It does not mean he is not also escorting, but he should probably disconnect the two worlds.
  22. After a very basic check, it seems he has worked for the Department of Justice for 28 years and has been involved with human trafficking. Sounds like an upright guy. Would love to date him but I hesitate to hire him as I have no desire to get caught up with the law when hiring. If anyone does hire him, please get back to this thread because right now my big head is in charge but my little head is not totally convinced.
  23. I put in versatile in my selection criteria and his name came up. I have not contacted him yet, so I do not know. his preferences. If he is exclusively a top, there are still things which can be mutually fun, depending on his limitations, but it would limit activity.
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